As a female I honestly think your best bet is places like this... But i'm a person who would never ever bring up a topic like this unless I know the other person 100% is okay with it/is a zoo themselves, so zoophilia is something I've never brought up to a partner. I'm simply too afraid to see what the other might say! But it's interesting that most people say here they got a positive reaction when bringing zoo up to females.
but I think that's an exception, not a rule! I don't think the regular woman would be alright with something like this if I were to be honest... but who's 'regular'?