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(serious topic) Do you ever feel guilt over your sexuality?

Having gone from being thoughts only for 30 years to an active zoo in the past 6 months and moving in with another zoo soon, yeah I feel guilty, but then I was raised catholic I feel guilt over everything.
But yeah a small part of me is terrified and constantly shaming itself. Like, Im sure my shrink wouldn't approve nor would anyone else I know besides 1 or 2 friends.
 
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HorseInspector069 said:
Honestly no. When I was much younger I was more concerned with my not being straight than I was going down on a lab as often as she wanted. My attraction to animals was just part of my sexual awakening as a teen which is probably why it never was a guilt issue, but I always kept my zoo nature to myself and only let a few other people know over the years. As I've come to accept myself as someone who enjoys sex with humans and non humans alike, its just part of who I am. I have always been vigilant in keeping things under wraps, not from shame but in the interest of keeping myself and my nonhuman partners safe.
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That is exactly how I feel.
 
It's never bothered me in the slightest, I have always been as I am and thought of myself as normal. So what that I prefer mares to women, sure made my teenage years a hell of a lot easier as I spent my free time going places with my mare instead of chasing teenage girls like most guys my age did.
 
A little bit, as I feel I have to hide, but... I am accepting myself more and more thanks to the people here ^w^ I am meeting more people who I can share my thoughts with and I am enjoying it a lot now, I dont feel completely alone.
 
knotinterested said:
I know that society would say that we all should be ashamed of what we do, but I say as long as you are not hurting anyone or an animal in what you do then there is nothing to feel guilty about.
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knotinterested said:
I guess I have always felt like I was doing something that was wrong - something that society said we couldn't do - But it is more of a feeling of being naughty and not one of guilt. I enjoy being naughty.
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As I said in this thread in two other posts. ?

One thing I would add is that if you do feel any guilt in having sex with an animal then if it were me I would stop. I think associating guilt with sex is unhealthy (Mentally) to begin with and therefore it should be avoided because over time it is not going to improve to the point of having no guilt.

BTW Shame is not necessarily guilt. Shame is most likely a result of what society has taught you over the years.
 
knotinterested said:
As I said in this thread in two other posts. ?

One thing I would add is that if you do feel any guilt in having sex with an animal then if it were me I would stop. I think associating guilt with sex is unhealthy (Mentally) to begin with and therefore it should be avoided because over time it is not going to improve to the point of having no guilt.

BTW Shame is not necessarily guilt. Shame is most likely a result of what society has taught you over the years.
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Yes totally guilt means confliction.
 
As a newbie this was one of the questions that I had. I’m struggling at times with the guilty feelings that I’m having. My experience so far has gone no further than being licked and in the moment I love it and don’t want it to end. But when it does end and I come down from the high, I start having thoughts about why did I let it happen, I have to stop it happening again, etc, etc.
 
Hello Shadow_Belle
As a k9 owner how has helped girls tom get started I do understand you might have some initial guilty feeling. Its normal. Most of society call this a taboo. So we who did not grow up into the lifestyle have a hard time coming to grips with the thought of being turned on by sex with an animal. This site will help you see you are not alone in this . We here all understand how beautiful erotic and sexy this is. I feel its no different then the way I was raised as a Catholic. Since grade one i was taut if you masturbated you were commenting a dirty sin and unless you confessed this to a priest to get god's forgiveness you would end up in hell some day.
Give me a break masturbating is natural and a healthy thing to do. The Catholic was of thinking made me feel guilty. Shame on the them . Ever K9 i had was more then happy to mount a girl if she wished. He was never forced . The fact is he totally enjoyed it. So I dont feel guilty for putting my dog in that situation or that I find it very erotic .
If it gives you pleasure just enjoy it
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Shadow_Belle said:
As a newbie this was one of the questions that I had. I’m struggling at times with the guilty feelings that I’m having. My experience so far has gone no further than being licked and in the moment I love it and don’t want it to end. But when it does end and I come down from the high, I start having thoughts about why did I let it happen, I have to stop it happening again, etc, etc.
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I have had the same experience and continue to do so after every session, it's not nearly as bad as it used to be but even after a few years of being active, I still have the occasional afterthought of ''why do I do this?'' but then when I get back in the mood again, it all goes away and I remember why I do it, because I love it and I'm not hurting anyone.
 
When I first started yes it was many years ago before the net.I grew up in a spiritual home and I was ashamed and guilty and didn’t feel I could discuss it with anyone. I probably could have but I did not and choose not to. It did not stop me from continuing. I rationalized it to myself that I couldn’t get pregnant no one was spreading rumors behind my back I was not forcing anything and I received great personal pleasure from it. It took me a couple of years to come to terms with myself and accept me. My only issue is the judgement and stigma society and the legal system places on this. Many of stigmas surrounding gay, lesbian and bi sexuality have if not disappeared have become accepted while this has not.
 
Like some of you, I was raised very Catholic, which worked WONDERS on me accepting my sexuality. Obviously, it was the source of a lot of shame as a teenager. Coupled with the fact that I was a loner and an outcast, dogs were my only company at times.

