Credibility or not, if having sex with dogs is illegal in her locality and the crazy ex mentions it to the police whether by sound mind or not, it will still raise suspicion for investigation depending on the severity of the law. Absolute worse case, the DA could throw charges her way and use the ex as a witness to the case. this is the borderline danger that the OP now faces and the danger we all face if we're ever outed or suspected of.
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Credibility or not, if having sex with dogs is illegal in her locality and the crazy ex mentions it to the police whether by sound mind or not, it will still raise suspicion for investigation depending on the severity of the law. Absolute worse case, the DA could throw charges her way and use the ex as a witness to the case. this is the borderline danger that the OP now faces and the danger we all face if we're ever outed or suspected of.
SigmaTheZeta
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Any DA anywhere is going to look at the police report against him and see a raving maniac.
EVERYONE that has bad blood with somebody in their lives, whether they are zoophiles or not, should consider doing full disk formats on every device they have and destroying anything that could be used against them, even vanilla porn. If you have a habit of making enemies, even for good reasons, then I suggest you be as white as snow as far as anybody can tell because the slightest deviance by you, even within the bounds of the law, can and will be used against you. This has nothing to do with being a zoo, and it has everything to do with the fact that you should not make enemies if you can help it, to begin with. If you do make enemies, even for good reasons, then clean everything that you possibly can.
This is generally a sound practice for ANYONE who has made an enemy.
I can give you an example of how a person that never did anything they knew was illegal can be sent to prison. If you ever give home hospice care to someone with a terminal illness or allow it to be done in your home, it is tempting to leave aside cleaning up the mess for years before actually throwing everything away, just because it is too painful to go into the room, but the pain relievers that are used in hospice care are powerful drugs that have a very high market value and a deadly reputation, including drugs that are substantially more powerful than anyone would ever be given if they were not terminally ill. Someone could literally die from chewing on one used fentanyl patch out of a desperation to get high because they have been jonesing so badly. If you have several of them or ultra-concentrated morphine in your house from giving home hospice care, then you could go to prison.
That is just one example of how a completely innocent person could get into serious trouble, not for doing anything actually wrong but for making an enemy, even for a good reason, and not having the presence of mind to do serious cleaning house.
The good news is that if you do not have anybody in your life that seriously wants to see you go down, you may never find this out. If you do not make enemies, then you may never find out how many things you are doing every day are actually illegal.
Yes, if you make a serious enemy, then you should clean up your data and throw out anything you have in your house that could even be remotely incriminating, even that vintage copy of High Times that you found at a garage sale where you also bought some good china, but don't make it about being a zoo. I also suggest throwing out that pornographic magazine from the 1960's: some of them had actual child pornography in them, but it was harder to regulate the industry at the time. If you make an enemy, then clean everywhere. This should be everyone's reflex if they make an enemy.
But if you make it about you being a zoo, then you are just giving other people more power to control you.
The problem with making it about you being a zoo is that if you make that difference about you central, then you can develop a sort of delusion that somehow you deserve to be used and blackmailed, even if you won't admit it to yourself. Shame over your sexuality can turn you into a willing victim that knowingly empowers an actual criminal.
If you are a zoo, the law is generally still on your side, but on the other hand, people with enemies should try to be so clean that they squeak when they walk. That's not about being a zoo. It's about the fact that you should try to avoid ever having enemies if you can help it.
A good metaphor would be if you used marijuana to treat fibromyalgia. You know that the law is generally going to be on your side, even though you are technically doing something illegal. Just because there is a law against something you do does not make you an illegal person. The truth is that police know that there are people like you that exist and that most of you are not really harming anybody. Most of the time, they do not spend their days planning ways they can catch you. You are not really all that much of a threat to anybody, so you are not really all that high of a priority. You just don't want evidence against you all over your house if you have made a serious enemy.
