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Married but alone in this ... you too?

RiverPhoenix said:
I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there. :)
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this cost me my marriage. My wife found out I was curious about it and freaked out. I tried to cover my trail but I guess not good enough. At this point I still have not consummated my desires of being knotted but just knowing my interest drove her away. I would love to talk with others and see how they have handled this. I want to find someone and marry again but there is no good way to know if my new partner will share my desires.
 
cntrycurious58 said:
this cost me my marriage. My wife found out I was curious about it and freaked out. I tried to cover my trail but I guess not good enough. At this point I still have not consummated my desires of being knotted but just knowing my interest drove her away. I would love to talk with others and see how they have handled this. I want to find someone and marry again but there is no good way to know if my new partner will share my desires.
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Oh man, that has to have been horrible. I'm sorry, man
 
cntrycurious58 said:
this cost me my marriage. My wife found out I was curious about it and freaked out. I tried to cover my trail but I guess not good enough. At this point I still have not consummated my desires of being knotted but just knowing my interest drove her away. I would love to talk with others and see how they have handled this. I want to find someone and marry again but there is no good way to know if my new partner will share my desires.
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Yeah I agree so sorry to hear this sending an buddy hug..
 
I told my SO like 12 years ago. He wasn't into it and these were his words, "I can't imagine sharing my pussy with a dog."
Lmao whatever you say.

If he only knew....

We've only had sex like MAYBE twice in the last five years. My dog wants to fuck multiple times a day. Wonder which one I'm going to pick? Hmmm you guessed it, the dog. ??
 
Hello, new here and this is me. I would never be willing to speak about it with my spouse for several personal reasons, so I definitely feel alone. My first experience was being deeply licked to orgasm on the couch by our hound dog one day before my parents got home from work. This dog LOVED eating me, and there is no feeling as good as a dog buried up to his nose in your pussy. They can reach all the way to your soul with that tongue. I’ve never forgotten it. As an adult I have had no experiences. It remains my biggest turn on and it only takes a minute or two of zoo vids to get me off. Those orgasms are tremendous as well! I am very interested in being licked and fucked by a well-hung canine (and maybe be knotted?). I’ve got too much going on in my life currently to be seeking this out. Also, I would not leave my partner and would only be interested in a trusted friend who would like to play together as well as with a dog (I wouldn’t want the dog without getting the man off as well). Finding and establishing trust with a SAFE friend of similar inclinations and goals who knows how to be discreet is daunting to think about. Hopefully the opportunity will present itself in the future. If it does, I’ll be all over it. For now, it’s just lonely ole me. lol
 
HWW said:
Hello, new here and this is me. I would never be willing to speak about it with my spouse for several personal reasons, so I definitely feel alone. My first experience was being deeply licked to orgasm on the couch by our hound dog one day before my parents got home from work. This dog LOVED eating me, and there is no feeling as good as a dog buried up to his nose in your pussy. They can reach all the way to your soul with that tongue. I’ve never forgotten it. As an adult I have had no experiences. It remains my biggest turn on and it only takes a minute or two of zoo vids to get me off. Those orgasms are tremendous as well! I am very interested in being licked and fucked by a well-hung canine (and maybe be knotted?). I’ve got too much going on in my life currently to be seeking this out. Also, I would not leave my partner and would only be interested in a trusted friend who would like to play together as well as with a dog (I wouldn’t want the dog without getting the man off as well). Finding and establishing trust with a SAFE friend of similar inclinations and goals who knows how to be discreet is daunting to think about. Hopefully the opportunity will present itself in the future. If it does, I’ll be all over it. For now, it’s just lonely ole me. lol
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I feel the same. Wish I could find a female close to me to enjoy these feelings. So tired of all the bi men trying to hit on us.
Wish you were in Iowa. Good luck and hope to hear from you again
 
annieFL said:
My husband would freak out if he knew of my animal desires!!
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I totally agree, my wife would freak out and I'd be out of the house! But I'm not sure I'd want her to know? I mean, a small part of me wants to keep some secrets, and lets face it, this needs to be kept secret more than most! Also, things you do / want to share with a FWB (and I mean any sort of kink, of which I have many.. :) ) are not necessarily things you want to do / share with your partner. That's why I signed up here, to be able to share this interest without being able or wanting to share with my wife. JMHO..
 
inamorata008 said:
I totally agree, my wife would freak out and I'd be out of the house! But I'm not sure I'd want her to know? I mean, a small part of me wants to keep some secrets, and lets face it, this needs to be kept secret more than most! Also, things you do / want to share with a FWB (and I mean any sort of kink, of which I have many.. :) ) are not necessarily things you want to do / share with your partner. That's why I signed up here, to be able to share this interest without being able or wanting to share with my wife. JMHO..
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Exactly how I feel! You took the words out of my mouth.
 