It got even worse when I entered my first serious relationship (with a human). I couldn't help myself, and I eventually "cheated." I came clean, but the fallout was pretty bad.

I only started accepting my sexuality a few years ago, and even then, I told myself I was never going to do "that" again. I got married since then. My wife knows, but I already promised her I was "done with all that."

My source of shame now is not so much that I'm a zoo, but more that it's making it harder for me to be faithful. I know I'm not the only one in the same predicament now. If my marriage ever fails, I think I'll live out the rest of my life as zoo exclusive.
 
FutureSugarDaddy said:
My source of shame now is not so much that I'm a zoo, but more that it's making it harder for me to be faithful. I know I'm not the only one in the same predicament now. If my marriage ever fails, I think I'll live out the rest of my life as zoo exclusive.
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I feel your pain on that front. I was fortunate enough not to have the strict religious upbringing to add additional guilt or conflicting thoughts. However, I still want to be faithful to my wife, but I still have fun with my dog. And I'm the same way, if the marriage fails, I'll end up being zoo exclusive.
 
raks said:
I feel your pain on that front. I was fortunate enough not to have the strict religious upbringing to add additional guilt or conflicting thoughts. However, I still want to be faithful to my wife, but I still have fun with my dog. And I'm the same way, if the marriage fails, I'll end up being zoo exclusive.
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Sometimes I wish I hadn't told my wife. That way, I could still have an outlet like you lol.
 
Not once have I ever felt guilty, and never will I.
As long as no one is hurt and everyone is clearly enjoying themselves, I see no reason to feel bad.
 
I would say yes and no. Yes because I know that society sees us in a light which is almost as bad as pedophilia, and it makes me think that there is something wrong with me that I feel this way. No, because I know myself that I have been this way since I was very young and didn't realize it at the time. (I would get seriously turned on by werewolves before I even knew what sex was) Over the past year of me being apart of this community, I have come to realize that it absolutely occurs naturally, and should be treated the same as any other sexuality.
 
The problem us that people don't see animals as sexual creatures with a need to release like us. They don't feel an animal can actually enjoy the act as if they get no pleasure out if procreating.

"Zoophilia is wrong. It's abuse to animals and you'll burn in hell !" - Fat guy eating a salami sandwich
 
knotsucker said:
The problem us that people don't see animals as sexual creatures with a need to release like us. They don't feel an animal can actually enjoy the act as if they get no pleasure out if procreating.

"Zoophilia is wrong. It's abuse to animals and you'll burn in hell !" - Fat guy eating a salami sandwich
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Hey, I'm not that guy anymore! (I was when I was 14...)
 
It's been many years since I've been an active zoo, but I'm still trying to figure myself out. I have always been an "only one thing at a time" kinda person. While an active zoo, I was an exclusive zoo (male dogs). When in a relationship with a human, I was exclusive to that person.
At this point, happily married almost 30 years, have not thought about "cheating" on my partner even once, with another human or animal.

Things that I thought about a lot at first:
  • Why did I do that? What would possess somebody to even think of such a thing? How could I?
  • What the hell am I doing? ... followed by extreme guilt and shame, which always wore off enough that I did it again.
  • The extreme isolation of thinking that I had to be the only person in the WORLD that ever did this (internet didn't exist when I started, so no way to find others to talk to).
  • I should stop doing it, but temptation wins, I do it again, and then feel guilty about it.
  • This is too great to stop, and I'm going to do it way more than should be done every chance I get ... Sometimes followed by not giving a fuck at all, and other times followed by shame and guilt.
  • How could anybody (person) EVER want somebody like me? I'm "tainted" or too weird or something.
  • The worrying extreme fear of being discovered. Enough fear that I've lurked other places for years wanting to reach out and talk to someone, but never did.
  • When I'm with a human, why do I find it so easy to not have overwhelming desires to "cheat" with an animal?
  • When I was only with animals, why was it so easy to not seek out intimate human companionship?
If I ever found myself alone again, I could easily revert back to exclusive zoo, but the desire to do that basically doesn't exist at the moment since I'm happy. Maybe that's part of the answer - when I'm happy, I'm not looking for something else. I'd love to have a long conversation with a therapist at some point, but that will never happen.

This is all fucked up, right? But, I can't be the only one. I'm still trying to figure all this out (which is the reason I'm here), but I no longer lose sleep over it.
 
I never experienced guilty but at moments I would feel like I was a weirdo. However now I only fear that people find out. Now I am no longer a weirdo in my eyes because come on who would look at a swollen juicy pussy and not want to lose yourself in it and if u don't u are weird
 
As I posted in another thread, I have tons of guilt but none of it over whom I suck or who sticks something in me. I don't consider myself "zoo" though. To me we're all animals. Sex is natural and we don't choose attraction. I want what I want when I want it and I feel no shame. I feel dirty sometimes but I like it.
 
kerijane said:
As I posted in another thread, I have tons of guilt but none of it over whom I suck or who sticks something in me. I don't consider myself "zoo" though. To me we're all animals. Sex is natural and we don't choose attraction. I want what I want when I want it and I feel no shame. I feel dirty sometimes but I like it.
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to be honest the fact that it is somehow wrong makes it hotter
 
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