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How do I find a beast girlfriend?

Nice it worked out for you, but I'm probably not really fast with telling this kinks upfront, unless i do know the dating get really serious and the woman is really REALLY open minded.
Not so much being fast telling them. Its just dating someone who is sexually adventurous.
 
Well I'm talking with someone I share a lot with about sexual thing's, but this still keeps on the background ? as I say if it gets really serious i will test these grounds a bit more, she has potential though ?
Nice to hear that! Fingers crossed?
 
Wish I have the opportunity to have a girl like that in the near future. I’d think I’m the luckiest man on earth I think. As part of her sexual/personal life you gotta understand, respect and enjoy when she shares it with you. Just don’t force, don’t control, take it easy and let her be herself ;)
 
I think the key is just to be yourself and be honest and they will find you. Women are a hell of a lot smarter than men, and the sooner you accept that the better off you'll be. lol
 
Tons of guys say they want a gf into it. Reality though is only so many guys can actually handle it in any sort of mature manner.

It seems what they really fantasize about and "want" is a girl who does not have a dog already and she is "curious" so they can think that they're unlocking some secret hidden slut or something. And he can control the entire situation.
Funnily enough I have gotten remarks* about being seen as a "cuckold" or something for being realistically fine with the idea of having an SO that also has a canine partner already.

But it's also very hard to communicate on this/being accepting of this and even harder finding people, especially female, that will speak freely on the subject. Talkers are hard to find, just as well as people who tolerate talkers.

* From fellow men
 
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Funnily enough I have gotten remarks about being seen as a "cuckold" or something for being realistically fine with the idea of having an SO that also has a canine partner already.

But it's also very hard to communicate on this/being accepting of this and even harder finding people, especially female, that will speak freely on the subject. Talkers are hard to find, just as well as people who tolerate talkers.
I know that TECHNICALLY yes, it IS cuckolding.......but, I never even thought of it that way until I saw someone here saying that.

I guess because the dynamic is so different? I started out at the viewing side and moved over to the active participation side, so maybe thats why? I dont really know. Or really care at this point to be honest.

I do know that what cuckolds describe, talk about as far as what attracts them to that is not even really close to what drives me, or goes on in my head.

SO, even with it technically being that, I dont describe it or think of it that way and I dont consider myself that.

To each their own, I guess. Thats good enough for me.
 
I know that TECHNICALLY yes, it IS cuckolding.......but, I never even thought of it that way until I saw someone here saying that.

I guess because the dynamic is so different? I started out at the viewing side and moved over to the active participation side, so maybe thats why? I dont really know. Or really care at this point to be honest.

I do know that what cuckolds describe, talk about as far as what attracts them to that is not even really close to what drives me, or goes on in my head.

SO, even with it technically being that, I dont describe it or think of it that way and I dont consider myself that.

To each their own, I guess. Thats good enough for me.
 

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I would be a dream come true to find a girlfriend who is into the lifestyle and enjoys it as much as me. But realistically I will already be happy with a girl that makes me happy. Still, a man can dream... if I could have a girl that makes me happy, loves me for me, and is into dogs... wow!
 
I would be a dream come true to find a girlfriend who is into the lifestyle and enjoys it as much as me. But realistically I will already be happy with a girl that makes me happy. Still, a man can dream... if I could have a girl that makes me happy, loves me for me, and is into dogs... wow!
A beautiful girl that loves you and makes you happy, that’s more than enough. If she’s into dogs that would be an amazing plus, something beyond ;)
 
You don't find girls like that. Such girls arise on their own in favorable conditions.
Find a girl you're compatible with at the vanilla level. Then as you guys explore your sexual relationship, help her feel safe, both emotionally and physically. Help her realize that you'll NEVER judge her. I've found that if a woman is into you and really really trusts you she'll open up.

Every woman I've met who's into this dropped hints once she felt safe.

If she gets any inkling you're only interested in her for sex, she won't open up. Or if she does, there's a good chance it will be for a one nighter.

Finally, realize that a mutual interest in this is not basis for a solid relationship. It can only be icing on the cake.

Too many guys try to "game" this. Women will spot that in a heartbeat.
 
Find a girl you're compatible with at the vanilla level. Then as you guys explore your sexual relationship, help her feel safe, both emotionally and physically. Help her realize that you'll NEVER judge her. I've found that if a woman is into you and really really trusts you she'll open up.

Every woman I've met who's into this dropped hints once she felt safe.

If she gets any inkling you're only interested in her for sex, she won't open up. Or if she does, there's a good chance it will be for a one nighter.

Finally, realize that a mutual interest in this is not basis for a solid relationship. It can only be icing on the cake.

Too many guys try to "game" this. Women will spot that in a heartbeat.
well said
 
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I 24 m have enjoyed all of this most of my life, the only problem is it’s not something I ever feel comfortable bringing up. The few times I ever have it was shut down or called gross. I’m trying to find any girls who are into it that would be willing to talk and maybe pick out a nice dog with me. Any recommendations or any girls interested??
 
So basically like the title says...

I really want a girlfriend who is into at least dogs. Either already doing things or wants to.

How do I find a girl like this without embarrassing myself?

Im sure its just luck based, Im trying to find a man irl with the same taste but haven't so far
 
Well from my experience I'm accepting that this is a part of my life I'm keeping hidden from her. I've broached the subject of how she feels about people that are into it and it wasn't the best reaction. But life goes on and the life we have isn't worth loosing over my sexual desires. Sad story but hey ho, least I have you guys!
 
Very difficult. I've never personally brung it up in relationships, and when I've brought it up a little joke amongst friends, I've only heard bad reactions. So yeah, get lucky I suppose :(

Speaking of, if there's any zoo girls in NZ who, at the very least, want to open a dialogue in dms, let me know.
 
So I’d like to know a few ways some people have managed to find a partner thats also into zoo and how it all happened, as well as if anything bad has ever happened trying to meet them like threatening to out them etc.
 
Kinda seems like if you want to find someone like that, you’ll have to be open about it with people you meet, which means you’ll have to be okay with embarrassing yourself a little bit. You’re kind of asking how to make an omelette without breaking any eggs.
 
I think too many guys are expecting women who enjoy this to be a type. You can tell by the questions asked. As I said previously, you're better off finding women who share your other other, vanilla, interests. Ones that are important to you. Otherwise your relationship won't last. Then think of ways to break the ice. Don't try to stereotype women who enjoy this. I personally go for chemistry first.

I just posted the following comment on another thread, "Where are the women who love this?"

They're all around you. They're the woman you noticed when grocery shopping. They're the college girl you never got the nerve to say hi to. They're the woman sitting in front of you in church. They're the shop girl at the mall who looks totally innocent. They're the bookish woman at the library. They're the girl you broke up with. They're your next door neighbor. They're the friend of a friend. It's very likely you already know a woman who's interested in this.

Too many guys expect a woman who's a dog lover to be a type, to be different than other women. Well they are different in only one way. They love or fantasize about having sex with dogs. Otherwise they're no different than any other woman.

The trick in finding them is simple. Look for women you find interesting in other ways. Then learn to drop hints, use innuendo, watch for subtle clues, be willing to take a chance.
 
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