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(serious topic) Do you ever feel guilt over your sexuality?

Alphashepherd said:
to be honest the fact that it is somehow wrong makes it hotter
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I used to feel guilty over wanting to have sex with some of my family members. Then I read Kinsey studies in the 50s and I realized I wasn't alone. Same thing for Beast. I would only feel guilty if I had pedo thought but fortunately I'm not wired that way. I do feel some compassion for those that do since I dated a woman who had those urges.
 
Eh, I would say that I enjoyed seeing some videos that are over my welfare standards . Well, no problem in doing those things to people, but animals... I don't thing they have the right mindset. And since I keep them apart from the rest, that's proof of guilt...
I also can say that some of the species that I like, it's basically impossible to have a relationship, I can't keep them and they will not stay around, still I plan going for the "one night stand" thing, kinda heartless... meh zooutopia isn't real...
 
The only guilt I feel is the fear of a potential girlfriend/wife finding out about my kink(s), and then deciding to leave me.
 
I do feel guilt.
I started at a young age, I’d enjoy it and then the post orgasmic clarity sets in and you sit there and think about what you’ve just done. For the longest time that guilt happened, especially while living with my parents, I think it’s just your morals, legality and societies expectations that play on your mind.
Now that I live alone the feeling of guilt doesn’t happen as often, as I’m more comfortable in my own home knowing it’s just between me and my dog. However now that I have a boyfriend again, that feeling of guilt is starting to linger around once again!
 
Hannahrose676 said:
I do feel guilt.
I started at a young age, I’d enjoy it and then the post orgasmic clarity sets in and you sit there and think about what you’ve just done. For the longest time that guilt happened, especially while living with my parents, I think it’s just your morals, legality and societies expectations that play on your mind.
Now that I live alone the feeling of guilt doesn’t happen as often, as I’m more comfortable in my own home knowing it’s just between me and my dog. However now that I have a boyfriend again, that feeling of guilt is starting to linger around once again!
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Damn, if you feel comfortable with him, maybe try hinting? Like making jokes, "accidentally" coming across zoo porn on a mixed porn site, something like that?
 
Me? Ha! I done shot that animal dead years ago.
I don’t have time the will or enough ammo to keep fight that battle. If anything I wish I started earlier before I lost my girl years back.
 
I don't and I am at a pretty young age. Still, no one around me knows about it.
I think I don't feel guilt because it all started with a community, I was not alone in this kind of things for a long time. I quickly found people doing the same on the internet. I never had any sexual experience but I think it will come one day.
Btw I'm french, I hope you don't mind my english. Peace ^^
 
I have to admit I do feel guilty about it sometimes. I've never had a zoo experience, but I hope if I do it just feels so right the guilt goes away. I've enjoyed seeing everyone's answers, if you're feeling guilty (or have) feel free to dm me. I'd love to talk some more about this.
 
Yes all the time this is not me i can literally sense that, i am like this as my brain directs me to do so which acts as a medicine. The reason because i am this is I am always being bullied from the beginning of my life. By my mother especially then father then sisters. My mother used to curse me all the time and used to add bad names or sentences with my name. And there was physical too almost everyday. After that then came the public people. Because of all this i am afraid and coward all the time which makes me an easy target. Still facing today. I don't even have the courage to look into someone's eyes and talk toughly.

Because of this i never had any true friends nor any female friends. Everyone avoided me.
 
I used to feel bad about my self in the beginning. Almost everybody probably has. But after some careful thinking and considerations I figured there is nothing you can do about it. You are what you are and I am a zoophile. I have never hurt an animal and I am never going to. I love my dog and being zoo opened up possibilities for me that I would have never had without being zoo.
 
Fantasy said:
Yes all the time this is not me i can literally sense that, i am like this as my brain directs me to do so which acts as a medicine. The reason because i am this is I am always being bullied from the beginning of my life. By my mother especially then father then sisters. My mother used to curse me all the time and used to add bad names or sentences with my name. And there was physical too almost everyday. After that then came the public people. Because of all this i am afraid and coward all the time which makes me an easy target. Still facing today. I don't even have the courage to look into someone's eyes and talk toughly.

