SpaceDragon
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But does that kind of argument hold up coming from a judge? "but that only counts if I agree with you."
They do that, but they are very good at making words to the same effect sound legit. The problem is that sometimes people that actually do have greater intelligence than you and deeper life experience than you and overall noble intentions can have days when their moral decency goes out to lunch, and when they put their minds to being obnoxious punks, they are very good at it.But does that kind of argument hold up coming from a judge? "but that only counts if I agree with you."
They do that, but they are very good at making words to the same effect sound legit. The problem is that sometimes people that actually do have greater intelligence than you snd deeper life experience than you and overall noble intentions can have days when their moral decency goes out to lunch, and when they put their minds to being obnoxious punks, they are very good at it.
As long as you have enough money in your pocket you can buy as much as you want. I doubt we got millionaires on Zooville though. Much less ones willing to spend their entire fortunes on that.Then we need lawyers and people from these organizations who are just as smart/experienced/noble to make our case to judges in cases like this that our constitutional rights matter too.
As long as you have enough money in your pocket you can buy as much as you want. I doubt we got millionaires on Zooville though. Much less ones willing to spend their entire fortunes on that.
I have heard of some that exist. But I have no idea if they'd take up zoo rights.Shouldn't organizations that protect peoples' privacy and due process rights provide enough funds to make a solid case? If there are actually real organizations out there that is.
A representative of the ACLU once told me that sexual deviants weren't deserving of their help.@SpaceDragon
For the same reason that we have organizations that defend people's freedom of speech, but there are still people in power that say, "but that only counts if I agree with you." It is not easy to stand up for those rights, and it is far too easy for people to fall into the trap of thinking they can make exceptions, then another, then another. It is a hard fight.
A representative of the ACLU once told me that sexual deviants weren't deserving of their help.
You got to remember there is no shortage of people (albeit misinformed) who think of bestiality as animal abuse. In the minds of some of those "representative" people this crowd might be viewed as animal abusers (when that's the last thing a zoophile/bestialist is).Well, then it looks like that representative was going against the mission of their organization.
On their home page:
"The ACLU’s mission remains realizing the promise of the Bill of Rights for all and expanding the reach of its guarantees. Beyond one person, party, or side — the ACLU dares to create a more perfect union."
Well, then it looks like that representative was going against the mission of their organization.
On their home page:
"The ACLU’s mission remains realizing the promise of the Bill of Rights for all and expanding the reach of its guarantees. Beyond one person, party, or side — the ACLU dares to create a more perfect union."
It's not here yet. But it's coming. It has to. Why was it ever considered wrong?
I think like all taboos, it's rooted in an presumption that a penis and vagina should be considered more than body parts. Otherwise, why would there be anything remarkable about enjoying these rapturously pleasureful parts, even interspecies sexual play? That, and a twisted notion of what constitutes "abuse."
Remember that masturbation was for a spell called "self abuse." Doesn't that sound strange today? It's pretty much accepted now as neither here nor there morally.
Now it's, "It's *your* penis/vagina/anus... go have fun. *We* don't care what you do with it. (but send pics, please?)." LOL
Peeling back layer after layer of sexual taboo "add ons," I think we're inevitably heading for the time when all adult/adult sexual activity is no big deal. Slowly, layer by layer, the sexual taboos are peeling away.
Each layer of taboo focused solely on who does what with whose penis or vagina, and it eventually fell. Each time it was because people realized, "Know what? We're focusing totally on the penis or vagina? We need to let that go."
Do we have any reason left to consider a penis as more sacred -- or more evil -- than your finger or your nose? Isn't a vagina simply another body orifice, part of an interesting landscape we call the vulva? How did it become otherwise for our species? What was that point in the history that changed so much how we looked at these specific organs of the human body? Oh well, we're heading back to it. Finally.
But it's a slow trend, undoing sexual taboos one at a time.
When we've finally gotten to the point where people no longer consider the penis/vagina/anus themselves to be "naughty bits," animal penises/vaginas/anuses will no longer be naughty bits as well. Patting a dog on the head or humping it, just depends on your inclination at that moment.
