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Have you told anyone about being into zoophlia?

I told some people about my attractions. tho I dont feel comfortable calling this zoophilia because people pander associations with a disorder
 
Jill 83 said:
Perhaps not but it is perfectly okay to feel guilt or shame because there is no stopping it. Some people feel neither for it and that's good, but others will. I have been out of practice for over fifteen years and I still feel guilt and shame, but you deal with it and find ways to accept that part of you. This is the only reason I have an account on this site, to continue dealing with it.

Telling someone who has those feelings that there is no reason for them does not help.
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even then i felt like i wanted to make them more comfortable and happy, and i thought this would be a good way
 
stinkyskunk said:
My husband knows and supports it because he knows I'm not interested in raping animals and I've told a few close friends who have just as weird of kinks and fetishes as me lol. But other than that it's kept secret. When I'm around furries who go on tangents about zoophiles it's kind of awkward because in my head I'm like "Gee, nice to know that one interest of mine could ruin our friendship despite me doing nothing wrong or causing anybody harm". But my response to that is usually something like "Yeah, I don't really give a fuck about any of that lol"
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It’s incredible how some females enjoy it being a zoofile some husbands or boyfriends doesn’t know what lucky they are, wish I have a friend or girlfriend that enjoy it that I will always support her ?
 
My wife took me three hours to get the nerve to tell her. She was ok with it and it didn't seem to faze her at all. Since then she has played here and there
 
I understand not telling it , but then again it depends on how you view a relationship i mean if its serious he or she should accept you for what you are and if he or she doesent then well... if you tell i say tell it early on so you know where you stand. Always be mindful this is ilegal in most places so never give the other person proof , nothing that can be used against you after.
 
SultryHellhound said:
I guess that will be the worst part. I just know my mom will want grandkids. How do I go by through life without giving a hint that I just don't feel attracted to humans?
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Just lie and say you're asexual. Or just say you're bad with men/women depending on your sex. (And as an unattractive man saying that women don't find me attractive is a very easy and observably honest way of getting people off my back.)
 
Parents is a different thing , you know them best but be aware they are a different generation , so they might not understand it , if you depend on them that complicates things even further , if ure indepented you might tell them , but if you know they will 100% will not understand then telling them will just enbitter the situation which isnt good for anyone. THey want grandkids fine , you can ignore it or pretend your looking for the one , they dont need to know the one for you has 4 legs :)
 
dogsexromania said:
Parents is a different thing , you know them best but be aware they are a different generation , so they might not understand it , if you depend on them that complicates things even further , if ure indepented you might tell them , but if you know they will 100% will not understand then telling them will just enbitter the situation which isnt good for anyone. THey want grandkids fine , you can ignore it or pretend your looking for the one , they dont need to know the one for you has 4 legs :)
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How about no? Tell NO ONE and if you're looking for a partner tell them that you want an open relationship.
 
Well this whole telling your partner thing , i personally couldnt live in a relationship where we have secrets like this , knowing that the person saying i love you would be sickened if he or she knew this about me ... no , i admit my partner knows in fact he introduced me into it but i rather be alone with my dogs then to ever hide this from my partner.
 
dogsexromania said:
Well this whole telling your partner thing , i personally couldnt live in a relationship where we have secrets like this , knowing that the person saying i love you would be sickened if he or she knew this about me ... no , i admit my partner knows in fact he introduced me into it but i rather be alone with my dogs then to ever hide this from my partner.
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You're going to screw yourself over one of these days. And that's totally going to be your own fault.
 
Were talking about sharing it with your partner , which is a seperate conversation from everyone else , there i would say the same as pillar , it is your private affair , its noones business but yours and your dogs and most ppl will not accept you , accept this , this isnt a social club , most ppl will deem you sick immoral or worst , but honestly why do you care what others think.
 
A number of times. Some people have a positive reaction and you make a new friend; some people will be silent and spread rumors. I stand up for the things I believe in, so I will tend to always be outspoken on the subject. I think Pillar's advice is fare, but doesn't take into account anything beyond absolute "safety". That advice comes with its own problems. As long as you conduct yourself a certain way, you don't have to worry too much. Many people will not be happy spending their lives in the closet, and some like myself, like to discuss the topic out of their own interest, possibly making people more tolerant in the future.
 
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