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Married but alone in this ... you too?

I would live to see my wife with a dog but I know it will never happen. I feel like I found my soul mate and can't even think of being with anyone else. I know she won't accept it because she thinks oral sex/anal sex etc is only done by "sluts" and she isn't one.
 
h45e said:
I would live to see my wife with a dog but I know it will never happen. I feel like I found my soul mate and can't even think of being with anyone else. I know she won't accept it because she thinks oral sex/anal sex etc is only done by "sluts" and she isn't one.
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Of course I respect the 'special' relationship you have with your wife, but a sex life without oral/anal would be a very bleak one from my point of view, and not one I could ever consider.

My ex wife enjoyed both to the max, and no one was less of a slut (whatever that really is) than her. Just sayin'.
 
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cynofile said:
Of course I respect the 'special' relationship you have with your wife, but a sex life without oral/anal would be a very bleak one from my point of view, and not one I could ever consider.

My ex wife enjoyed both to the max, and no one was less of a slut (whatever that really is) than her. Just sayin'.
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? my wife takes pride in being a slut, and we are actively training her to be “free use” by inviting strangers to fuck her. She is a lot of fun, but sadly draws the line at zoosex. I’m hoping if I keep perverting her that will change maybe ??
 
TheHound77 said:
? my wife takes pride in being a slut, and we are actively training her to be “free use” by inviting strangers to fuck her. She is a lot of fun, but sadly draws the line at zoosex. I’m hoping if I keep perverting her that will change maybe ??
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Who is the 'we' you refer to?
 
I said in another post like this that I often forget how blessed I am. All my important friends know who I am, my wife enjoys animals with me, I've even told certain family members who I am! I just sussed out who all I could tell when I was younger and am living in the fruits of my labor from those years ago. I wish that for all of you! It burdens my heart to hear people say they can't tell anyone in their life and how alone it makes them feel. I'm so sorry you feel that way! I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. I'm quite surprised by the number of people in my life who know and actually support and love me. It was a process but I made it happen.
 
dogthron3 said:
I'm married to my husband and if he ever found out that i am zoo he would probably have me kicked out of the house or maybe even worse. How do u tell someone about your desires if you know they aren't going to be supportive or at least understanding? I can literally never come out of the closet because the people i know would judge me and wouldn't get it
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Me too. My wife would not....understand.
 
eastcoastknot said:
Married male here plenty of desires and I will definitely fulfill them. Just wish there was a way to bring it in to the bedroom with the wife. Maybe once she’s tied up on the bed (she likes bondage) “accidentally” allow the dog to get by the gates and let him lick her a few times. Maybe in that horny bliss she could be accepting. Either way would be a way to open a convo about it wether it end up bad or good.
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If you and her like to watch porn together you could always ask her to watch some doggie stuff with you and then ask her about it. Just act like you heard someone mention it and it made you curious and you wanted her to watch it with you. It sounds she can be pretty open minded about different things if she is into the bondage stuff.
 
I'm hoping to work up the courage to talk to my wife about it. She is very supportive and understanding so we will see what her thoughts are when I finally do.
 
Wilderride said:
I'm jealous, wish I had the courage to do the same
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I may be foolish in this endeavor but I think no matter what she should accept me, whether or not she plays along and is cool with all the long term implications will remain to be seen. I wish you all the courage and luck possible when you decide to bring up.
 
Yeah I'm in the same boat here. My friend always used to send me crazy vids as a joke, sometimes zoo stuff, cartel murders, motorcycle accidents, etc. Anyhow I showed the wife one of the vids of a girl with a dog and she just said "gross" but didn't say anything about me watching it. I have "joked around" (not really though) with her about letting our boy have some of her but she just laughs and tells me that's sick. So I dunno, she doesn't seem adamantly against it, maybe just giving the reaction she thinks is appropriate. Funny story, 15 or so years ago my son's girlfriend's mom came to pick up her daughter but they were down at the park. So she came in to wait and while she was talking to us my GSD came up to meet her. She looked at him and said "wow, he's not fixed huh?" And the way she said it, I've always thought she was experienced. Just can't think of any other reason that would be the first thing out of her mouth. I've tried to remember her name but I can't, I need to figure that out
 
WELL! Great thread. I'm looking to get married with another zoo, and live out our lives in pleasure. Any ladies over 40 interested, DM!
I'm considered amiable, easy on the eyes, and have never had a problem meeting women, but i want this in my life and only a long term could provide a stress - free life of enjoyment
 
