Funny how that works, huh?Another thing I've noticed about myself through this forum, is that now that I'm here and did spill my guts in an acceptable place, I no longer spend very much time at all in the sex sections..
I spend most of my time here in TDF, talking about just about everything BUT critter sex...
This 1000%. I had a similar "evolution", I was a lurker for years mostly porn oriented, and the occasional random reads here and there. Since participating the porn has been a "yea I'll keep an eye on anything good that pops up" and I've been spending the vast majority of my time reading and posting. I contemplate sometimes "giving back" to the porn section with media but too ?Another thing I've noticed about myself through this forum, is that now that I'm here and did spill my guts in an acceptable place, I no longer spend very much time at all in the sex sections..
I spend most of my time here in TDF, talking about just about everything BUT critter sex...
Were you looking for help, attention, absolution, or all of the above?Looking back ive actually told a lot of people. From when i was at school i told the first person when i was 13. Which is when i sort of realized that was my sexual identity. Pubity and all that. Later i told family, chrch leadership and freinds. I informed the CID police at 24 and later other people. And a friend most recently before everyone i told on zoo sites. Oh and 2 different psychiatrists
Nah I've been working with her for years, she knows a lot about me that no one else does. Basically my work wife.Good luck in your upcoming search for a new job.
I have had this conversation twice and it went both ways.(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
Yeah I can be a hit and miss and I said I usually start off hanting around videos or something like that before I bring up the full conversationI have had this conversation twice and it went both ways.
One friend who seemed open to listening…he completely ghosted me after calling me names.
One friend found it fascinating and asked me questions and is enamored with the idea. ?
I LOVE bestiality, have since I was young. Kept it a secret from my husband for YEARS. He caught me by finding the porn on my phone while using it to google something. Surprised me with a dog to knot me the following weekend. Wish I had told him from the beginning, the fun we could’ve had way sooner!(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
Wow yeah well I'm another one 100% the same boatI 100% am in the same boat as you. I live a normal life outside of this and have a gf and cool family but would be outcasted if they knew. Such a shame that this is what gets me the horniest?
HEllo lolFunny how that works, huh?
I ain't averse to the various flavors of porn - There's some great stuff to be seen. But it doesn't drive my existence. And like you, I have little urge to brag, or whine, or whatever-you-wanna-call-it about my sex life - Why is it ANYBODY'S biz other than me and who/whatever I'm boinking/being boinked by??? I've never been able to figure that out.
Tough one. If you tell emotionally intelligent person this it's fine. Doesent matter if they like it or not. But it's hard to take chances on those that lack it a bit. People are different. I can't do preschool maths. But get other things on high levelDecided to go out on a limb with a friend who was becoming more than a friend and be an open book, something I had avoided doing in other relationships out of fear.
Not only did she not runaway screaming, after allowing me to explain exactly what it is, what I’ve done in the past, and how it makes me feel. She accepted it and told me she’d think no less of me, and was happy I could be honest. Not 3 days later she come to me and told be about her curiosity with the family dog when she was growing up and the lines that she crossed with the beloved pet, she doesn’t mind me saying, but her and her dog had a very special bond she kept very secret for some years. After he died she started to doubt who she was and hate what she’d done because it was so socially unacceptable and after a while managed to just suppress the memories all together in a way. Until I told her who I was and she realised perhaps it wasn’t so wrong what happened all those years ago.
After many open discussions and honest truths everything was out on the table and we’re taking the first step to living the lifestyle openly (openly between us lol) together.
Fair to say, personally I couldn’t be happier and she is feeling much better about herself too.
My dishonesty to myself and previous partners about who I am has no doubt hurt if not killed some of those relationships. Honesty definitely is not always the best policy but sometimes, it is. Just don’t lie about what you do, whether it be what was in your deleted search history or hidden in your photo vault to your life partners. It will slowly erode the relationship. Be honest or don’t do it!
You are lucky. Very, very lucky.Decided to go out on a limb with a friend who was becoming more than a friend and be an open book, something I had avoided doing in other relationships out of fear.
Not only did she not runaway screaming, after allowing me to explain exactly what it is, what I’ve done in the past, and how it makes me feel. She accepted it and told me she’d think no less of me, and was happy I could be honest.
"religious" you search the most difficult ... can you imagine talking about that in a church ?Never but I'd want to tell someone so bad and I'm always scared of if someday I got drunk then speak out my dark secret, I wish I found someone from area with same kinks that would be great to share my boys with other religious woman ???
I’m sure we’d all be surprised by the incidence rate for k9 interest among religious people lol"religious" you search the most difficult ... can you imagine talking about that in a church ?
but, during a sexual party with a lot of women ( and some men) on a swinger nudist beach you wear some tatoo paws on your ass and people will ask you "why"
and you can answer to women the true or not.. during a gangbang, i don"t think you will trouble women ..