Is anybody else just fuckin lonely?

[420Fatty]

Squishy >>>>>

I'm a squishy gal myself

Good, I'll say it right now for all the Squishies reading this. If you're insecure, stop that shit, squishy bodies look and feel better, I've done the research!

Balance of course, eat well, exercise, drink water, don't be afraid to jiggle!

You can try to argue but you can't handle this!

 

[Constantine999]

I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?

As someone who can 100% relate I can promise you that you're not going insane, neither are you alone. Most of my adult life has been plagued by those feelings. I have no great wisdom or magic solutions, but if you'd like to chat I'm more than willing to listen and share. We all deserve happiness.

 

[AppleDash]

Here as well lonely at times. In my mid-40s and only a small circle of (non-zoo) friends. They don't understand why I am still single, and I cannot tell them that the zoosexuality would get in the way. Maybe that's why I keep people at a distance. Being neurodivergent doesn't help there either. It's not that I lack empathy, it just manifests itself differently. So I joke about it, asking why I would expect a nice girl to share her life with me when at times I cannot even live with myself.

But when push comes to shove, I wonder more and often how it will be when I get older, with no support network here, and my marefriend long gone across the rainbow bridge.

 

[Demigod]

The moment shouldn't last for decades.

Decades? Now I want to know more about your backstory.

 

[Demigod]

Here as well lonely at times. In my mid-40s and only a small circle of (non-zoo) friends. They don't understand why I am still single, and I cannot tell them that the zoosexuality would get in the way. Maybe that's why I keep people at a distance. Being neurodivergent doesn't help there either. It's not that I lack empathy, it just manifests itself differently. So I joke about it, asking why I would expect a nice girl to share her life with me when at times I cannot even live with myself.

But when push comes to shove, I wonder more and often how it will be when I get older, with no support network here, and my marefriend long gone across the rainbow bridge.

Considering the reality that marriage is dead in America I am curious about your future plans. You are a single man, correct?

 

[fit420]

In my opinion ,its a biger proces,in many cases if its going about sexuality,fetishes,porns...its a addiction side effects,its a lot to writte about this,but every addicted person sooner or later start to outsiding himself from community,and its happening in subcouncius mind

 

[Demigod]

In my opinion ,its a biger proces,in many cases if its going about sexuality,fetishes,porns...its a addiction side effects,its a lot to writte about this,but every addicted person sooner or later start to outsiding himself from community,and its happening in subcouncius mind

An addiction? I don't think addiction correlates with loneliness.

 

[fit420]

An addiction? I don't think addiction correlates with loneliness.

Off course ...one of side effects of addictions(mostly behavioral addictions)is separating yourself from peoples ,in case of porn addiction is happen a lot,considering that person WHO complain is a Man interested in zoo,its posible in that case,i know this from my own experiences,all is bassed on dopamine system ...if porn(or aby other things) give you more dopamine than social interaction,you chose the activity whitchone provide you with more dopamine .Its not my opinion,that's a since fact?‍

 

[fit420]

I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?

My advice ...start witch sports,find a hobby

 

[Demigod]

Off course ...one of side effects of addictions(mostly behavioral addictions)is separating yourself from peoples ,in case of porn addiction is happen a lot,considering that person WHO complain is a Man interested in zoo,its posible in that case,i know this from my own experiences,all is bassed on dopamine system ...if porn(or aby other things) give you more dopamine than social interaction,you chose the activity whitchone provide you with more dopamine .Its not my opinion,that's a since fact?‍

I see your point and it is taken. Nonetheless plenty of people will be lonely regardless of addiction, specifically porn addiction. I say this because most men who use porn can technically be called "addicts" because they do not have a woman to have sex with. All of the lonely men that dominate this thread are all the proof that is needed to conclude that the consumption of porn is due to a lack of women interested in them - after all, no normal man would need to watch porn if there are women that will satisfy his sexual needs whenever his needs arise. To claim otherwise would be disingenous. And we also have to consider that many, many people are asocial and can't (or won't) have a conversation either due to an inability to communicate (such as people who are autistic) or people who are unwilling to do so. (Not to mention that some people live boring lives and do not have anything to talk about.)

 

[fit420]

I see your point and it is taken. Nonetheless plenty of people will be lonely regardless of addiction, specifically porn addiction. I say this because most men who use porn can technically be called "addicts" because they do not have a woman to have sex with. All of the lonely men that dominate this thread are all the proof that is needed to conclude that the consumption of porn is due to a lack of women interested in them - after all, no normal man would need to watch porn if there are women that will satisfy his sexual needs whenever his needs arise. To claim otherwise would be disingenous. And we also have to consider that many, many people are asocial and can't (or won't) have a conversation either due to an inability to communicate (such as people who are autistic) or people who are unwilling to do so. (Not to mention that some people live boring lives and do not have anything to talk about.)

