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Caught by Boyfriend

In my opinion, give him a chance, but be firm
First off, you tell him he has two choices. If he loves you, he'll sit down and talk about it with you like a mature adult. If he doesn't love you, there's the door
If he decides to sit and talk, then be firm; your dog is not getting snipped. If he can't handle that, once again refer to the door
If he's still sitting and talking with you after that, then there's a chance things can work out. If not, well, there's plenty of guys out there (or even just on here) who'd give up just about anything to get to know you exactly how you are
Best of luck with how things go. Feel free to message me (or I'm sure at least half the people who've already responded) if you need someone to talk to about it
 
DannyWotan said:
Shame on him if he threatens to have her locked up because her sexual lifestyle went against his own personal sense of morality. She did not hurt anyone. You've obviously never been fucked over by an ex. It pays to treat your partners right even if you break up.
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and what gave you the impression that he wants to have her locked up? or that he tries to "fuck her over"? looks like you might be projecting a bit here, because it sure sounds a lot like he's just someone overreacting over something he might not even had an idea is a thing. and even if it eventually comes down to him trying to "fuck her over", it still seems like he has literally nothing on her. ever heard of "live and let live"?
@Kahtoc seems like the first person here actually giving a solid advice. thumbs up
 
nekdoneco123 said:
and what gave you the impression that he wants to have her locked up? or that he tries to "fuck her over"? looks like you might be projecting a bit here, because it sure sounds a lot like he's just someone overreacting over something he might not even had an idea is a thing. and even if it eventually comes down to him trying to "fuck her over", it still seems like he has literally nothing on her. ever heard of "live and let live"?
@Kahtoc seems like the first person here actually giving a solid advice. thumbs up
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I think a lot of it comes down to people either being single or having a partner who's not into this. A lot of fantasies about having that partner and such come into play
Not singling anyone out here, but just because one relationship is on the rocks and possibly ending does not mean you get a green light into their bed
Don't encourage the destruction. If they were in a relationship at one point, there is obviously some reason. As adults, it is up to them to determine if that reason still exists and whether it's strong enough to overcome this issue
 
KendallRae said:
My boyfriend caught me having sex with my dog today. I was in the middle of getting bred when he walked in. He screamed at me that I was sick called me all sorts of horrible names. He actually puked! I am feeling so ashamed. He doesn't want to have sex with me until I go get checked for diseases. He also wants me to neuter my dog (Greater Swiss Mountain Dog).
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Im so sorry. Want to go out?
 
BarkyPup said:
hmmm if I know guys ( and I am one plus im gay) then I would be almost CERTAIN your bf has a few skeletons in his closet also...
(pssst most guys do)
Some may even be a turn on within a rship......if he has the courage to open up about them to you.

Getting caught may be your way of opening up to him......
(unless he a God fearing Christian type of guy - I find most guys tend to be fairly resilient and adaptive)
He may even 'come around' to actually finding you being bred by the dog as hot.....
(once his initial surprise and machismo calms down)......

Or you could take the advice of pes and end the rship.
Tough call but at this point in time what have u got to lose??

BUT I WOULD NOT be getting the dog neutered.....whatever choice you choose.
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This is very possible ;) I had this girl ask to date me, She is a pretty big christian girl as well! But, so I was like.. if you are truly interested in me there is something you need to know that I am just not going to hide or change about myself. First, im more gay than strait and more importantly I am a really big into zoo and mostly attracted to dogs and I am dating my male shepherd "that was sitting next to us as I explain it" it surprisingly didnt go that bad. She didnt call off the friendship, but decided not to date me..
6 months later she comes and talks to me about it and said she read all up on this stuff and was ok with it and she started to get into it after seeing a few vids and wanted to watch my male shep breed me! so here we are still together 8 years later lol who would have thought
 
hi KendalRae. if he only knew how unlucky he is.. i mean there are ton of us that would love nothing more to walk in on our girlfriends fucking a dog! sadly for me atleast that will most likely never happen since i dont have a girlfriend and even if i did there would be next to no chance of her sharing the same interest as me...so he was infact very lucky for a moment before he became hopefully an unlucky x for you. good luck and I hope you find someone to share your passion with someday.
 
bubbalubb72 said:
hi KendalRae. if he only knew how unlucky he is.. i mean there are ton of us that would love nothing more to walk in on our girlfriends fucking a dog! sadly for me atleast that will most likely never happen since i dont have a girlfriend and even if i did there would be next to no chance of her sharing the same interest as me...so he was infact very lucky for a moment before he became hopefully an unlucky x for you. good luck and I hope you find someone to share your passion with someday.
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Truth. :cry:
 
DannyWotan said:
Shame on him if he threatens to have her locked up because her sexual lifestyle went against his own personal sense of morality. She did not hurt anyone. You've obviously never been fucked over by an ex. It pays to treat your partners right even if you break up.
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Actually, he may have felt fucked over by her. Can you imagine yourself being in a monogamous relationship only to find out that she's seeing someone else? Would you not feel sick and betrayed then?

