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Caught by Boyfriend

@KendallRae

I think this was not just a case of someone not being accepting of zoo. There is such a thing as an emotionally well adjusted and educated person who is just wrong. There is also such a thing as a raving lunatic who is also wrong.

I recommend saging the place. Even if you don't really think it does anything magical, it is very satisfying.
 
Well that is easy. Break up with him. Nobody can demand you hurt your dog and blackmail you on that. Destroy all evidence he might have against you, tell him to kiss his ass, get out and never return.
If it is your dog and he hurts him by neutering him without your consent, sue him.
You do not have to have sex with him when you have your dog anyway.

How did that actually happen?
I would tell him to FUCK RIGHT OFF!! GO GET YOURSELF NEUTERED!!
THE DOG IS A BETTER FUCK THAN YOU!!
 
@KendallRae

I think this was not just a case of someone not being accepting of zoo. There is such a thing as an emotionally well adjusted and educated person who is just wrong. There is also such a thing as a raving lunatic who is also wrong.

I recommend saging the place. Even if you don't really think it does anything magical, it is very satisfying.
What does saging mean?
 
It's what a pissed off ex-girlfriend does, burning sage (you can buy it in bundles, but loose works) to cleanse away unclean spiritual energy, essentially territorial pissing. It is very satisfying.
Eh, sounds more like being a mystic than just being a rather angry ex-girlfriend.
 
My boyfriend caught me having sex with my dog today. I was in the middle of getting bred when he walked in. He screamed at me that I was sick called me all sorts of horrible names. He actually puked! I am feeling so ashamed. He doesn't want to have sex with me until I go get checked for diseases. He also wants me to neuter my dog (Greater Swiss Mountain Dog).
Let the Situation calm and the talk to him. He might open up to the situation
 
Let the Situation calm and the talk to him. He might open up to the situation
I recommend you read through the comments, as the OP has already responded to multiple comments. Read further for a better grasp of context.
 
I must be an evil spirit cuz a friend had it done at her house while I was there.....I couldn't fucking breathe!!
I told her NEVER AGAIN!! And opened all the windows and doors!!
It is an act of aggression, yes. Properly cooked sage and burning sage are two very different aromas.
 
If he doesnt have any physical proof of what you did, then he doesn't have a leg to stand on.
 
I share the mood of this thread. The bf was the weird one, @KendallRae, not you. If I walked in to find my gf knotted by the family pet, I would think all my Christmases had come at once (no pun intended), and love her until the end of time. It shows the importance of the zv community, standing shoulder-to-shoulder against non-believers. ?
How was the boyfriend the weird one? On the assumption of what was said
1. He's come home sick from work.
2. He's never suspected his girlfriend is into this
3. He never expected his girlfriend to be CHEATING with the dog.
4. He's probably never even thought about it being possible before.

So I'd say his reaction was a little more understandable. It's weird how quick to comdemn him because of stuff he said but forget stuff that she did. Non-believer makes it sound like were a cult. We are a demographic like being gay or bi and in a relationship this is wrong.
 
I'm no lawyer but when it comes to the law, the burden of proof falls on his shoulders and if it's illegal in your area. If there's no proof, then I think it would be next to impossible for anything to happen. Again, take what I say with a grain of salt. If it came to that point, might be able to turn it around and make it a defamation suit. Consult a lawyer ofc. However, when it comes to social... It all depends on who the people believe. (Anyone, please correct me if I'm wrong.)

Nothing below should be considered legal advice.

The burden of proof isn't his, it is the state's in the case of criminal prosecution, assuming sex with an animal is illegal in her state. She should check her local laws. That does not mean he cannot pursue something civil, like suing for ownership/custody of the dog, and in that case, the burden of proof would rest with him, but he also has a lower burden of proof to meet to take the dog away if it is against the law there, and he doesn't have to wait for a criminal trial to begin or end to make arguments concerning the immediate well-being of the dog or risk of damage to the property, however the law is written there. Even if it is her dog, and even if he can't take ownership, he may succeed in getting it sent to a shelter.

Back to criminal discussion, while she won't ever get convicted on zero evidence and a single witness testimony, this doesn't mean the state can't be pretty humiliating while looking for evidence. And it doesn't mean a DA won't threaten her with as much bullshit as possible to coax a plea deal for lesser charges. Admitting those lesser charges can fuck people up, long term, too.

There's very good odds they won't do anything, because if police followed up every crazy accusation coming out of self-destructing relationships, they wouldn't have time for anything else. There is also the possibility he won't even try to get the police involved. But the worst case scenario looks like him filing a police report for animal abuse, followed by the police getting a warrant, citing that report for probable cause, and invading her personal space and home in an attempt to collect evidence. That would be a shitty experience.

She should be very careful to not engage him in text arguments or phone calls on this subject. Even saying something like "I don't want to talk about it" in response to an angry text saying "how could you fuck the dog???" could trip her up and bring a lot of fresh hell into her life. "I did not see it" is a better excuse for never replying than whatever she would have to make up to walk back a vague response later.

I am probably being overly severe. But now that she's been caught, she has to be 10 times more careful.
 
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If I were OP I would keep that pet on double watch. And I would be seriously concerned for his welfare
I get what you are insinuating there, but let's just hope this former boyfriend is slightly better than that smh
I don't think most people would go that far as to harm an animal out of jealousy or resentment but anything is possible unfortunately
I think more likely he would or will try to get her in trouble or continue to try and publicly shame her perhaps but i wouldn't stress either of the situations all too much....most people move along with time and you never hear from them again or for really long length of time lol

This former BF is just a moron in my opinion...he chose the wrong way to react to the circumstances!
Instead of getting weirded out or bent out of shape, he should have either politely told her that he didn't approve or in my mind be happy and thankful lol
Its her body and vagina not his, she can do with it as she pleases in my opinion..so hopefully his future partners cheat and sleep around without him knowing! haha that would be karma
I just wonder if he would have been upset to find her playing with or using sex toys and masturbating without his knowledge!
Like i can understand feeling upset maybe perhaps because he doesn't want someone else having sex with his girl, but at least it's her dog and not a bunch of other people!

But Apparently the thought/act of bestiality makes him sick to his stomache literally lol which I feel sorry for the guy slightly because wow oh man there's a lot worse n nasty stuff going on in the world today! Plain and simple lol a woman having sex with another species of animal really isn't so bad at all!
 
Well..I had the police here today. So, if you've come here to be an asshole, just fuck off. I have no patience for your bullshit. I came home to find two of my windows smashed, my front door partially kicked in, my flowers ripped up, SLUT spray painted on my garage door, my mailbox smashed and my front door mat with human shit on it.
Hope that restraining order hurts him hard.
 
Well..I had the police here today. So, if you've come here to be an asshole, just fuck off. I have no patience for your bullshit. I came home to find two of my windows smashed, my front door partially kicked in, my flowers ripped up, SLUT spray painted on my garage door, my mailbox smashed and my front door mat with human shit on it.
Sorry to hear about all this, it sucks that out of all the possible outcomes life decided to give you some of the worst ones possible!
One bright spot would be the former bf looks like a complete child by his choice of actions!
Just be smart! And stay safe, truly hope things get better for you!

felt the need to belittle the former bf some more, like how stupid can a person be?
Living in a house your gf bought and you catch her fucking her dog and you proceed to freak and flip out
If it had been another human guy instead, would he have been more or less upset?
Idk but if it happened to me I would've been happy like I just found the golden ticket to the candy factory lol
Or at the very least pretended to be upset/grossed out and then use that blackmail to my benefit but the route he chose was not the one I would have gone nor should have he!
 
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