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i do not wish to offend anyone with this post. do any of you feel... ashamed of who you are?

I am Taiwanese, in my case it is
My family knew that I had sex with animals, and they readily accepted it. Although they did not express their support for this practice, they respected that this is my life and I make my own decisions.
 
The key to this for me is that I have accepted a long long time ago that this is something I am into. Not necessarily in a kink sense, even! I have genuine interest in a relationship with a dog (Although more specifically, if my current partner were transformed INTO a dog.) or some other kind of animal and any negative feelings of guilt or whatever are unnecessary and would just serve to make one miserable.
 
Sometimes..? I'm new to all this, but some recent stuff I've seen (YouTubers bashing on Zoos) kind of scare me into thinking "Maybe I'm the one in the wrong?". I'm here to hopefully get over feeling that way, it seems a lot more people are into this than I originally thought, which is encouraging! I probably won't come out to anyone after fully accepting it myself though.
 
I am trying to be unashamed of who I am
God made me this way for a reason and as long as l am acting out of love that is all that matters. I will never initiate anything intimate and will leave it up to my animal partner so I do not feel bad. I only feel bad that others do not understand animal body language and this includes other zoos who may do things harmful to their partners purely out of lust

If you let the guilt and shame consume you, you will never truly live
 
In my teens it was kinda a mixture of shame but at the same time I was fascinated and it even felt kinda cool and special being zoo.

While growing older I just accepted how I am and just try to find an ethical way to deal with my needs in that regard.
 
I was ashamed until recently.
I lived with my feelings hidden from anyone and it has cost me some important things during mi lifetime. Most recently, my 9 year old relationship... Out of desperation and feeling so alone and rejected I ended up confessing my actual sexuality to one of my closest friend (wich I don't actually recommend doing) and he has become a huge support in my life. I am so grateful to be who I am now... I don't feel ashamed anymore, and feel like I've wasted more than half my life feeling that way.
 
I didn't use too but now I am not so certain. 10 years ago things were much better for zoo's

Now it seems like im surrounded by hate 24/7 it makes me feel bad and makes me feel shame.
 
Zethin said:
I didn't use too but now I am not so certain. 10 years ago things were much better for zoo's

Now it seems like im surrounded by hate 24/7 it makes me feel bad and makes me feel shame.
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It's more important than ever to surround yourself with like minded people who understand
It's okay to be your authentic self just be mindful of who you open up to about this part of you
 
Cat97 said:
It's more important than ever to surround yourself with like minded people who understand
It's okay to be your authentic self just be mindful of who you open up to about this part of you
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I couldn't agree more. Opening up with people about this is most probably going to backfire in a really bad way. This kind of information has the potential to nuke one's lifestyle to the ground. I was ready to let it all behind, move out of town and start all over again when I confessed to my friend because you never know how will someone react to this kind of info. A lot of people today just loves to hate other people, and they will do it without remorse... I wonder why such people think they are better when they are the ones providing suffering... Makes me sick and sad.
 
I don't feel ashamed, it changed me physically, mentally and psychological and won't give up this lifestyle, only a few friends and family knows about my zoo life, but mostly I keep to myself, not socialising with anyone, more of an introvert, strictly on things, stubborn, more privacy and no interverence but reliable when they need me.
 
a little bit of guilt i do feel, and it's been that way ever since i started lol. but since then i've assumed it's just the bad outlook from the people i love and all and that the guilt comes from closeting myself and hiding it from them. something like that.
 
Goozeflzh said:
I am a 23 y/o transguy who have always been into girls.
I also happen to have a rather low sex drive, and I am very content with being single and I do not crave for any sort of intimacy. Especially not emotionally.
But at the same time, I have also always been into male dogs. Which is weird because I'm not into human males at all really. At least I don't think so. I consider myself straight. Seriously. I am so confused by this.

I do not live by myself at the moment, and I have only been with a dog yeaaaars ago, but ever since then I have had, uh, a craving. But I hate it. It makes me feel ashamed. I don't understand why. Is it the taboo of it all? What else could it be? I want to keep it behind closed doors, but internally acting out on it would make me feel so ashamed, even though I really want to act on it someday.

Does anyone else feel the same?
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Don’t be ashamed of what you enjoy or crave
Find others with the same passions and explore it
Who says it’s not normal ? Society?
What part of society is normal?
Live what you love and love what you live
 
I’m extremely angry at the world for making me this way, but fuck it there’s nothing I can really do!!
 
I appreciate the note, @Steven Raccoon ... I wouldn't go so far as to tell you to fuck off, partner *shrug* but maybe just a lil reminder to make sure you're not being as much of an asshole as they are being the idiot. New face or old hand around here, the outside world is a VERY incredibly unfriendly place for everyone in the zoo universe. Sorta nice that this place is 180° different than that.

Or should be.
 
Lil Stevie Blunder is at it again....yo, Stevie....you've said you're deaf....are you blind too? Either of those afflictions can bring out the worst in people... but the Dumpster is the place for incivility. Trying out to replace Rexie?
 
Ashamed? I suppose i would be if there wasnt loads everyone demands i be ashamed of, even just existing is a crime these days to some. All we can do really is shrug, try not to think about such minute details and let the pieces fall where they may. Regardless of attractions/affiliations i am told are wrong, regardless of prejudices i am told to have (even if not valid) or do have and are called evil for, regardless if by my own blunt honsty and pension for being way too wordy due to long term social isolation are seen as idiotic or wasteful, keep moving on and let the truth (even if most wont accept them) carry me. Its the best we can do given all the factors that keep us down in the mud. There is no acceptence it from others, we just have to accept that ourselves. While the future is uncertain, that feeling might never change.
 
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