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Have you told anyone about being into zoophlia?

I told a group of soccer moms, some people from random businesses who spend a lot of time hanging around the watercooler, a few members of Anonymous and some dark web hackers, a couple of middle-aged single women who still try to party like they did in their 20s............you know, just people who know how to keep things on the downlow.
lol
 
I brought it up with one couple I dated, and they seemed amenable, but the relationship itself never really got anywhere further.
 
dogdaddylover8900 said:
My wife discovered my browser history a few years ago and was not into it and gave me the impression that I was scaring her. We talked and she said it was repulsive to her but she was a little turned on by me getting turned on. We had sex while watching zoo porn but I felt like she was not into it at all so I stopped it. She told me she was relieved and didn't want to do that again. So now I keep it to myself. Idk maybe I should try it with her again? I don't want to keep secrets from her but I also don't want to force her into something she doesn't want.
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It is similar in many partnerships
 
kinkygirl77 said:
(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
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Sure, yes...I do understand why It so scaring for many people and why many of us keep It in secret, but I made the oportunit to share It with some friends male and female and with my with. And It was Very important
 
Jill 83 said:
I have had, several times, a nightmare in which i spill all my K9 beans in recovery at a hospital while coming out of anesthesia. Further, i talk in my sleep, so even after that dream hits i get to panic for a little bit in real life, too

I cannot think of any other occasion where i would do this.
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Nooooo... That would be the worst dream ever. I've hidden my (spare burner) phone a few times in a hurry and then couldn't find it a few days later. That's a horrible feeling
 
The only person who knows was confiding in me that he had some fantasies, and asked me if I ever tried anything. Now he tends to ask me, on rare occasions, if I played with either of my mates that day. If i CAN talk to him it usually follows with a video of his end result.

As far as how it changed the relationship? TBH I think he partly lives vicariously thru me on that front.
 
Well i'm zoo exclusive so i'll probably never have a human partner to tell, and as for other humans around me they have trouble accepting anyone who is not hetero, so why even bother with telling them something like i'm a zoophile
 
I’ve told my current partner. One day we were on the couch snuggling and kissing around our 3rd month together maybe earlier. And my dog was trying to get his head between us when we were passionately kissing. She then said “I didn’t know this was a threesome.” Ding ding ding!!! Alarm bells ringing in my head. I said well maybe this is a threesome! We continued snuggling and kissing while my dog kept leaning his head on her thigh and giving those puppy dog eyes. She kept petting him as we kissed and he then started sniffing her crotch and she kept moaning and sighing. In my head I thought “Am I in heaven! Is she really letting him?” I didn’t push it any further.
 
There’s nothing wrong on being a zoofile, Society keeps people in doubt about so many things in life that we can enjoy
Remember that things in other sides of the world are good since other places are bad
Live life
 
My husband knows and supports it because he knows I'm not interested in raping animals and I've told a few close friends who have just as weird of kinks and fetishes as me lol. But other than that it's kept secret. When I'm around furries who go on tangents about zoophiles it's kind of awkward because in my head I'm like "Gee, nice to know that one interest of mine could ruin our friendship despite me doing nothing wrong or causing anybody harm". But my response to that is usually something like "Yeah, I don't really give a fuck about any of that lol"
 
Well, I was very young when the attraction towards animals became obvious. I was still very young when I discovered zoo websites, furry art and stuff. And I foolishly told every friend I had in childhood (not family tho) what I am into. And somehow, no one had a problem with it. A good chunk of those friends are still friends of mine. Would not recommend. But was worth for me.
 
CaiphusCanineSlut said:
I have told my best friend... he didn't like it! We argued and he stopped talking to me, he never told anyone. It's been seven or eight months since and I have never been approached or treated differently by anyone in our small community.
I had thought that since we told each other our deepest darkest secrets, that it wasn't gonna be a big issue, he had told me some deeply personal things one night and I assumed that he was going to be just as understanding as I was to him. But he couldn't handle it and I lost someone that was practically a brother to me.
It's kind of the reason that I came to this site, I am lonely and in need of new friends that I can be me with.
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It is sad to loose a good friend, I hope you will find a true friend soon. Have faith, you are not alone.
 
I have told a few sexual partners in the past, some positive reactions of even wanting to try it and watching videos together etc…. One woman even sent me videos of her being eaten out by her female dog, we had planned to meet up when she looked after her sisters 2 dogs but it fizzled out unfortunately :-( esp as it’s my biggest fantasy.

Others have been so disgusted they have stopped talking to me.
 
Have only told two very close friends about it. We were talking about some stuff and I don't remember what brought me to tell one of them a bit disgusted of myself. I blurted everything out and that kinda helped them understand. I explained my greatest wish was to have a female dog and that I wanted her to be more than just a pet and I just described everything I'd do for my princess, sex being a plus. Both were surprisingly okay with it.

Since they are gay and also have a crush on me they told me something along the lines of wanting to be said dog hehe. I was surprised and asked them if they didn't think I was a horrible person because of the fuzzy consent thing and they pointed out that just as male dogs have a thing for their human and can fuck them it would be absurd to assume females don't have the same want and desire. They actually encouraged me to learn more about how animals actually show consent and after about three years I am here and I accepted this as part of my sexuality.

Of course, I would still not tell anyone else irl and even less out of this safe zone because of how taboo it is I just no longer reject this part of me
 
DoggoL0v3r said:
this is who you are, no need to feel guilty about it :)
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Perhaps not but it is perfectly okay to feel guilt or shame because there is no stopping it. Some people feel neither for it and that's good, but others will. I have been out of practice for over fifteen years and I still feel guilt and shame, but you deal with it and find ways to accept that part of you. This is the only reason I have an account on this site, to continue dealing with it.

Telling someone who has those feelings that there is no reason for them does not help.
 
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