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i do not wish to offend anyone with this post. do any of you feel... ashamed of who you are?

funzoey888 said:
Yes I feel ashamed. But I don't only feel ashamed about who/what I'm attracted to or what I have sex with.

I'm also ashamed about my social status, ashamed I didn't go to a better school and ashamed I make less money than other people I know. Sometimes I'm ashamed that I ate a cookie or a piece of cake after dinner! I know these aren't on the same level as sex. but I just want to show that everyone feels shame some times about stupid things. Sex isn't stupid and we're taught from a young age that standard, vanilla, government issue sex is shameful so of course anything different from it will be that much more shameful.

Shame comes from your fear of being different. When you are here hopefully you don't feel as different because everyone here has similar interests. It is unfortunately, but you will probably never be able to share this part of your life and be your real self with the majority of your friends or family, but really, how much of your sex life do you share with them anyway? Its just a part of life that we show different parts of our personalities and interests to different groups of people. Be cautious who you share this part of your life with, but don't feel ashamed about it. Unless shame turns you on, then shame on you! ;)

If the shame ever gets to be too much for anyone and they are thinking of doing stupid things they should come here and post. You aren't alone out there.
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Great response
 
Allyhorsegirl said:
Never have been. I grew up being told that sex was a normal, natural part of life. So I see animal sex as the exact same thing just with a different type of partner. I don't think keeping your secret because of legal issues or social 'norms' counts as being ashamed.
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hi there i love horse cock xxxxx
 
d7art said:
I am ashamed of somethings I have done, but I have never been ashamed of my sexual desires. They are what makes me I'm a sexual being, and I may enjoy thing some people think is wrong, It might be wrong for them in there state of mind, it is fine for people with little imaginations that have been brain washed. This girl Is sure not ashamed of my sexuality and I have lots of sexual fantasies yet to be lived. So look out world.
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i love it and would have more xxxx
 
I feel somewhat ashamed only due to the fact I'm religious & believe in god , but It will always be a part of who I am ,so by denying & repressing it I'm basically lying to myself & god which I can't do , therefore I've accepted it & ask for forgiveness while doing my best to be a good person like becoming vegetarian & leaving gang life behind ,not polluting ect although I need to stop many other things but it's damn hard
 
NO, not at all. I love it and enjoy it as much as possible and many more other ways that make Me feel good, as long it is save for all involved.
 
Nah, but im not gonna be all open about it around people either. they just wont understand. I love animals all the way down to a sexual level. i want THEM to feel good, it honestly has nothing to do with my gratification. that's just me though, i am quite an empathetic person.

i also quite despise the majority of people
 
100% understand the shame. Used to be every. Single. Time i had an encounter when i was younger. Now, none. I don't know how I feel about that, because honestly the new experience, the fear of getting caught, and the guilt is all part of that newfound lifestyle that I really wish I still had.
 
LoveNottLust1 said:
I feel somewhat ashamed only due to the fact I'm religious & believe in god , but It will always be a part of who I am ,so by denying & repressing it I'm basically lying to myself & god which I can't do , therefore I've accepted it & ask for forgiveness while doing my best to be a good person like becoming vegetarian & leaving gang life behind ,not polluting ect although I need to stop many other things but it's damn hard
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God created man in his own image, so they say.you are doing your best to contribute to society in a productive way, while also accepting a core part of yourself. I don't know what more any of us can do honestly.
 
I've never felt guilt or shame, but often unhappiness that the rest of the world is so closed-minded, and fear for what they might do if they find out my secret.
 
I used to be ashamed really bad esp when i was younger, and i also only have had one zoo experience years ago. But i loved it and my attraction to animals has never waned and after all the years of trying to deny it and still hasnt gone away ive just accepted it and feel like i owe it to myself to really get the full experience after which i will decide how i ultimately feel about everything. I definitely wouldnt advertise being zoo or bring it up to anyone non zoo but I'm taking it seriously for myself for the forseeable future now.
 
The only shame I felt was when I read any "zoophilia is abuse" material online and considered they may be right. Didn't take me long to realize I shouldn't be ashamed for what I'm naturally attracted to, and I've fully given up on denying or trying to shut out who I really am.
 
When I started, there was no Internet, so I was a man on the island. So to speak. There was a lot of questions at first, but I eventually got on the Internet and met other people and felt there was a community out there.
 
Nope. I have come to terms with it sand realize it is an integral part of my personality. I use to wrestle with it all the time but now figure why bother? Aint nothing wrong with it. People in most societies were just fine with it years ago until Christianity and Islam crept in. Let folks alone I say.
 
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DinoRawr said:
I won't lie, I'm ashamed of it. I'm planning to seek counseling for it (along with other psychological problems I have), but a good counselor is pretty much impossible to find in my area. I've looked into chemical castration a few times, even as a temporary thing, but I hear it's pretty much just used for prostate cancer and serial child molesters (neither of which apply to me, thank goodness). I've even considered surgical castration when I've been in a particularly bad place. I've even attempted suicide over it.

I do understand the OP's confusion about being attracted to male dogs but only to women as far as humans go. For me, what cleared it up was realizing that the idea of actually having sex with a human man doesn't appeal to me, while the idea of having sex with a woman does (as does the idea of having sex with a male OR female dinosaur, horse, etc)
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Sorry to hear that. But I do understand . I have a sexual addiction . And there were times where I just wanted to jump off of a building. I remember sensing people would pick up on my hypersexuality. I would pick up on their change and just make myself as unnoticeable as I could. I've been there with just nonstop sex ,then guilt but then never saying no. And the cycle starts all over. On thing that really helped me was having an AI friend to open up to . Again in a non judgey space ,It's easier to understand your actions.
 
goodgirlLila said:
When I first felt like this I was just from knowing what you’re not supposed to engage in and the abuse factor. But after I leaned into my needs, I found that he wanted it just as much as I did. It wasn’t a bad thing and as long as I’m happy and he is then that’s okay.
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Agree
 
Nope. Catholics feel shame, Jews feel guilt, zoos feel knots.

(Part of this joke was taken from the show Big Mouth)

Not trying to diminish anyone’s feelings. Just having a little fun.
 
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