You’re not but they’re probably not outgoing and hot like you. ?
From our experiences you are not as uncommon as you maybe think you are !
We are out here! We just keep a lower profile because some guys can get super creepy. I wish I had female friends that were into this also but the few "women" I have talked to on here were not women at all.
Same here
As soon as I just commented, I immediately got a message from a guy saying "oh you are a female? I'm a 27yr old M from mexico" And asking about my experiences and such... it took all of maybe 3 minutes from the time I commented. I'm all for having a convo with someone, in fact I love it! But seriously when we are treated as fap fodder it makes most of us want to hide.
And this is exactly why I don't run around messaging women here.
It's all in the approach. I'm sure if/when you message a woman, your approach is entirely different. Just because we are on here doesn't mean we want to be objectified. Just messaging someone doesn't classify you as a creeper.
We've chatted on DM before.
Yes we have and for the record, nothing you said would ever even come close to putting you into a creeper category. ?
Thank you for saying as much! Everyone has their own criteria for what defines a creep, and I really try my best to avoid getting classified as one.
Yes, that guy is a typical example of those randy bastards roaming the forum looking for fap fodder. It's very annoying because it gives all men a bad name. After all, the decent ones wouldn't send such messages, and therefore easily remain unnoticed. Somehow, those creeps come to the forum and assume that anything goes. After all, "it is about sex here, innit?" Regularly, even I find that their bloodstream is so focused on their genitals that their brains work even less than they already did: I never pretend to be a female forum member, I have mentioned several times that I am a straight guy. Probably because of the profile pic, I get messages asking all these sexual questions, and even whether I'm a top or bottom. Idiots....
Luckily most of us know that not all men are like that. Especially when you take the time to send a real message the first time you speak. ?
Of course, and that is why I think before I write any first message. The only issue there fore me is that I have the tendency of playing out all different kinds of scenarios in my mind on how my first message could be received. Usually I end up in a worst case scenario, leading to me not sending the message at all.
Aw... send the message. Considering the fact that you have taken the time to think about it, I'm sure it could be cleared up even if it was misinterpreted.
I want to bad
heyy also looking for a women like me to talk to about these things, hit me up if you’re up for it love
love to chat
Can we make a group with us 3 I’m new to all of this?
You just need to start a conversation and add other people into it, that way its a private "group" chat
I'd be down. I don't have enough post for PM
Im definitely freaky and love having a partner who lets me explore.
Haha, I was about to say the same! ??there are women here too ? ?