EVERYONE that has bad blood with somebody in their lives, whether they are zoophiles or not, should consider doing full disk formats on every device they have and destroying anything that could be used against them, even vanilla porn. If you have a habit of making enemies, even for good reasons, then I suggest you be as white as snow as far as anybody can tell because the slightest deviance by you, even within the bounds of the law, can and will be used against you. This has nothing to do with being a zoo, and it has everything to do with the fact that you should not make enemies if you can help it, to begin with. If you do make enemies, even for good reasons, then clean everything that you possibly can.
This is generally a sound practice for ANYONE who has made an enemy.
I can give you an example of how a person that never did anything they knew was illegal can be sent to prison. If you ever give home hospice care to someone with a terminal illness or allow it to be done in your home, it is tempting to leave aside cleaning up the mess for years before actually throwing everything away, just because it is too painful to go into the room, but the pain relievers that are used in hospice care are powerful drugs that have a very high market value and a deadly reputation, including drugs that are substantially more powerful than anyone would ever be given if they were not terminally ill. Someone could literally die from chewing on one used fentanyl patch out of a desperation to get high because they have been jonesing so badly. If you have several of them or ultra-concentrated morphine in your house from giving home hospice care, then you could go to prison.
That is just one example of how a completely innocent person could get into serious trouble, not for doing anything actually wrong but for making an enemy, even for a good reason, and not having the presence of mind to do serious cleaning house.
The good news is that if you do not have anybody in your life that seriously wants to see you go down, you may never find this out. If you do not make enemies, then you may never find out how many things you are doing every day are actually illegal.
Yes, if you make a serious enemy, then you should clean up your data and throw out anything you have in your house that could even be remotely incriminating, even that vintage copy of High Times that you found at a garage sale where you also bought some good china, but don't make it about being a zoo. I also suggest throwing out that pornographic magazine from the 1960's: some of them had actual child pornography in them, but it was harder to regulate the industry at the time. If you make an enemy, then clean everywhere. This should be everyone's reflex if they make an enemy.
But if you make it about you being a zoo, then you are just giving other people more power to control you.
The problem with making it about you being a zoo is that if you make that difference about you central, then you can develop a sort of delusion that somehow you deserve to be used and blackmailed, even if you won't admit it to yourself. Shame over your sexuality can turn you into a willing victim that knowingly empowers an actual criminal.
If you are a zoo, the law is generally still on your side, but on the other hand, people with enemies should try to be so clean that they squeak when they walk. That's not about being a zoo. It's about the fact that you should try to avoid ever having enemies if you can help it.
A good metaphor would be if you used marijuana to treat fibromyalgia. You know that the law is generally going to be on your side, even though you are technically doing something illegal. Just because there is a law against something you do does not make you an illegal person. The truth is that police know that there are people like you that exist and that most of you are not really harming anybody. Most of the time, they do not spend their days planning ways they can catch you. You are not really all that much of a threat to anybody, so you are not really all that high of a priority. You just don't want evidence against you all over your house if you have made a serious enemy.
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dermaptera
Tourist
So sorry to hear this is happening to you!
Best of luck, and hope everything turns out well. Might be rough for a bit with him potentially spreading rumors, but here’s hoping nobody really takes it to heart.
Good on your for kicking him out. Whether he considered it cheating or not, vandalizing YOUR home that you OWN is 100% not ok.
Best of luck, and hope everything turns out well. Might be rough for a bit with him potentially spreading rumors, but here’s hoping nobody really takes it to heart.
Good on your for kicking him out. Whether he considered it cheating or not, vandalizing YOUR home that you OWN is 100% not ok.
Kahtoc
Tourist
There is a thing as being too clean, though. If you've been accused of something, then someone goes to check and finds very recently formatted hard drives, that's a bit of a red flag and might encourage them to try to recover files
In my opinion, best approach would be to do a thorough clean of suspect materials, but leave vanilla, legal pretty much everywhere things there. That way it doesn't look like you've recently cleaned everything to hide guilt
To OP, if the house doesn't have sentimental value to you, it might be worth thinking of moving. If you own the house, maybe look at selling and using the money to buy elsewhere. I'm sure, if you mentioned to banks or some legal department that your ex partner has already violated your home and you fear it'll happen again, that you could get allowances to move quicker, even to just a temporary midway house while you search for others
SigmaTheZeta
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
@Kahtoc
For normal formatting, that might be a problem, but there are higher security standards out there:
www.webopedia.com
One option might be to back up all the vanilla stuff to flash drives, do a full format, and load the vanilla stuff back on.
