Honestly, for the last few years we have been spiritually homeless, the likes of you and me. By which I mean there's no forum which exists to validate the way many of us feel and behave.
Specifically there are a lot of sensitive, intelligent people who appreciate aspects of animal sex but otherwise love animals more or less the same way as the general population. ZV is ok for us but I'd prefer not to be branded a fetishist just because I don't identity as a "true zoo".
Also, I do not feel comfortable with people who regard sex with animals as dark and degrading and get their kicks from shame and humiliation, because basically it's the opposite of how I feel. The activities I seek out are very much for the glory, joy and beauty of both humans and animals.
Doesn't sound like Zoocadia is being setup to address this, but someday there will be more diversity of choice again.