In fact...porn addiction destroying relationships manny times,so there was a woman...so what's happen ???sometimes porn give higher dopamine shot than regular sex,there is too much to talk about,but dopamine is a strong factor in this proces

 

[Demigod]

In fact...porn addiction destroying relationships manny times,so there was a woman...so what's happen ???sometimes porn give higher dopamine shot than regular sex,there is too much to talk about,but dopamine is a strong factor in this proces

If you want to claim that porn addiction is destroying relationships, I would have to ask multiple questions. First, define what a porn addiction is. Second, if a man has to watch porn, why isn't his girlfriend satisfying his sexual needs? The only time a man needs to watch porn in a relationship is when "his woman" isn't being his woman in the bedroom (and that's an abusive relationship). Third, what about sexless men? They exist. And fourth, if you want to claim that porn is ruining relationships, those relationships never existed in the first place. Think about it, if a woman (or women) were sexually satisfying their man then he has absolutely no need for porn. None whatsoever. I almost forgot, you completely ignored all of the men in this forum who are dying to have a girlfriend and can't get one. Address all of my points in this paragraph and we can continue this conversation. If you can't (or don't) it will show me thay you're here just to attack porn rather than addressing why men consume porn in the first place.

 

[fit420]

If you want to claim that porn addiction is destroying relationships, I would have to ask multiple questions. First, define what a porn addiction is. Second, if a man has to watch porn, why isn't his girlfriend satisfying his sexual needs? The only time a man needs to watch porn in a relationship is when "his woman" isn't being his woman in the bedroom (and that's an abusive relationship). Third, what about sexless men? They exist. And fourth, if you want to claim that porn is ruining relationships, those relationships never existed in the first place. Think about it, if a woman (or women) were sexually satisfying their man then he has absolutely no need for porn. None whatsoever. I almost forgot, you completely ignored all of the men in this forum who are dying to have a girlfriend and can't get one. Address all of my points in this paragraph and we can continue this conversation. If you can't (or don't) it will show me thay you're here just to attack porn rather than addressing why men consume porn in the first place.

You take IT to serious and to personal,i dont have to or must to explain or improve nothing to you,i have my own knowlegde and experiences and i dont have need to explain my point of view to you.You dont understand or understimate biological basics of our behaviors,and any try of explain something to you at this pointy is waist of my time.but you can read about this

 

[Demigod]

You take IT to serious and to personal,i dont have to or must to explain or improve nothing to you,i have my own knowlegde and experiences and i dont have need to explain my point of view to you.You dont understand or understimate biological basics of our behaviors,and any try of explain something to you at this pointy is waist of my time.but you can read about this

So you make a claim then can't back your claims up because of what you claimed you experience and have nothing to back up those claims? Thanks for telling us that you really hate lonely men so much that you'd deny them of their substitute sexual experiences for your beliefs.

 

[Hungry-ad-2361]

Lonely in life….. no but lonely in this desire…… yes

 

[fit420]

So you make a claim then can't back your claims up because of what you claimed you experience and have nothing to back up those claims? Thanks for telling us that you really hate lonely men so much that you'd deny them of their substitute sexual experiences for your beliefs.

Dont speak in name of everybody,and dont put in my mouth words what i didnt say,you are kind of offensive person,but realy dont bring any Smart arguments to the conversation,i wish you a nice day?

 

[Demigod]

Dont speak in name of everybody,and dont put in my mouth words what i didnt say,you are kind of offensive person,but realy dont bring any Smart arguments to the conversation,i wish you a nice day?

Congratulations, you didn't refute my statements because we both know it's true. Now if you want to continue making a fool out of yourself we can take this to the Dumpster Fire as I will observe the forum rules and will not derail this thread.

 

[Constantine999]

Congratulations, you didn't refute my statements because we both know it's true. Now if you want to continue making a fool out of yourself we can take this to the Dumpster Fire as I will observe the forum rules and will not derail this thread.

Thank you for acknowledging that, right or wrong, this debate should be in a different thread. I think that some people posting here are genuinely trying to reach out and the presence of perceived conflict may prevent that. So, thank you again.