Because of this i never had any true friends nor any female friends. Everyone avoided me.
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Are you able to move far away? Get a new circle of people around you?
I was bullied horribly when I was a kid, I went trough so much horror that I am now a lifetime PTSD sufferer, also depression. But when I was able to get away from the group of horrible, shitty people I grew up with.. I realized people actually really like me, and I am very likeable person who can find friends easily. I was just picked on because I was kind and sensitive.
You don't necessarily need to be bold and brave to socialize, you could find other shy and meek friends. Don't give up!
 
Not anymore. I used to. But these days I admitted to many friends saying them Yes i am a true zoophile boy and loove animal sex. Of course being careful and no co-workers or family know. But lots of friends and internet friends know that and even heard and seem me on video chats saying that. It actually feel so good admitting that.
 
HoundDogRuffDog said:
Are you able to move far away? Get a new circle of people around you?
I was bullied horribly when I was a kid, I went trough so much horror that I am now a lifetime PTSD sufferer, also depression. But when I was able to get away from the group of horrible, shitty people I grew up with.. I realized people actually really like me, and I am very likeable person who can find friends easily. I was just picked on because I was kind and sensitive.
You don't necessarily need to be bold and brave to socialize, you could find other shy and meek friends. Don't give up!
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Yes i am away from that place now, it has been few months now. But still i see females consider me like that.
 
HoundDogRuffDog said:
Are you able to move far away? Get a new circle of people around you?
I was bullied horribly when I was a kid, I went trough so much horror that I am now a lifetime PTSD sufferer, also depression. But when I was able to get away from the group of horrible, shitty people I grew up with.. I realized people actually really like me, and I am very likeable person who can find friends easily. I was just picked on because I was kind and sensitive.
You don't necessarily need to be bold and brave to socialize, you could find other shy and meek friends. Don't give up!
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Yes i am away from that place now, it has been few months now. But still i see females consider me like that.
HoundDogRuffDog said:
Are you able to move far away? Get a new circle of people around you?
I was bullied horribly when I was a kid, I went trough so much horror that I am now a lifetime PTSD sufferer, also depression. But when I was able to get away from the group of horrible, shitty people I grew up with.. I realized people actually really like me, and I am very likeable person who can find friends easily. I was just picked on because I was kind and sensitive.
You don't necessarily need to be bold and brave to socialize, you could find other shy and meek friends. Don't give up!
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Yes i am away from that place now, it has been few months now. But still i see females consider me like that.
 
Never. Consensual and everyone's happy. No reason for guilt. The social stigma is illogical and invalid so it weighs not even one ounce on my conscience.
 
i feel more of a sadness/depression than guilt from time to time... not because who i am or what i like to do, but how the public sees us and that i'll never be able to be open about it.. you know, like the random banter about our partners when we go out for a beer with friends, i will never be able to be part of that. my friends probably think i'm still a virgin, because i never partake in their "let's check girls around out" conversations

passing of my boy was all the more devastating since i wasn't even able to tell anyone except here how much he really ment to me...

also the amount of ppl who just come here and are like "looking for someone to give me their dog to fuck" as if they were just warm dildos/hairy fleshlights makes me believe the public will never see us as "legit sexuality" group... it might also be the first thing random ppl who look for dirt see here and it can only reinforce their perception of us just using animals as human substitutes or whatever....
 
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I definitely do, it's reflected in my name k9 secret, I have to stay under cover because its most definitely frowned upon here, people can't accept that I like to watch ladies getting pleasure from essentially pets... It does not compute in their heads so yes I do feel a bit guilty... ?
 
Lookin4K9ass said:
Yes. It is not right to want to fuck animals
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It is right to want that, it is not right to just come here expecting people to simply hand over their dog because a random person really really wants to fuck a dog. They are not just dogs. There is nothing like "just a dog", they are not a walking sex toy, they are living, thinking, feeling, sentient partners.

