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i do not wish to offend anyone with this post. do any of you feel... ashamed of who you are?

Sometimes I wish I could have spoken up for someone who was being ostracised, teased or attacked by people using the subject of zoophilia or attraction to animals to belittle them, sometimes I feel ashamed that I have denied my own feelings and even used disgust as a deflection, it's started to dawn on me that my shame is driven by others displaying their own prejudice against zoos who very well could have been doing the same thing to deflect, I'm ashamed of the projection of my insecurities about being outted as a degenerate might have feed into others denial and repression of their own thoughts, it's a vicious cycle to get caught into and helps no one
 
KnottyLplates said:
I think everyone goes thru the same things the shame feeling dirty I still get it sometimes now but it passes and I won't change the feeling will alway come and go
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Oh, then I am the only one.
Because I have never felt ashamed.
But of course kept my secret.
 
I have never been ashamed of being me, but I did used to feel great shame after sex with an animal. To be honest, I should have been too, because I was essentially raping them. These days I am at peace, I dont take a female, I woo her, and if she allows it, we mate, and I see nothing wrong at all with this. Not that I would let anyone know, but that is because of social opinion, not shame.
 
I think it's normal for people to feel a little ashamed about this. It definitely is taboo. I can't say I've never felt ashamed myself. I think its really important to surround yourself with people who are like you or at least accept you though. There's nothing good about shaming yourself for sexual urges
 
When I was younger not so much, but as I get older it is less and less acceptable to be a single man who likes farm animals a bit too much. I am also gay with a boyfriend (who is anti-zoo) and feel shame towards that too and am not open to my family. It's reached the point where I have isolated myself from them because I am sure it would greatly disturb my family to know I am into animals and they would probably always be wary of me. Especially around animals. They would view me as a pervert on the level of a pedophile. I've had these feelings when I was a teen and when I finally had my first experience it was a snowball effect. Sometimes I wonder if I hadn't been exposed as a young teen to these ideas from the internet and beastforum if I would have never ended up a zoophile since I didn't grow up around animals except cats (which I'm not into). But it's too late. I can't get rid of the desires I have now.
 
I think anyone who says they never felt any about of shame or regret in the beginning is lieing. I'm comfortable and accept that I'm a zoo. But it took an amount of soul searching.
 
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