For normal formatting, that might be a problem, but there are higher security standards out there:
How to Completely Erase a PC Hard Drive | Webopedia
The two most common ways to erase a hard drive are by formatting or wiping the drive. We look at both approaches and discuss security issues and
www.webopedia.com
One option might be to back up all the vanilla stuff to flash drives, do a full format, and load the vanilla stuff back on.
SigmaTheZeta
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
@Kahtoc
My point was more like this.
Messy housekeepers tend to be nice people because messy housekeepers usually have few serious enemies.
People with enemies are always clean. They might have enemies for good reasons, but either way, they are clean.
Being a zoo does not make you any worse than anybody that has a few marijuana cigarettes lying around the house.
The trick to not having to worry about those kinds of things is learning to not soil relationships or enter ill-advised ones to begin with.
My point was more like this.
Messy housekeepers tend to be nice people because messy housekeepers usually have few serious enemies.
People with enemies are always clean. They might have enemies for good reasons, but either way, they are clean.
Being a zoo does not make you any worse than anybody that has a few marijuana cigarettes lying around the house.
The trick to not having to worry about those kinds of things is learning to not soil relationships or enter ill-advised ones to begin with.
SigmaTheZeta
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
The reason I am going on about how you should avoid having enemies in your life is that it's when you do that you start becoming paranoid about little sins in your life, such as being a zoo.
You are not really in any super-special danger just from being a zoo, but when you have someone out there that wants to destroy you, you start envisioning ways that they could turn your life upside-down over it.
However, an awareness of those things that can be used against you can be a double-edged sword. It can cause you to stop trusting the legitimate authorities in your existence, such as your local police, and you ultimately put yourself in the power of people that do not really care about the law but are willing to use your fear of the law as a way to control you.
A basic remedy for this is to think about how many things people do all of the time that are technically illegal, but because many of those things are victimless crimes, they are seldom reported. Because the police do not feel threatened by those things, they often do not even bust people over these crimes when they do observe evidence of them.
For instance, how many times have you seen a police car drive right by some young men who were smoking marijuana out in the open on a street corner?
If you have something in your life that is technically a crime, then someone that wants to intimidate you or use you might try to fill up your head with a paranoid belief that law enforcement officers are trained from birth to track down people like you, and while they are growing up, they dream of the day when they are going to catch one of you and proudly boast of your capture as a testament to their courage and cunning. They will try to get you to believe that the primary reason why police were ever created was to catch people like you, and they will try to make you believe that the police could never really be on your side, even if they did something truly criminal to hurt you.
When you let yourself dwell on paranoia about the fact that you are a zoo, then you make yourself more mentally vulnerable to people that might try to exploit that paranoia in the service of themselves and to your detriment.
However, the way out of this paranoia is to acknowledge the fact that there are many types of petty crimes that police really do not care about. They care more if someone is breaking people's windows and attempting to break into their homes than if you are a zoophile. Most of them are barely conscious that we even exist, and I bet that some of them would be surprised to even find out that there was a law about it on the books.
Police and even most prosecutors really care more about serious crimes that actually hurt people.
And the reason why I know that this is how it usually works is that, in the state of North Carolina, our Crimes Against Nature statute technically made gay sex a felony, prior to Lawrence v. Texas, and the truth is that, in spite of the severity of this law, gay men were almost never prosecuted under that law. The police had better things to do than destroy the lives of people that were not really hurting anybody, and prosecutors go into the prosecuting business because they want to protect people that are in actual danger, not usually to be a danger to people that are not really a danger to anybody else.