Look, I'm not going to tell her to put herself in harm's way but I wouldn't have her put him in harm's way either. But right now she should still focus on keeping herself safe while getting out of a messy situation.
 
Basically, that's all it looks like it's boiling down to: jealousy.
 
Well...I told him I wanted to break up. He was pissed and called me all sorts of names, which is pretty on track for him. I took all his shit and tossed it onto the porch. I told him to get out and not come back. He made a big scene and started shouting about how I was a dog fucker, whore, slut, etc. Neighbors actually started noticing. So, I made sure to tell loudly enough do they all could here YOU ARE THE ONE THAT SLEPT WITH YOUR SECRETARY AND GOT HER PREGNANT! The icing on the cake was when he was carrying some of his stuff to his truck and my boy decided to lift his leg on his pile of clothes. I laughed so hard I almost fell over.
 
MareButtUddrrLovrr said:
You should also slap him with a restraining order, since he sounds rather emotionally/mentally unbalanced.
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Actually that's very good advice. That's something I would go ahead and do now. It wouldn't be a restraining order because he hasn't been violent towards you. I forget the actual term but you can get him to a point where if he talks about you he can get in trouble
 
Hope all goes well after he's long gone an that your better off hope you find a new bf with the same desires as you
 
Lord knows I've been desiring such a woman for so many years, but that's a completely separate topic (not to mention a completely separated geographical location).
Hopefully, somebody turns up over there, wherever you live at.
 
His reaction while a bit overloaded and very over the top is very understandable. Don't forget this guy came back to his house feeling sick and found his girlfriend with the dogs dick inside her. Probably didn't expect you to be a zoo and then this has happened.

While right or wrong he doesn't see your dog as a lover of you nor as a sexual partner. And not to put too fine a point on it but you were cheating.

If you intended to get serious with this guy then you should have kept your hormones in check or told him at the beginning.
 
KendallRae said:
My boyfriend caught me having sex with my dog today. I was in the middle of getting bred when he walked in. He screamed at me that I was sick called me all sorts of horrible names. He actually puked! I am feeling so ashamed. He doesn't want to have sex with me until I go get checked for diseases. He also wants me to neuter my dog (Greater Swiss Mountain Dog).
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I'm sorry to hear you are in this situation! His response is the usual, sadly. But you gotta see it from his perspective. Hes in a relationship with you and your sleeping with someone else. He probably feels hurt, and jealous. Dog or not that is still cheating but his reaction does seem overboard and dangerous, there's no telling what he'll do now if you don't give him his way, it sounds like blackmail.. Anyway you don't have any diseases, catching STIs from animals is very very rare also how does he expect you to go about getting tested for non-human STIs without saying you sleep with animals to begin with? thinking your "unclean" now is a ridiculous assumption. I imagine you've been active since well before this incident. So he's kinda already slept with a "dog fucker" pardon my French. He can't make you neuter your dog and if he won't accept this part of you, and demands that you change just to make him comfortable, and even threatens to turn you in, then he doesn't actually love you, intentionally hurting you by destroying your freedom isn't love: its a need for control, even if him discovering your zoosexual ends your relationship with him, if he was ever in love with you, he'll let it be. On the other hand trying to empathize with why you are you and accepting this part of you would be unconditional love. My advice would be give it time, try to explain your feelings and if he won't listen Move on and stay safe. Good luck
 
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KendallRae said:
He definitely isn't an emotionally stable person. It was always a problem in our relationship.
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Sounds like the trash taking itself out. Yes you don’t need any of that shit. Actually no one does. Would play it cool for a bit. Make sure house is locked and windows also. Curtains closed and triple check everything before you get with your boy. Wouldn’t put it past him to try and get some sore of evidence now. Just be safe ma’am.
 
KendallRae said:
He definitely isn't an emotionally stable person. It was always a problem in our relationship.
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Congratulations that's fantastic. Sounds like you're best off without him and someone you gave to many chances to. Enjoy your life and keep us updated.
 
KendallRae said:
My boyfriend caught me having sex with my dog today. I was in the middle of getting bred when he walked in. He screamed at me that I was sick called me all sorts of horrible names. He actually puked! I am feeling so ashamed. He doesn't want to have sex with me until I go get checked for diseases. He also wants me to neuter my dog (Greater Swiss Mountain Dog).
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You have to break up w/him, that way when he starts telling people you can say he made it up because he was pissed and trying to retaliate about you breaking up with him. Clean your phone, clean your browsing history on all devices, everything.
 
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