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Does anyone irl know that you’re into this lifestyle?

Nope, I've been wanting to share this desire with someone else, More and more lately. But way to shy to say anything about it to anyone IRL.
 
mheetu said:
the question above seems a little bleak so i’ll elaborate.. does anybody that you guys know irl know about (accidentally or you told them) your zoo lifestyle or that you’re into it?

for me, relatively no one knows, and i feel it’s best to keep it that way :)
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A few other people that are also into it.
 
Let see..yrs ago.... my mom walked in on my female boxer sucking my cock.. yes.. it was awkward for my dog cause she stopped sucking and just looked at my mom with my dick in her mouth. ?

Nope, she didn't say a thing! I can't believe it either.. not a word about it was ever said and it had never affected our relationship.

Then there are my best friends, one has horse's and is a zoo.. the other two... zoo's.
I recon I can count myself as one of the lucky ones to be able to share that part of my life with them... and I do.. I am lucky. Also thankful for it each and everyday.
 
mheetu said:
the question above seems a little bleak so i’ll elaborate.. does anybody that you guys know irl know about (accidentally or you told them) your zoo lifestyle or that you’re into it?

for me, relatively no one knows, and i feel it’s best to keep it that way :)
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My cousin knows I'm into it. Hell, he's the one who introduced me to it lol. Spent more than a few nights stroking (with) eachother in my folks basement growing up.
 
A friend found zoo porn on my computer once. He said it was weird but the rumor hasnt gotten out as far as I know.
 
mheetu said:
the question above seems a little bleak so i’ll elaborate.. does anybody that you guys know irl know about (accidentally or you told them) your zoo lifestyle or that you’re into it?

for me, relatively no one knows, and i feel it’s best to keep it that way :)
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My wife knows
 
I told my ex a while back that I was curious and exploring, but I haven't told him I've started to fully embrace the lifestyle.
 
littleblonde said:
My fiance knows as it was all his idea for me to do it, however none of my friends or family know.

I really struggle to cope with this aspect of it all. I wouldnt tell your spouse xx
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Thank you for your input little blonde. I feel bad because we share everything and never keep secrets… till this one. This is our first lesbian relationship and marriage so it’s hard. I love them deeply and, I just wanna protect them ya know?
 
My ex introduced me to to the world of zoo years ago, only a handful of people know but only the people I have met within the community.
 
Nope. Tried to bring it up with my wife, but very much NOT receptive. So it's a secret I've had for over 30 years. These last couple days here is the first time I've actually said anything. It's very cathartic!!
 
kippinitreal said:
I am currently married to my spouse and I love them so much and they do not know about my zoo life. I believe there is never a good time to tell them. Anyone else live like this? How do you cope? Are you ever worried that they will find out and what their reaction would be? Tell me I’m not alone
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Same shoes as you... it's difficult and feels lonely, also tough bc it's one of my main sexual attractions and I have to keep it a close secret
 
I've told a couple partners. Others it was really difficult to keep it both secret and just not get mounted when I was with them usually. One partner wasn't into it, though recently they told me they have a knot toy (we've since broken up and are still friends). It's a wild world we live in and there are extreme reactions by some. Some that say they don't want it the loudest actually are interested but the shame from society/family/etc keeps them from admitting to others or maybe even themselves.
 
Robyn90404 said:
I've just been through an 'almost found out' scenario and it was horrible.

I luv my hubby but I just know what his reaction would be.

This is a facet of life that might be best kept to yourself.
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So glad you're safe and still with us! Would love to continue reading your experiences but I think we all understand if you want to be more private from now on. ?
 
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