I can feel confident that you are in a lot more danger from a blackmailer or other people that might attempt to psychologically manipulate or intimidate you over your sexuality. Those are the people that are really a danger to you.
You are not really in any super-special danger just from being a zoo, but when you have someone out there that wants to destroy you, you start envisioning ways that they could turn your life upside-down over it.
However, an awareness of those things that can be used against you can be a double-edged sword. It can cause you to stop trusting the legitimate authorities in your existence, such as your local police, and you ultimately put yourself in the power of people that do not really care about the law but are willing to use your fear of the law as a way to control you.
A basic remedy for this is to think about how many things people do all of the time that are technically illegal, but because many of those things are victimless crimes, they are seldom reported. Because the police do not feel threatened by those things, they often do not even bust people over these crimes when they do observe evidence of them.
For instance, how many times have you seen a police car drive right by some young men who were smoking marijuana out in the open on a street corner?
If you have something in your life that is technically a crime, then someone that wants to intimidate you or use you might try to fill up your head with a paranoid belief that law enforcement officers are trained from birth to track down people like you, and while they are growing up, they dream of the day when they are going to catch one of you and proudly boast of your capture as a testament to their courage and cunning. They will try to get you to believe that the primary reason why police were ever created was to catch people like you, and they will try to make you believe that the police could never really be on your side, even if they did something truly criminal to hurt you.
When you let yourself dwell on paranoia about the fact that you are a zoo, then you make yourself more mentally vulnerable to people that might try to exploit that paranoia in the service of themselves and to your detriment.
However, the way out of this paranoia is to acknowledge the fact that there are many types of petty crimes that police really do not care about. They care more if someone is breaking people's windows and attempting to break into their homes than if you are a zoophile. Most of them are barely conscious that we even exist, and I bet that some of them would be surprised to even find out that there was a law about it on the books.
Police and even most prosecutors really care more about serious crimes that actually hurt people.
And the reason why I know that this is how it usually works is that, in the state of North Carolina, our Crimes Against Nature statute technically made gay sex a felony, prior to Lawrence v. Texas, and the truth is that, in spite of the severity of this law, gay men were almost never prosecuted under that law. The police had better things to do than destroy the lives of people that were not really hurting anybody, and prosecutors go into the prosecuting business because they want to protect people that are in actual danger, not usually to be a danger to people that are not really a danger to anybody else.
I can feel confident that you are in a lot more danger from a blackmailer or other people that might attempt to psychologically manipulate or intimidate you over your sexuality. Those are the people that are really a danger to you.
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Tallywhackee
Tourist
Good for you kick his ass out. If he can't be willing to accept and explore your kinks with you then he isn't the one. I would of been thrilled to catch my girl in the act!
KendallRae
Tourist
Why do you even keep replying? You are acting like a troll. Sex with a dog isn't cheating. ?
IncognitoBeefBurrito
Tourist
What's the point of debating whether it's cheating or not, whether it's right or wrong, or who's fault it is. There's a problem presented, now as a community, should help find a solution. Stuff like this has happened and eventually will happen again and I believe posts like this are incredibly important. When someone else finds themselves in a similar situation, a post like this can be enlighten on what to do and avoid making the same mistakes. It can also give hope that it's not the end of the world and there are some actions you can do to protect yourself. Why this guy is acting the way he is, is far less important than what she can do to protect herself.
Knotytoday
Tourist
Not really sure why we have to bring religion into this. Hell why not politcs as well. Lets get trumps view on it...ok lets really not. Kendall says its not cheating, then good for her. Respect her opinion and move the fuck on. Kendall im glad you dumped the douche. Good for you. I still want to date you though. Just saying.
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MareButtUddrrLovrr
Guest
That was my fault; I was attempting to theorize why the (now) ex-boyfriend did what he did, and how my brain worked I brought it down to 2 answers. I didn't get the part that the ex-boyfriend wasn't religious until nearly 2 days after I posted that comment. Now it looks like it's boiled down to bitter jealousy.
The fact of the matter is this: the ex-boyfriend was out of line for what he did, regardless of how justified he believed himself to be.