 

[fit420]

Thank you for acknowledging that, right or wrong, this debate should be in a different thread. I think that some people posting here are genuinely trying to reach out and the presence of perceived conflict may prevent that. So, thank you again.

Yes ,you have right with everything,you know everything about me etc. Whatever.Put this thread where you want i actualy dont care so much this forum is jest small part of my life,and i dont bother myself with haters like you,now i go to roll a nice joint and dont think about you.Agan i wish you a nice day and i dont replay anymore for your posta,drown in your own glory,and knowledge you small person??

 

[420Fatty]

Decades? Now I want to know more about your backstory.

Lots of death, too much lazy and insecurity.
Becoming better.

You're all caught up.

 

[jhallec3875]

I have a girlfriend who lives 50~ miles away. I still feel alone even though I live with two roommates.

 

[AppleDash]

Considering the reality that marriage is dead in America I am curious about your future plans. You are a single man, correct?

I'm one of those people least a couple of thousand miles east of Maine, so the status of marriage in the US doesn't concern me.

As for my future: no idea. I don't have a human partner. Seeing what hoops my zoo friends have to jump through to keep their zoosexuality hidden from their spouses, I think any human partner should be accepting my zoosexuality. Yet, that is a big ask and not something you throw out there on a date. As a result, I am not really looking. Well, of course I could say that I hope for a partner here, but that queue is well long here. Maybe something will happen, maybe not. If so, then there might be some romance. If not, then I hope to maintain a close circle of friends for as long as possible.

 

[mirage2000n]

yeah….

 

[Sumpup]

I was a while ago too. Now I'm never alone

 

[TheZooWolf]

I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?

Yea, I distance myself from people, and I’d rather be alone… but it sucks because I’d rather connect than isolate

 

[420Fatty]

yeah….

This may be the most honest post on this thread.

 

[Adder]

I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?

Yup, yup, mostly, no, and probably.

I am have definitely been feeling that level of loneliness for a while as well though.

 

[Snowman]

I have always been alone after moving out from the family.
My family moved around a lot when i was kid and the few times i finally made freinds the parents did not want their kids around me because of my parents lifestyle and lawlessness.

Before i had my dogs every day was a torture for many years and when i think about it i am pretty amazed um still here.

Last year was my first time into a relationship it it was super nice to have some one to talk to about almost everything but i did not enjoy the intimate time with her so it did not last, i do believe my heart was already given to my ?.
even tho i have my companions here at home i crave for social interaction but i have a hard time opening up and at my age most people are busy having families and keeping homes, so the best i get are my work buddys?

I lost my first true companion 3 days ago, she went every where with me and just looking at her favorite toy puts me to tears.

World is unfair but we try to manage.

 

[Serj Tankian]

yup, dont know where to find people.

 

[Mesond]

Yep. And I'm ok with that. I honestly am. If I have to "fit in" with deluded liars that pretend they know everything when they don't even ask then I'd rather be alone and true to myself. I'll sooner die then live a lie again.

I know a few people. But most people refuse to listen to anything other then their own opinion when called out on their hypcrosy. I'd be fine with it if peple ADMIT it. But who admits it? Only a hypocrite works themselves up.

Dishonest sarcasm doesn't make people look smart and clever. It makes them look stupid. Changing the topic and making it about something it's not is avoiding the truth.

If you want honesty then you have to fight for it. Tooth and claw. You can't be honest with people if you allow the lies. People want honesty but look at how quickly people make snap judgements and fail to consider there's missing context. Despite the fact I Would have stated that. Watch as questions are asked that are avoided. Only cowards do that. All cowards are liars that avoid the truth.

Makes me glad I'm alone in that light. If I have to be with people that can't even do straight answers in the interest of honesty then I'm happy about it. I'm not the one feeling shitty. Why should I feel bad for the hypocrosy and self projection when people don't ask or try to understand me? I am not going to feel bad for that.

Most people are close minded. Most people don't listen. That's a statistical fact backed up by research. If you think it's me it's not. I listen. I pay attention. Assuming otherwise won't change that. I'm not the fool people take me for. And if you choose to ignore then you choose to be stupid when you know better. Two wrongs make a right, is that it? I don't do this. I don't flee with my assumptions after getting the last word in. I never block anyone. So why would people accuse me of this when they do it themselves?

If I say there's "Missing context" and you pretend you know the full story then who is speaking the truth?

You know who you are if you're reading. People can't even follow their own damn advice. Why preach to me if you betray your own ideals? Sign me up for being alone then. Better that then a hypocrite that can't even be honest with themselves.