This is something that I've been struggling with. I'm married and in a long term poly relationship, so both of my partners are at least fairly open people, but I don't think I will ever get a dog the way that I want one. I actually told both of my partners about bestiality early on in both relationships when we were discussing fetishes and they seemed okay with the idea of it as porn that I watch and something that other people do. My husband never wanted to "take care of a dog" when I pushed earlier on to get one as a partner. The human partner that we are now with has gotten more possessive of me over the years and gets upset when I'm even watching porn, so I've had to hide that side of me more and more. I love both of my human partners and don't want to lose either of them, but I've always desired dogs, even as a very young girl. I had crushes on dogs and not people and used to love having them hump and lick me. I felt more excited with a dog on my back with no penetration than I have ever felt with a human male and I cannot even reach an orgasm while watching porn unless it is bestiality. I get excited when I see someone walking a male dog of the type that I find attractive, and I'm never attracted to random humans. I know for a fact that I cannot get a dog now without my partner becoming suspicious and anxious or even angry. I wonder sometimes now if I'm going to spend the rest of my life just not experiencing ever again the type of love and pleasure that I felt with my dogs while growing up. I've had opportunities to sneakily mate with other people's dogs over the years and I didn't because I don't want to cheat on my partners and I want an actual relationship with the dog, not to mess with someone else's companion. Sometimes I fantasize about disappearing and moving back to the country and living as I used to. I wish I had never told either of my partners about my love for dogs and maybe I could get one without it being suspicious, but that's where I'm at now. I just feel so much longing and desire for a male dog. I miss being dominated in that way. I've tried so hard to feel that level of excitement with a human partner and I don't and it makes me feel terrible.
 
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FeralHousewife said:
This is something that I've been struggling with. I'm married and in a long term poly relationship, so both of my partners are at least fairly open people, but I don't think I will ever get a dog the way that I want one. I actually told both of my partners about bestiality early on in both relationships when we were discussing fetishes and they seemed okay with the idea of it as porn that I watch and something that other people do. My husband never wanted to "take care of a dog" when I pushed earlier on to get one as a partner, but he used to make love to me while I watched zoo porn and fantasized. The human partner that we are now with, however, has gotten more possessive of me over the years and gets upset when I'm even watching porn, so I've had to hide that side of me more and more. He used to pretend to be a dog licking me from behind and mounting me, but he got uncomfortable with that as he became more attached to me. I love both of my human partners and don't want to lose either of them, but I've always desired dogs, even as a very young girl. I had crushes on dogs and not people and used to love having them hump and lick me. I felt more excited with a dog on my back with no penetration than I have ever felt with a human male (yet I have two human males) and I cannot even reach an orgasm while watching porn unless it is bestiality. I get excited when I see someone walking a male dog of the type that I find attractive, and I'm never attracted to random humans. I know for a fact that I cannot get a dog now without my partner becoming suspicious and anxious or even angry. I know that I couldn't even say these things without crushing him. I wonder sometimes now if I'm going to spend the rest of my life just not experiencing ever again the type of love and pleasure that I felt with my dogs while growing up. I've had opportunities to sneakily mate with other people's dogs over the years and I didn't because I didn't want to cheat on my partners and I want an actual relationship with the dog, not to mess with someone else's companion. Sometimes I fantasize about disappearing and moving back to the country and living as I used to. I wish I had never told either of my partners about my love for dogs and maybe I could get one without it being suspicious, but that's where I'm at now. I just feel so much longing and desire for a male dog. I miss being dominated in that way. I've tried so hard to feel that level of excitement with a human partner and I don't and it makes me feel terrible.
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I am sorry you are in that situation. I hope that if you do decide to have a serious conversation with one or both of them about it that they love you for who you are and accept all of you. At the end of the day that's the part that will mean the most. Figuring out who will take care of a dog or where it will stay are also important don't get me wrong, but those can be worked out. If they don't accept you it will be challenging to live this part of yourself. If and when you do decide to have that talk I think that being true to your emotions and being honest are important, although I'm still navigating this ship myself. Best of luck to you
 
Im married, but fear my wife will leave me in a heartbeat if she would be told the thrut about me beeing into beastiality, and she probably go to the cops and press charges for animal cruelty on me and make everyone around me informed with my "sick" turn ons. She is a animal activist so i have a real dilemma
 
Find a way to bring up the subject when you are having a chit chat, judging by her/him reaction play it as a joke or tell her you also find it disgusting (basically, agree with her/him).
At least that's what i did with one of my girl friends.
She said she personally find disgusting but she is okay with women doing it with male dogs.
 