SigmaTheZeta
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
There are various schools of thought on that, in the zooey community. To some zoos, a dog is just as much of a romantic partner as any human, but to other zoos, a dog is not really capable of being a threat to a human romantic partner because a dog cannot really think in terms of human romantic norms, no matter how much credit you try to give to a dog for what a dog actually can do. I think your stance is a valid one.
Bloodwolf
Dumpster Diver
Your probably right, however to most it’s probably worse then cheating.
BishiBashiSpecial
Zooville Settler
Well to all the simps in here guess what, it was cheating. She obviously didn't actually speak about meeting other people, nor about having sex with the dog while in a RELATIONSHIP. She might not have seen it that way but as anybody who isn't drooling over here could see that there was two people in the relationship and therefore both should have had a discussion and a say in it and if they hadn't said that there could be zoo interest in the relationship and the guy comes back to find the dog balls deep in his girlfriend then I'd say that qualifies as cheating.
And you are damn right I vow any dog or whatever as a living breathing thing and not just as a sex toy. All you who don't see it this way are pathetic wretches. Dogs aren't just things to have sex with, they do have feelings and emotions same as we do and therefore the same stances applies to the relationship between dog and human as it does to two humans. Therefore, I say again, cheating.
And while you may think a dog cannot be a thinking sexual partner that's not the point, the two humans can. Her boyfriend was justified in being sick in the toilet. Not really with the other stuff or the revenge coming out of it but I can understand where his mind is at on it. Ultimate act of betrayal does bad things to a person.
So you can all try and be the white knight for this cheating lady but ultimately it's never going to happen. She doesn't need any of you, she's made that one perfectly clear. She clearly doesn't need any man to get dick, so what's in it for you? That's it, nothing.
And you are damn right I vow any dog or whatever as a living breathing thing and not just as a sex toy. All you who don't see it this way are pathetic wretches. Dogs aren't just things to have sex with, they do have feelings and emotions same as we do and therefore the same stances applies to the relationship between dog and human as it does to two humans. Therefore, I say again, cheating.
And while you may think a dog cannot be a thinking sexual partner that's not the point, the two humans can. Her boyfriend was justified in being sick in the toilet. Not really with the other stuff or the revenge coming out of it but I can understand where his mind is at on it. Ultimate act of betrayal does bad things to a person.
So you can all try and be the white knight for this cheating lady but ultimately it's never going to happen. She doesn't need any of you, she's made that one perfectly clear. She clearly doesn't need any man to get dick, so what's in it for you? That's it, nothing.
nekdoneco123
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
how is it not cheating? you did have sex with someone other than your crazy ex...
your caps lock seems broken
BishiBashiSpecial
Zooville Settler
OK wow, this post has absolutely no actual self awareness or anything. Not everyone gets turned on by an animal. It doesn't happen at all. Maybe 1 out of 1000 actually turn out to be zoos. By your logic then it must mean that a straight guy has been turned on at some moment in his life by another guys' cock or a woman who's straight has gotten turned on by another woman.
Stop trying to live out your fantasies in this thread, it's degrading and just not sightly.
And for the guy who walked in on her, who says he should be supportive? By this thread it's his first time even seeing this and probably would never have expected anything like this.
God this thread is nauseating.
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MareButtUddrrLovrr
Guest
What you're glossing over is the fact that the ex-boyfriend destroyed her property. You're still trivializing what he did. Nevermind the fact that he went ill on a toilet; THAT will pass. The fact of the matter is that she is NOT SAFE with him around.
Cheating or not, you do not destroy someone else's property.
Cheating or not, you do not destroy someone else's property.
BishiBashiSpecial
Zooville Settler
The reason I gloss over it is because everyone else seems to simply be rushing to be the woman's next main squeeze for a zoo husband. So I balance it out a bit. Two wrongs won't make a right at all.
aragos32727
Citizen of Zooville
Dude. You stated your opinion and view. Which was actually very refreshing at first. People's opinion we're different than yours, and now you've been doing nothing but trolling. Just stop. Unwatch this thread, block it out from your feed. Move on man. You haven't been appointed Grand Galactic balance keeper. Just imagine all the other things you could have accomplished with the amount of time that you keep putting into this thread.
aragos32727
Citizen of Zooville
Yeah, a lot of those men have already responded in this thread and in her mailbox.
