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Have you told anyone about being into zoophlia?

Have only told two very close friends about it. We were talking about some stuff and I don't remember what brought me to tell one of them a bit disgusted of myself. I blurted everything out and that kinda helped them understand. I explained my greatest wish was to have a female dog and that I wanted her to be more than just a pet and I just described everything I'd do for my princess, sex being a plus. Both were surprisingly okay with it.

Since they are gay and also have a crush on me they told me something along the lines of wanting to be said dog hehe. I was surprised and asked them if they didn't think I was a horrible person because of the fuzzy consent thing and they pointed out that just as male dogs have a thing for their human and can fuck them it would be absurd to assume females don't have the same want and desire. They actually encouraged me to learn more about how animals actually show consent and after about three years I am here and I accepted this as part of my sexuality.

Of course, I would still not tell anyone else irl and even less out of this safe zone because of how taboo it is I just no longer reject this part of me
 
DoggoL0v3r said:
this is who you are, no need to feel guilty about it :)
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Perhaps not but it is perfectly okay to feel guilt or shame because there is no stopping it. Some people feel neither for it and that's good, but others will. I have been out of practice for over fifteen years and I still feel guilt and shame, but you deal with it and find ways to accept that part of you. This is the only reason I have an account on this site, to continue dealing with it.

Telling someone who has those feelings that there is no reason for them does not help.
 
d7art said:
I was wondering if I should tell him to come to ZooVille and introduce himself, and maybe he could find other people to talk to. I thought about what if stared looking into my posts, but at least it's not me that's telling him. There is some really nice people on here, I'm not sure if he would open up to them, but at least maybe he could find that we are not the only real beast people in the world. lol
I'm torn about what I should do or just leave it, I don't want to push, but I would at least make him feel it's alright to have these feeling.
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I think you shoud tell him about zooville and let him find his people :)
 
I told some people about my attractions. tho I dont feel comfortable calling this zoophilia because people pander associations with a disorder
 
Jill 83 said:
Perhaps not but it is perfectly okay to feel guilt or shame because there is no stopping it. Some people feel neither for it and that's good, but others will. I have been out of practice for over fifteen years and I still feel guilt and shame, but you deal with it and find ways to accept that part of you. This is the only reason I have an account on this site, to continue dealing with it.

Telling someone who has those feelings that there is no reason for them does not help.
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even then i felt like i wanted to make them more comfortable and happy, and i thought this would be a good way
 
stinkyskunk said:
My husband knows and supports it because he knows I'm not interested in raping animals and I've told a few close friends who have just as weird of kinks and fetishes as me lol. But other than that it's kept secret. When I'm around furries who go on tangents about zoophiles it's kind of awkward because in my head I'm like "Gee, nice to know that one interest of mine could ruin our friendship despite me doing nothing wrong or causing anybody harm". But my response to that is usually something like "Yeah, I don't really give a fuck about any of that lol"
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It’s incredible how some females enjoy it being a zoofile some husbands or boyfriends doesn’t know what lucky they are, wish I have a friend or girlfriend that enjoy it that I will always support her ?
 
My wife took me three hours to get the nerve to tell her. She was ok with it and it didn't seem to faze her at all. Since then she has played here and there
 
I understand not telling it , but then again it depends on how you view a relationship i mean if its serious he or she should accept you for what you are and if he or she doesent then well... if you tell i say tell it early on so you know where you stand. Always be mindful this is ilegal in most places so never give the other person proof , nothing that can be used against you after.
 
SultryHellhound said:
I guess that will be the worst part. I just know my mom will want grandkids. How do I go by through life without giving a hint that I just don't feel attracted to humans?
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Just lie and say you're asexual. Or just say you're bad with men/women depending on your sex. (And as an unattractive man saying that women don't find me attractive is a very easy and observably honest way of getting people off my back.)
 
Parents is a different thing , you know them best but be aware they are a different generation , so they might not understand it , if you depend on them that complicates things even further , if ure indepented you might tell them , but if you know they will 100% will not understand then telling them will just enbitter the situation which isnt good for anyone. THey want grandkids fine , you can ignore it or pretend your looking for the one , they dont need to know the one for you has 4 legs :)
 
dogsexromania said:
Parents is a different thing , you know them best but be aware they are a different generation , so they might not understand it , if you depend on them that complicates things even further , if ure indepented you might tell them , but if you know they will 100% will not understand then telling them will just enbitter the situation which isnt good for anyone. THey want grandkids fine , you can ignore it or pretend your looking for the one , they dont need to know the one for you has 4 legs :)
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How about no? Tell NO ONE and if you're looking for a partner tell them that you want an open relationship.
 
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