I think if that's it, then this one will, too -- in spite of a current trend to make it illegal in more states and countries. Maybe *because* of that recent trend, which brings more attention to how bizarre that is, given what's happened to other taboos.
Just a matter of time.
You got to remember there is no shortage of people (albeit misinformed) who think of bestiality as animal abuse. In the minds of some of those "representative" people this crowd might be viewed as animal abusers (when that's the last thing a zoophile/bestialist is).
You should be able to tell by the animal's behaviors and body language. If a bitch (female dog) is happily panting and pushing your cock into her pussy it's a safe bet she wants it. Same with mares.I wish I shared your optimism. Unfortunately, we are still having a hard time gettin even just LGBTs accepted still. It’s an uphill battle, and we might still lose to the religious right that seems intent on shoving their religious morality down everyone’s throats. They fear what they don’t understand, and despise true personal freedom.
Zoophilia however lands in a different boat. Zoophilia often gets compared to pedophilia. However, unlike with pedophilia, where there is even proven psychological and physical damage, zoophilia (when done right) doesn’t cause any of this.
I would actually like to see studies done on whether female dogs actually enjoy sex, if male dogs do as well. We only assume they enjoy it, maybe it actually hurts and they do it anyway. No one has put an MRI scanner on a dog and then asked it mate. That’s not a field of science anyone is willing to broach.
So in some cases we actually don’t know for certain that zoophilia is a harmless activity. But there should still be room to argue that it can be performed in a manner congruent with animal welfare, and that if so, it should be legal.
I wish I shared your optimism. Unfortunately, we are still having a hard time gettin even just LGBTs accepted still. It’s an uphill battle, and we might still lose to the religious right that seems intent on shoving their religious morality down everyone’s throats. They fear what they don’t understand, and despise true personal freedom.
Zoophilia however lands in a different boat. Zoophilia often gets compared to pedophilia. However, unlike with pedophilia, where there is even proven psychological and physical damage, zoophilia (when done right) doesn’t cause any of this.
I would actually like to see studies done on whether female dogs actually enjoy sex, if male dogs do as well. We only assume they enjoy it, maybe it actually hurts and they do it anyway. No one has put an MRI scanner on a dog and then asked it mate. That’s not a field of science anyone is willing to broach.
So in some cases we actually don’t know for certain that zoophilia is a harmless activity. But there should still be room to argue that it can be performed in a manner congruent with animal welfare, and that if so, it should be legal.
I hesitate here. Purity politics in furry to appease the normies has led to a sort of disparaging of the sexual aspects of that community by those who are overly concerned with public appearance. Similarly, there’s a weird thing in gay culture where pride is supposed to be cleansed of anything sexual... when it’s a culture based around sexuality. I hesitate to try to whitewash away the sexual aspect of our sexuality as a matter of PR.I think one of our first goals as a community should be to clean up our image in the wider society, where ever the public can see us they should see otherwise decent law-abiding people who are not a threat to society and are not creepy sex freaks. One small way I wonder if we can do this is I've noticed that there are profile pics here that are sexual in nature, many of which are literally pictures of genitals. I think making those kind of profile pics against the rules could make non-zoos that visit this forum less inclined to see us as sex obsessed in addition to already thinking we are creepy, therefor making us appear to be the kind of normal people that we want to be seen as.
Personally I have no problem whatsoever with sexual/nude pics like that and I think those things shouldn't be taboo, but this is more about improving our image among non-zoos than doing only what makes us comfortable, and I think this forum can be a big first step into bringing our community into public view and contemplation.
