In some way & form i imagine i would like it...
(I specifically write 'would', because depression, social anxiety and agoraphobia don't make any kind of dating viable for me, let alone easy
)
As it's a part of the 'small talk during sex', being called something can definitely add to the flavor.
Kristy already kinda described it:
Being called a slut during sex i feel would endow you with a compliment.
I do think it has a tad of submissiveness too it though, at least for me.
Being called an '
angel' or a '
goddess' or something would be putting you on a high pedestal - being called a '
bitch' or '
slut' is a lot more demeaning, but at least it still means
'hey, (at least) you're good / great for sex'.
To give a few more examples, together with Kristy's suggestion of getting your hair pulled (thx for the suggestion
) i'd envision my sexual partner, after my violent orgasm nummer 7 or something, asking me
'wow, you are one horny little slut, aren't you?'
And to add to being called a slut, i think there's added taste to calling yourself one; by answering him
'yes sir, i àm a horny little slut'. ?
I've got a similar limit to some versions:
While i'd definitely still accept terms like
'dirty slut' or
'nasty slut' (because things like swallowing horsecum or being decked by several dogs def. falls in the
dirty and
nasty categories in my book), the minute it turns into
'useless slut' or
'worthless slut'... it starts to rub me the wrong way.
That's where that last sliver of compliment falls away, and it turns into an insult for me (as in 'not even as a slut you're usefull' ? ).
To elaborate on the sex-talk department:
do you guys like it if we moan out stuff like 'fuck me harder' or 'god, you're wrecking me'..?
And can we also turn it into a possible demeaning thing, like mocking you with
'is this really the best you can do?' ?
