Qui3t
Tourist
I get this.rBecause I have a high sex drive myself and having a partner who needs it as much as me would make me feel complete. I like the idea of wanting and being wanted. Two people being connected and feeling whole through sexual release and bonding.
And -not- speaking for myself, but as someone tangential to 'the scene' .. my perception is that there's a lot of poly people who feel this way.
When it works, I think it's groovy.. but ... WOW do humans make a lot of drama.
I think sex is great. I think it's one of the most fun things that two... or potentially more... entities (intentionally broad) can do.
That said, people are difficult... so bless 'ya for trying.
There are those that can make the whole thing worth it, but they are rare.
Treasure them.