This is indeed something important we need to figure out, but speaking to youth about having sex with animals is probably a bit dangerous for adult zoos to engage in at this time. Accusations of child grooming are difficult to reckon with.One more issue I'd like to raise is that I believe in the rules section it states that people younger than 18 are not allowed here (I could be wrong). I understand that it is not something that a decent/normal website would do to allow minors onto their site if it contains any kind of pornographic material, and we should try to follow this general rule to keep our image clean, but shouldn't there be some kind of compromise we could make such as keeping all the pornographic (and maybe even how-to sex) stuff restricted to a section that only members 18 or older can go? I think this is important to address because there are zoos out there who happen to be minors who are also in need of some kind of community and social acceptance and who would like to make even just online friends with other zoos like them. Making a safe and appropriate place for zoo minors to feel welcome could go a long way to saving lives and increasing happiness and self-esteem and confidence in those who feel isolated and even help to expand our community.
I hesitate here. Purity politics in furry to appease the normies has led to a sort of disparaging of the sexual aspects of that community by those who are overly concerned with public appearance. Similarly, there’s a weird thing in gay culture where pride is supposed to be cleansed of anything sexual... when it’s a culture based around sexuality. I hesitate to try to whitewash away the sexual aspect of our sexuality as a matter of PR.
Granted, perhaps icons of horse dicks are somewhat in poor taste, but trying to frame our narrative of ourselves in nonsexual terms is a path I feel leads to disparaging those of us who celebrate the sexual aspects of who we are.
This is indeed something important we need to figure out, but speaking to youth about having sex with animals is probably a bit dangerous for adult zoos to engage in at this time. Accusations of child grooming are difficult to reckon with.
That said, creating a youth safe space with some kind of mentorship is definitely a future goal. How to do it without crossing boundaries is kind of difficult for me to imagine, but perhaps someone with experience speaking to LGBT youth could give us some insight as to how this is done.
But I also am concerned about public appearance, just a different aspect of it, bullying and the concomitant bad behavior that comes with letting it run wild. People that don't care at all what happens to us furs call it "drama," but it is time for us furs to face and start addressing the reality of bullying in our community and stop using the term "drama" when one person bullying another is not drama. "Drama" implies that one party is as contemptible as the other, but I reject that kind of victim-blaming language. It is bullying, and we should stop calling it anything else.I hesitate here. Purity politics in furry to appease the normies has led to a sort of disparaging of the sexual aspects of that community by those who are overly concerned with public appearance.
I would not say cleansed, but I think that more humorous material can be an example of how sexuality ITSELF can be treated as something besides just sexual, such as a source of cheeky adult humor, which I see as one of the healthiest ways that we can handle the topic of sexuality. People that have sex do not always have boners, and sometimes, they don't even have boners when they are thinking about sex. They are laughing too hard. Also, an audience that is roaring with laughter is a pretty useful way to get haters to know they've really been outvoted and outclassed, and they just previously didn't realize it.Similarly, there’s a weird thing in gay culture where pride is supposed to be cleansed of anything sexual... when it’s a culture based around sexuality. I hesitate to try to whitewash away the sexual aspect of our sexuality as a matter of PR.
Granted, perhaps icons of horse dicks are somewhat in poor taste, but trying to frame our narrative of ourselves in nonsexual terms is a path I feel leads to disparaging those of us who celebrate the sexual aspects of who we are.
I think one of our first goals as a community should be to clean up our image in the wider society, where ever the public can see us they should see otherwise decent law-abiding people who are not a threat to society and are not creepy sex freaks. One small way I wonder if we can do this is I've noticed that there are profile pics here that are sexual in nature, many of which are literally pictures of genitals. I think making those kind of profile pics against the rules could make non-zoos that visit this forum less inclined to see us as sex obsessed in addition to already thinking we are creepy, therefor making us appear to be the kind of normal people that we want to be seen as.
Personally I have no problem whatsoever with sexual/nude pics like that and I think those things shouldn't be taboo, but this is more about improving our image among non-zoos than doing only what makes us comfortable, and I think this forum can be a big first step into bringing our community into public view and contemplation.
