@wishboner @mitch_ire and all others concerned:
The slutty things I've said on this thread and the "Slut" thread notwithstanding, there are a lot of very fine women out there who, upon first meeting you, will NOT jump on top of you and ride you till sun-up! Many want a relationship first, especially if they're hetero.
Okay, fine. Find the best one you like, looks and personality, OFFLINE, not on any website. Give her and yourself that relationship.
Put in the time that requires! I know you're both gamers, so, no video games, either! Do you hear me? You will find that LOTS of those women CAN become wild sluts, IF you put in the time with that relationship thing.
Many just want to make sure you're WORTH it before they let you play with that side of her. Try it, and not just once. Keep trying until it works! Who knows - she just might end up being a wild, fuck-filthy slut.
There's my very best advice.