Tifone said:
I'm hoping to work up the courage to talk to my wife about it. She is very supportive and understanding so we will see what her thoughts are when I finally do.
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My husband told me after a few wines. We talked about our most private fantasies and he confessed he’s looking at dogs and women. I didn’t know what to expect and what to do with so so I started researching on what it is all about.
I found this website and understand a lot more about it. I know i’m not into it, but we have found a way where we both can live with.
We very recently watched a video he liked and I masturbated him. The video was not a turn on for me, but his aroused absolutely was.

I cannot advise you on what to do. It is your decision on how you want to live. With a secret, not able to be completely free or be completely free with the risk of losing your relationship.
 
Want to check out the wife's or hubby's idea about dog sex? Tell them you saw a news story on TV about a guy/woman who was arrested by the Police who had sex with a dog. Say a person was seen by a homeowner who saw the act in an alley and called the police. This was reported on TV in Phoenix AZ 5 or 6 years ago, when I lived there.

Boy did I get an earful about how disgusting it was.
 
petshoplust said:
Want to check out the wife's or hubby's idea about dog sex? Tell them you saw a news story on TV about a guy/woman who was arrested by the Police who had sex with a dog. Say a person was seen by a homeowner who saw the act in an alley and called the police. This was reported on TV in Phoenix AZ 5 or 6 years ago, when I lived there.

Boy did I get an earful about how disgusting it was.
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Ok, but that can also be just a socially accepted answer. How many gay men tell their wives or families that disapprove gay people?
I think it takes much more for someone to really open up.
 
Dutchie_Girl said:
My husband told me after a few wines. We talked about our most private fantasies and he confessed he’s looking at dogs and women. I didn’t know what to expect and what to do with so so I started researching on what it is all about.
I found this website and understand a lot more about it. I know i’m not into it, but we have found a way where we both can live with.
We very recently watched a video he liked and I masturbated him. The video was not a turn on for me, but his aroused absolutely was.

I cannot advise you on what to do. It is your decision on how you want to live. With a secret, not able to be completely free or be completely free with the risk of losing your relationship.
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your husband is really lucky to have such an understanding partner
 
eastcoastknot said:
Married male here plenty of desires and I will definitely fulfill them. Just wish there was a way to bring it in to the bedroom with the wife. Maybe once she’s tied up on the bed (she likes bondage) “accidentally” allow the dog to get by the gates and let him lick her a few times. Maybe in that horny bliss she could be accepting. Either way would be a way to open a convo about it wether it end up bad or good.
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I wish MY husband would be so dubious as to try something as bold as that! You can have the perfect excuse that you thought the gates were closed or locked and even sort of project it on her “Did you leave the gates open!? They were still closed last time I saw earlier…”.

Unfortunately my husband would probably never go there though. And if he was ever to catch me with our dog licking me in all bliss and delight I’m on a one way out… He’ll just kick me out! Maybe even worse! I get the flack even when our dog or other dogs just try and sniff me… so yes, no go for me sadly.
 
KnotWifeyMumKS697 said:
I wish MY husband would be so dubious as to try something as bold as that! You can have the perfect excuse that you thought the gates were closed or locked and even sort of project it on her “Did you leave the gates open!? They were still closed last time I saw earlier…”.

Unfortunately my husband would probably never go there though. And if he was ever to catch me with our dog licking me in all bliss and delight I’m on a one way out… He’ll just kick me out! Maybe even worse! I get the flack even when our dog or other dogs just try and sniff me… so yes, no go for me sadly.
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surely you have moments alone where you can play with the dog and him not noticing it..
 
KnotWifeyMumKS697 said:
I wish MY husband would be so dubious as to try something as bold as that! You can have the perfect excuse that you thought the gates were closed or locked and even sort of project it on her “Did you leave the gates open!? They were still closed last time I saw earlier…”.

Unfortunately my husband would probably never go there though. And if he was ever to catch me with our dog licking me in all bliss and delight I’m on a one way out… He’ll just kick me out! Maybe even worse! I get the flack even when our dog or other dogs just try and sniff me… so yes, no go for me sadly.
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Yes, I'm married and I told my wife that I had seen some videos of dogs with women, she didn't like the idea at all.
Not all people are open to that and we have to respect that.
But have you ever tried to sketch something about it with your husband?
Make it seem like he likes it when he has a muzzle between his legs.
 
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