BishiBashiSpecial
Zooville Settler
Yeah I'll say lol.
nekdoneco123
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
but he is the one because he put a smiley at the end of the sentence
Papasmerf21
Tourist
I'm pretty sure KendallRae doesn't see her dog as just a sex toy, she takes care of her dog and loves it immensely obviously lol
unless she got the dog for the sole purpose of using it for its penis and abuses and doesn't feed him/give him proper shelter then I guess the problem lies elsewhere right?
Well one thing wrong is society's views on people having sex with animals first and foremost!
However since she was in a relationship and was caught accidentally by her now ex-bf there's more than just the moral/ethical side to things such as the act being immoral/sacrilegious to begin with.
Now there are other things to consider, such as what constitutes as cheating in a monogamous relationship lol
Yes it's probably not good or healthy to keep secrets from or do things behind each other's back, especially when it involves your partner having or doing sexual things with their body! But it is ultimately their body and not yours!
I'm no expert or pro at relationships but I would say that while yes you are not supposed to share yourself aka have sex with someone other than your chosen mate heck even less than having sex many/most would consider out of line
but does this specific incident qualify as cheating?
Yes it was sex...and it wasn't with her bf...so its cheating right? I guess if we want to get technical about it ok sure yes
But if that's the case then, so would be playing with sex toys or masturbation right? You're having sex with yourself or a piece of silicone rubber and not your partner and without their knowledge or consent...thus cheating correct?
Or does cheating apply only when done with other humans? because it's kind of relevant here
A dog isn't an inanimate object but it's also not a human being
And Yes many people do view pets/animals as family members or at the very least more than just another piece of property they own, so it could be looked at as if you cheated on your partner with their sibling or best pal in a sense but that's also depending on the degree to which the animals status is elevated too. I also wanted to say I think there's way worse things you could walk into or be that repulsed by that you vomit at the sight of seeing!
Seeing someone enthusiastically chow down on feces might do that for me lol yuck but hey everyone is different!
Regardless Communication is key..you need to talk and be honest in relationships but with this topic it's touchy and not easy to share or open up to others about.
So your choices are either keep it a secret(which this Gal was doing apparently beforehand) or test the waters and find out what the other person thinks about animals and people having sex/making love with them! You don't have to admit to liking or partaking in it at all but you can possibly get a sense of their views on the subject if you just find a way to simply ask them about it however you choose to do that...there's plenty of those topics on this site
I don't think Kendall is wrong for wanting to feel pleasure tho! And she chose to allow the dog to bring her some which should be her choice!
Unfortunately there are laws that make it illegal!
but I feel what you do in your own privacy is your own business as so long as it's not harming others especially rape, murder, theft, things along those lines...assault/harm to another person or property!
I understand that most vanilla non kinky or taboo people, even some of those might still not accept the idea of people and animals shagging it up but too each their own for sure...like I said a person might eat poop and then turn around and judge you for letting a dog pleasure you lol that's just the world we live in hahaha it's a funny place
But what isnt funny is what her ex-bf did to her home and stuff and to force law enforcement to get involved
Cheating might not be cool but yes two wrongs don't make a right!
And he definitely ain't right!
He has the right to be upset, feel cheated or slighted if he wants and chooses to
But he has zero right to make threats, damage property or to cause stress and/or harm to anyone or thing
unless she got the dog for the sole purpose of using it for its penis and abuses and doesn't feed him/give him proper shelter then I guess the problem lies elsewhere right?
Well one thing wrong is society's views on people having sex with animals first and foremost!
However since she was in a relationship and was caught accidentally by her now ex-bf there's more than just the moral/ethical side to things such as the act being immoral/sacrilegious to begin with.