I am willing to share my dog with another zoo. Because dogs are not monogamous. But I have to know that person well, that person has to be a friend and I have to know they share my opinions and rules about animals. I need to know I can trust them. And my dog has to be ok with them doing it.
 
nekdoneco123 said:
i feel more of a sadness/depression than guilt from time to time... not because who i am or what i like to do, but how the public sees us and that i'll never be able to be open about it.. you know, like the random banter about our partners when we go out for a beer with friends, i will never be able to be part of that. my friends probably think i'm still a virgin, because i never partake in their "let's check girls around out" conversations

passing of my boy was all the more devastating since i wasn't even able to tell anyone except here how much he really ment to me...

also the amount of ppl who just come here and are like "looking for someone to give me their dog to fuck" as if they were just warm dildos/hairy fleshlights makes me believe the public will never see us as "legit sexuality" group... it might also be the first thing random ppl who look for dirt see here and it can only reinforce their perception of us just using animals as human substitutes or whatever....
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It's a perception we as a group will have to overcome. It probably is similar to how attitudes towards homosexuality started long ago. Sure there were people that just thought of the same sex as sexual objects. Hell, there are plenty of straight people that think same about the opposite sex.
My time here has showed me that the majority that stick around, are not just about the sex, there is a deeper connection to their partners there. It'll be a hard battle that will probably never be won unless we can break down the communication barrier between humans and animals. The consent argument goes out the window then.
 
raks said:
It's a perception we as a group will have to overcome. It probably is similar to how attitudes towards homosexuality started long ago. Sure there were people that just thought of the same sex as sexual objects. Hell, there are plenty of straight people that think same about the opposite sex.
My time here has showed me that the majority that stick around, are not just about the sex, there is a deeper connection to their partners there. It'll be a hard battle that will probably never be won unless we can break down the communication barrier between humans and animals. The consent argument goes out the window then.
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I don't think there is a communication barrier. I can understand dogs just fine and so do many other people. We do know when they are hungry, itchy, in pain, need walkies, want to play etc.. we do speak to them and them to us. Same with horses, goats, sheep.. just many species. We are already talking with them.
We need to stop humoring this "animals can't consent" shit straight-up. They can, they do and we understand them!
What we need to break out of is the infantilization of all animal life.
People keep companion animals a lot because they want something that is like a baby. Animals have trough out the whole history been thought as "lesser". Humans even thought at one point that animals don't have feelings at all or even feel pain! They were thought of as stupid husks which only respond robotically to their environment.

Thank god we are already past that, but we still need to get past the idea that animals are "like a three year old child intelligent-wise" and other crap. We need to stop measuring them by human standards, waiting for them to jump on two legs and utter the clear words "I consent to this sexual act, yesssire I dooo!" and understand them as they are.
 
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HoundDogRuffDog said:
I don't think there is a communication barrier. I can understand dogs just fine and so do many other people. We do know when they are hungry, itchy, in pain, need walkies, want to play etc.. we do speak to them and them to us. Same with horses, goats, sheep.. just many species. We are already talking with them.
We need to stop humoring this "animals can't consent" shit straight-up. They can, they do and we understand them!
What we need to break out of is the infantilization of all animal life.
People keep companion animals a lot because they want something that is like a baby. Animals have trough out the whole history been thinked as "lesser". Humans even thought at one point that animals don't have feelings at all or even feel pain! They were thought of as stupid husks which only respond robotically to their environment.

Thank god we are already past that, but we still need to get past the idea that animals are "like a three year old child intelligent-wise" and other crap. We need to stop measuring them by human standards, waiting for them to jump on two legs and utter the clear words "I consent to this sexual act, yesssire I dooo!" and understand them as they are.
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I meant specifically the verbal part of communication, so that without a doubt no can argue the consent nonsense. But it would also go to supporting the other good point you bring up, the infantilization of animals. Hell, if my dogs could actually talk, they'd probably tell me to stop using baby talk to them lol.
But I agree, the ignorant will still argue many of these points even though I am able to clearly communicate very well with my dogs. They can understand complex instructions, just because they don't talk back doesn't mean they aren't smart in their own right.
 
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