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Married but alone in this ... you too?

Brazool said:
Yes, I'm married and I told my wife that I had seen some videos of dogs with women, she didn't like the idea at all.
Not all people are open to that and we have to respect that.
But have you ever tried to sketch something about it with your husband?
Make it seem like he likes it when he has a muzzle between his legs.
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It’s such a pity and REALLY sad though that she is that way.

Yes we have to respect that.

I’m not sure what you mean with my husband having a muzzle between HIS legs?
 
I am in a similar situation as most here. I have brought it up with my wife before. She was very interested to start with and said she tried letting a dog lick here when she was little. But the more we talked about it the less she was interested and now wants nothing to do with it. I now have to hide my desires and talk about it here instead because she is completely against the idea.
 
Horserider said:
I am in a similar situation as most here. I have brought it up with my wife before. She was very interested to start with and said she tried letting a dog lick here when she was little. But the more we talked about it the less she was interested and now wants nothing to do with it. I now have to hide my desires and talk about it here instead because she is completely against the idea.
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That is really a bad turn of events! Especially seeing she was al very interested in the beginning and even tried having a dog lick her when she was little. Maybe you pushed her too much and she got all scared. What all did you talk about to her?
 
RiverPhoenix said:
Thanks to all those sharing so far. And listen, I get it that there are people who aren't in this situation who don't understand. Ideally we all want to be in a marriage where you are able to share your innermost thoughts and desires and have those accepted. But not sure how many are in a situation where something like zoo (which is taboo in much of society and illegal, after all) is easy to bring up. When the consequences of doing so can be devastating if it goes wrong. I submit it's not the same as saying you have an interest in, well, most other things.

Have seen lots of threads and posts where many people (not just married people) are afraid to tell anyone in their lives, or try to suppress their feelings. But I also would agree that we shouldn't complain about it ad nauseam, if we have decided to stay in our marriages, but instead begin to focus on we're going to do about it from here. That's where I think this community can help and support each other, or at least I hope so. I applaud those trying to figure it all out.
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Yes, it is easy for those on the outside to judge those of us on the inside. Just like it is so easy for the childless person to explain the “proper” way to raise the perfect child.
 
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KnotWifeyMumKS697 said:
That is really a bad turn of events! Especially seeing she was al very interested in the beginning and even tried having a dog lick her when she was little. Maybe you pushed her too much and she got all scared. What all did you talk about to her?
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That’s the most confusing part about the whole thing. I didn’t push at all. It was mostly her wanting to talk about it and I just let her process it all in her own time. She seemed very excited about it and wanted to talk through it quite often and then suddenly it was a 180 turn around. Not entirely sure why other than her statement of it being wrong to do.
 
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Horserider said:
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That’s the most confusing part about the whole thing. I didn’t push at all. It was mostly her wanting to talk about it and I just let her process it all in her own time. She seemed very excited about it and wanted to talk through it quite often and then suddenly it was a 180 turn around. Not entirely sure why other than her statement of it being wrong to do.
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That is really weird of her then… Especially such a sudden change… making a full one eighty turn especially. Have you ever asked her what makes her now believe that it’s wrong to do? And especially after she was all SO excited by it? Also, maybe a little off point but have you ever owned a male dog with whom she could at least try allowing him to sniff her between her legs and then see where things could lead to?
 
KnotWifeyMumKS697 said:
That is really weird of her then… Especially such a sudden change… making a full one eighty turn especially. Have you ever asked her what makes her now believe that it’s wrong to do? And especially after she was all SO excited by it? Also, maybe a little off point but have you ever owned a male dog with whom she could at least try allowing him to sniff her between her legs and then see where things could lead to?
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Honestly I think talking to her mom is what convinced her that anything outside of traditional missionary sex was wrong. He used to be a wild child but before we could really experiment with a lot of things he decided anymore traditional approach is the only acceptable route. We do not have a dog at this point but have had a large intact male in the past. I don’t know if he experimented him when I was at work and it scared her for Debbie never sees the opportunity.
 
Horserider said:
Honestly I think talking to her mom is what convinced her that anything outside of traditional missionary sex was wrong. He used to be a wild child but before we could really experiment with a lot of things he decided anymore traditional approach is the only acceptable route. We do not have a dog at this point but have had a large intact male in the past. I don’t know if he experimented him when I was at work and it scared her for Debbie never sees the opportunity.
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That’s really sad!!!!! He? Who is this he you’re talking about though?
 
When wife and i were younger i showed her some dig porn, she got so wet. I asked her if she'd like to try she said no that i was crazy. No she's i to church and eont even look at that with me. She knows i'd haver knotted in a minute if she'd let me! Lol

She has never seen me fuck our golden retriever either!
 
annieFL said:
Might cost me my marriage but I feel driven by the desire to be mounted and knotted.
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I have a question. When my exwife discovered I enjoyed watching girls being fucked by dogs she made it very clear that she disapproved. Even though our sex life was great, over the years I found myself resenting her a little because of her disapproval of it. How long have you been married, do you enjoy/desire sex w/ your husband regularly and how are your feelings towards him because he would not approve of it?
 
Hum I notice many of the posters are saying they are worried about being caught by their partners would it not be simpler to just get out of the relationship before the shit hit the fan no matter what that relationship might be? No need to cause all kinds of unnecessary harm and damage to either side. There is also the fact the partner has friends and relates who could do all sorts of not so wonderful things to you.

Best to find a partner that is into it before you commit or stay single if not. I myself do not relish the thoght of fines, prison time, felony charges, death, or torture. Things that are realities.
 
Biknotme? said:
Hell my wife doesn't know I'm bisexual, let alone have been looking to get knotted for about 20 yrs
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I told my wife of 28 years that I was bisexual, 8 years ago, and it opened our relationship up to a new world of polyamory. I don't think I could tell her I want to get knotted by our in tact male Great Dane, though. Who knows, maybe someday.
 
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