My wife is definitely doing something I just can't get her to open up, that said one night after a night on the town we got home and she was riding cowgirl, I was sneaky and hooked my legs around hers, when she was secure I called dog who jumped up and started to lick her pussy while I slowly fucked her, the whole time she tried to get away then eventually give up and surrendered to orgasm around my cock while being licked, once I cum and pulled out she just layed there and let dog clean us both up. Was so hot and something I can't wait to try again.
 
unnamed81 said:
My wife is definitely doing something I just can't get her to open up, that said one night after a night on the town we got home and she was riding cowgirl, I was sneaky and hooked my legs around hers, when she was secure I called dog who jumped up and started to lick her pussy while I slowly fucked her, the whole time she tried to get away then eventually give up and surrendered to orgasm around my cock while being licked, once I cum and pulled out she just layed there and let dog clean us both up. Was so hot and something I can't wait to try again.
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That's hot af! Maybe someday with my wife......
 
unnamed81 said:
My wife is definitely doing something I just can't get her to open up, that said one night after a night on the town we got home and she was riding cowgirl, I was sneaky and hooked my legs around hers, when she was secure I called dog who jumped up and started to lick her pussy while I slowly fucked her, the whole time she tried to get away then eventually give up and surrendered to orgasm around my cock while being licked, once I cum and pulled out she just layed there and let dog clean us both up. Was so hot and something I can't wait to try again.
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Whew...how lovely. I wish you even better luck in the future!
 
annieFL said:
I am craving the animal cocks
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Me too! I am totally cock concentric. My sweatheart actually came up with that description of me. Technically, I would have to be placed in the bisexual catagory because cocks really turn me on and if I could find a safe way to do it (ie diseases) I would love to suck a cock until it gushes clasts of cum into my mouth - man or horse. I could love to suck a 10 inch cock on a man, but have no interest in anything past his cock and balls! While she understands my love of cocks, there is now way hell she would condone me sucking cocks: human and ESPECIALLY animal cocks.
 
In my opinion is really difficult to find a good life partner. Most of people keeping secrets and they don't trust partners to be opened totally. Even more difficult is meet person who share similliar point of view or kinks like we are.
When I met Meg first time I was not sure that we can do "coming out" together. She was secretive a little and me also. But I've noticed she like similliar things like me but with different style. I love graphics, pics related with animals and women, she prefer stories and fantasy stuff. So we can talk about this all the time! New ideas for my graphics, new ideas for her stories and our book (in progress). Looks like we was lucky as hell!

The catch is if You feel at the beginning that something is not right, be patient. Our partners need more time to be sure they can trust and reveal their secrets. Sometimes it will never happen. Worst thing is to stay in relationship without trust, only with reasons "I will stay with her/him because I dont wanna be alone". If you doing this, hurting yourself and your partner.

Seb
 
dirtyjaneuk said:
Married and alone in this kink as well, husband is a nice guy but so very vanilla, i need those itches scratching more and more often x
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Ah, this is so familiar! As we get older I think we have a growing need to scratch those itches as often as possible. Although hopefully the paws around your waist will help with the scratching? :) As a frustrated south-east inhabitant I can sooo relate..
 
zoofreak7 said:
My gf actually caught me recently. I’m a woman too and she found a video on my old phone of our dog licking me and it was so awkward. Idk seems like she forgot about it now but I still have our dog lick me I just be more cautious about videos now.
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Most of my past problems arose from phones. I now don;t use them for anything I don't want discovered, they're just so hard to lock down completely.
 
Having a partner who doesent know is usualy the case i know of couples who got togather through this so both knew but thats the super rare segment.
So your partner doesent know, what can you do, well a lot but more important question shoild u do anything at all.
Everyone (or at least a lot) dreams of a partner who accepts and wants to try it and joins, but that is again rare and the road to it is super dangerous , and loosing said partner isnt the worst trust me.
Consider how illegal this is and lets say he or show not just leaves but has evidance of this , u can be ruined your animal companion can be endangered so a lot of bad things can happen.
Firstly u need to answer one simple question can u keep hiding this and live your relationship seperatly? If the answer is yes, then do so that is the least dangerous path by far.
If not then well its complicated this is why i never could consider any partner who cant handle this, its a part of me if u say u love me this a part of if ofc i am upfront with this, seccond date u need to tell , first is just meeting if there is a second date there are plans at least, plans have to include this being told, and yes told in person, first of all its decent to not hide behind a screen, second no evidence.
If ure in a relationship and u feel like u cant hide it its tough most ppl react to this with shock and discust , not necesarily because they are discusted by it, its simply the reaction society the world bread into them, i found that if you tell them about it they usually have a bad reaction but if you show them at the same time well, someone who likes sucking regardless of gender a red rocket will look pleasing , ofc this is a generalized version but you get it.
He or she might be so closed to the idea but then will be to most other forms of out of the norm stuff , why are you surprized .
 
Nadia4u2 said:
It would be ideal if our spouses were into it. But I know my hubby will freak out. And so would my friends.
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Me too, I have tried many times to ask my wife in creative ways, but anything close to this she shuts it down so fast I wouldn't consider pressing further. I've been looking for someone to at least have a Zoom chat with, doesn't even have to be sexual, just to talk about this. I know I won't ever meet a woman that's into this in real life so I stick to this site, which feels quite lonely.
 
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