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Have you told anyone about being into zoophlia?

A number of times. Some people have a positive reaction and you make a new friend; some people will be silent and spread rumors. I stand up for the things I believe in, so I will tend to always be outspoken on the subject. I think Pillar's advice is fare, but doesn't take into account anything beyond absolute "safety". That advice comes with its own problems. As long as you conduct yourself a certain way, you don't have to worry too much. Many people will not be happy spending their lives in the closet, and some like myself, like to discuss the topic out of their own interest, possibly making people more tolerant in the future.
 
Pillar said:
You're going to screw yourself over one of these days. And that's totally going to be your own fault.
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Well i live with the same person for more then 20 years , he knows about it yes and i can put my life on the fact he will never betray me , noone who can actually harm me knows i am even gay , i would be fired , and or evicted for simply that i am not a complete idiot:)
 
dogsexromania said:
Well i live with the same person for more then 20 years , he knows about it yes and i can put my life on the fact he will never betray me , noone who can actually harm me knows i am even gay , i would be fired , and or evicted for simply that i am not a complete idiot:)
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That's naive as fuck. I hope your gamble doesn't bite you in the ass...
 
Pillar said:
Just lie and say you're asexual. Or just say you're bad with men/women depending on your sex. (And as an unattractive man saying that women don't find me attractive is a very easy and observably honest way of getting people off my back.)
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Man you're lucky to have that reason to fallback on. Every time my mom asks why I don't have a gf I usually parry(?) it by saying that I'm trying to get my shit together, waiting for the right person, or something along the lines of that I'm not ready. I suppose I may just do this my whole life, or just stop answering.
 
SultryHellhound said:
Man you're lucky to have that reason to fallback on. Every time my mom asks why I don't have a gf I usually parry(?) it by saying that I'm trying to get my shit together, waiting for the right person, or something along the lines of that I'm not ready. I suppose I may just do this my whole life, or just stop answering.
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Just say all the women you meet have very high standards then. Unless you're a six figure earner just tell your mom women aren't interested in average men.
 
SultryHellhound said:
Man you're lucky to have that reason to fallback on. Every time my mom asks why I don't have a gf I usually parry(?) it by saying that I'm trying to get my shit together, waiting for the right person, or something along the lines of that I'm not ready. I suppose I may just do this my whole life, or just stop answering.
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Do exactly that , she wants the best for you at least thats what all mothers say , usually its mixed with i know what i consider best and so on , but at the end of the day she is not you , you decide when to have a gf when to have a wife and when to have kids , would she rather you jump into a relationship head first and then have another child growing up without both parents? these things you can say to her , and the less you interact with her on the subject she will understand i presume its not something you want to discuss
 
Pillar said:
Just say all the women you meet have very high standards then. Unless you're a six figure earner just tell your mom women aren't interested in average men.
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Yes use allt he reason most ppl sturgle to find a true relationship , get lost in that crowd , and since you are not lying technically it will go across more easy.
 
dogsexromania said:
Do exactly that , she wants the best for you at least thats what all mothers say , usually its mixed with i know what i consider best and so on , but at the end of the day she is not you , you decide when to have a gf when to have a wife and when to have kids , would she rather you jump into a relationship head first and then have another child growing up without both parents? these things you can say to her , and the less you interact with her on the subject she will understand i presume its not something you want to discuss
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The REAL question is if his "girlfriend" really wants to be with him or is just there to use him and that's IF he gets one in the first place.
 
dogsexromania said:
Yes use allt he reason most ppl sturgle to find a true relationship , get lost in that crowd , and since you are not lying technically it will go across more easy.
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If you still believe in "true relationship" then I have a bridge to sell you.
 
Pillar said:
Just say all the women you meet have very high standards then. Unless you're a six figure earner just tell your mom women aren't interested in average men.
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I plan on upskilling to make 6 figures in my profession. But I don't have to tell anyone that, either!
 
I dont think believing in these things makes you braindead , maybe a bit optimistic which isnt a crime, buti rather be optimistic and be disapointed , then to see everyone a jerk .
 
I recently dated a Mexican woman who's pup would alsys jump on the bed while we fucked. I jokingly tried a few times to suggest to let him have a lil fun too but she would never bite the carrot. In the back of my mind I think she lets that dog eat her out good.
 
I share it with folks who are equally as transparent. I preface the entry point by sharing a space of transparency to set a precedent for safe spaces, revealing our/my true self. I make it clear that I am not here to singlularly entertain your whimsy and curiosity of me and my kink acceptance.
 
No one that I talk to irl. Although I have talked about it with a girl I used to talk to online. She and I had the same interests so I felt comfortable enough letting her know after a while. Turns out she had watched a few zoo videos before.
 
I have told lets see. My family (well more so I was forced to tell them after I was being blackmailed), My friends, my exs... all of them one even tried to get me arrested but that failed for reasons. I have pretty much told everyone who I care about, though there is one person... no two people who I wish I could have told. One being my brother and my former best friend but they both passed away before they even knew.
 
I am a very open person, I do believe though my brother might have known before he passed because he stuck up for me, but at the same time he could have believed I would never do something like that. so who knows. I am for sure aware my mother knows for a fact and all my friends. My family should be aware but I dare not bring it up at the family gathering
KingHiddenone said:
I have told lets see. My family (well more so I was forced to tell them after I was being blackmailed), My friends, my exs... all of them one even tried to get me arrested but that failed for reasons. I have pretty much told everyone who I care about, though there is one person... no two people who I wish I could have told. One being my brother and my former best friend but they both passed away before they even knew.
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I have only told one person in my whole life, only because of how close we were and I knew their kinks so went out on a limb. Luckily it was positive and although they were not necessarily into they did not shame, which is all I wanted. To be able to tell another human being in person who I was. It felt freeing to let it out. I wish I felt like I could tell me people.
 
SaraZooville said:
Jen přítel, ale začínám uvažovat o tom, že budu úplně otevřený, Co mám dělat s přáteli, kteří mě nepřijímají takového, jaký jsem (jsou to opravdu přátelé)
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Skutečný přítel to přijme a přijme vás takového, jaký jste. Pokud to nepřijme, není skutečným přítelem.
 
KerriAnn9 said:
No I've never told any body and see no reason to. Even if I was in a relationship, I'd not rush right to tell that person until I was certain that relationship was solid and I could trust him/her.
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You already know that you should first introduce him/her to the idea through exposure like with "accidental" porn videos.
 
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