Now there are other things to consider, such as what constitutes as cheating in a monogamous relationship lol
Yes it's probably not good or healthy to keep secrets from or do things behind each other's back, especially when it involves your partner having or doing sexual things with their body! But it is ultimately their body and not yours!
I'm no expert or pro at relationships but I would say that while yes you are not supposed to share yourself aka have sex with someone other than your chosen mate heck even less than having sex many/most would consider out of line
but does this specific incident qualify as cheating?
Yes it was sex...and it wasn't with her bf...so its cheating right? I guess if we want to get technical about it ok sure yes
But if that's the case then, so would be playing with sex toys or masturbation right? You're having sex with yourself or a piece of silicone rubber and not your partner and without their knowledge or consent...thus cheating correct?
Or does cheating apply only when done with other humans? because it's kind of relevant here
A dog isn't an inanimate object but it's also not a human being
And Yes many people do view pets/animals as family members or at the very least more than just another piece of property they own, so it could be looked at as if you cheated on your partner with their sibling or best pal in a sense but that's also depending on the degree to which the animals status is elevated too. I also wanted to say I think there's way worse things you could walk into or be that repulsed by that you vomit at the sight of seeing!
Seeing someone enthusiastically chow down on feces might do that for me lol yuck but hey everyone is different!
Regardless Communication is key..you need to talk and be honest in relationships but with this topic it's touchy and not easy to share or open up to others about.
So your choices are either keep it a secret(which this Gal was doing apparently beforehand) or test the waters and find out what the other person thinks about animals and people having sex/making love with them! You don't have to admit to liking or partaking in it at all but you can possibly get a sense of their views on the subject if you just find a way to simply ask them about it however you choose to do that...there's plenty of those topics on this site
I don't think Kendall is wrong for wanting to feel pleasure tho! And she chose to allow the dog to bring her some which should be her choice!
Unfortunately there are laws that make it illegal!
but I feel what you do in your own privacy is your own business as so long as it's not harming others especially rape, murder, theft, things along those lines...assault/harm to another person or property!
I understand that most vanilla non kinky or taboo people, even some of those might still not accept the idea of people and animals shagging it up but too each their own for sure...like I said a person might eat poop and then turn around and judge you for letting a dog pleasure you lol that's just the world we live in hahaha it's a funny place
But what isnt funny is what her ex-bf did to her home and stuff and to force law enforcement to get involved
Cheating might not be cool but yes two wrongs don't make a right!
And he definitely ain't right!
He has the right to be upset, feel cheated or slighted if he wants and chooses to
But he has zero right to make threats, damage property or to cause stress and/or harm to anyone or thing
Grand Galactic Balance Keeper? God damn it, I knew I was way in over my head with this damn job! (Never surrender 2020! ??)
INmale
Tourist
A lot of insecure gentleman in this thread lmao
Papasmerf21
Tourist
I'm glad you are here to make me laugh! Not everyone is out to be a white night or feminist activist! In fact some of us just like to be honest and speak our minds truthfully! Not here to defend anyone, just stating our opinions such as you are doing!
Yes her ex boyfriend can feel betrayed/slighted/cheated etc.. but to seek revenge for his emotions/feelings being hurt is no justification for what he has done since or may do in the future such as try and "out" her publically and slander/shame her!
Getting cheated on sucks we get that, probably even more the way you find out such as her bf did and yes with it being a dog, that might make it even worse too! But it still doesn't matter because most people don't resort to being the lowly revenge seeking ex type!
We move on without much incident! Yeah there are times where cops might need to come and allow someone to get their possessions/items in a bad breakup but it shouldn't involve violence or damages or anything like that! In fact most people are mature enough or can be amicable about things!
Her ex-bf was not that way and that sucks but hopefully he will let her go without trying to be a crazy psycho full of bitterness and resentment!
For his own health and mental sanity he should probably do so, as I'm guessing it's not healthy to be bent on dragging someone else down or making their life a living hell because they cheated on you and hurt you!
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