I would not say cleansed, but I think that material like Pepper Coyote's song, "There's No Cock Like Horse Cock" is an example of how sexuality ITSELF can be treated as something besides just sexual, such as a source of cheeky adult humor, which I see as one of the healthiest ways that we can handle the topic of sexuality. People that have sex do not always have boners, and sometimes, they don't even have boners when they are thinking about sex. They are laughing too hard. Also, an audience that is roaring with laughter is a pretty useful way to get haters to know they've really been outvoted and outclassed, and they just previously didn't realize it.
One of the things that can be done is more education into critter emotions and cognation. Many of use still stratch the surface when it comes to how we think of the emotional lives of critters.
We cant expect folks to separate us apart from the abusers when they themselves still dont know critter body language and enegry.
I still stand by my doubts about zoo being fully accepted by society at least in our lifetimes anyways. At the very least, more digging into animal emotional lives and behaviors is a start.
Then what other ways can one talk about it that don't involve having a dripping wet boner?I absolutely agree about the humor part being healthy, but... I don't see anything humorous about a picture of someone's dick and balls. I don't have a problem with it personally, I just don't find it funny, and I don't think it's intended to be funny either.
Then what other ways can one talk about it that don't involve having a dripping wet boner?
It's not just humor, but humor is just one complex secondary emotion. There are many of them. Some of them are positive. Some of them are negative. Some of them are neutral. Some of them are mixed positive and negative.
We could also adopt the [adjective] [species] approach of "Why don't we try examining this under the lens of science!" That is just as valuable as humor. Just like humor, it puts sexuality in a context that lights up the parts of our brains that can understand nuance and more sophisticated multilayered concepts.
Well, if you look under the articles and blogs tab, you can find existing research there, and I am thinking that some of us ought to get serious about looking through those articles and finding out about where the research is being done and who is funding it. If we could get together a constellation of determined donors for a big grant, then I am of the thinking that we could eventually tip people that have already stuck their necks out enough to study animal sex into trying to make a follow-up study.I agree, I think one of our more important goals should be to raise funds for studies on animal sexual behavior/pleasure as well as animal emotion/cognizance and ability to consent. And as far as acceptance goes, just think of this, many of the people who lived during the 1950s and 1960s when homosexuality was hated by the majority of society 60 to 70 years ago are alive today. They're pretty old, but they lived to witness dramatic change in society.
Well, if you look under the articles and blogs tab, you can find existing research there, and I am thinking that some of us ought to get serious about looking through those articles and finding out about where the research is being done and who is funding it. If we could get together a constellation of determined donors for a big grant, then I am of the thinking that we could eventually tip people that have already stuck their necks out enough to study animal sex into trying to make a follow-up study.
We could bill it as something prosocial, which we are really TRYING to do, anyway, just without even going into tactics, we could just point out that we are trying to get documented science into the hands of sexologists, counselors, and therapists that just might save the lives of one of their clients. If we just say the real reasons why we think that funding this is important, then I think we could get one of these institutions that have already conducted research on animal sex to let us back up a grant for taking a closer look at it and creating something useful and applicable for the professionals that are supposed to be there to help us when we are at our weakest.
@SpaceDragon I have been thinking about what I was talking with you about, the idea of using the medicinal marijuana movement's approach, and what if we could prove that animal sex can relieve some of the symptoms of social anxiety or autism? We already know that pet therapy helps people with those disorders, and if we could get some really good documented research out there, I think that it would be possible to get some patients in states like California some clearance to have sexual relationships with their animals as long as they are under the supervision of a licensed sexologist and veterinarian. This could create a similar path to legalization as was used for marijuana.
@ZTHorse has been pushing for getting funding into research for quite a long time. If you want, then you can help me go through some of these articles and find information about the research, including what agencies funded it and everyone else that was behind it. The acknowledgements sections of research papers tend to have very important information about how the work actually got from the idea stage to the laboratory.I think that's an excellent idea! And I would definitely help fund a grant like that if I had financial independence. We should get started on this as soon as possible honestly as I think this is really one of our most important goals. We really need a lot more research done in these things so we can educate people and add some credibility and evidence to our side, and I don't think we should stop with just one study either, we should get as many as we can.