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Anyone have hyper sexuality?

Hi everyone,

I’ve been reading through some of these posts, and I felt compelled to share my perspective—one that’s a bit unconventional but very honest. Hypersexuality is something a lot of people have different definitions for, and understandably so. Our daily lives, emotional wiring, and environments all shape how we express and experience sex. I think what matters more than how much sex an individual is having, is how negatively impactful it may be having on their life.

In my earlier years, I struggled with recognizing whether or not my own behavior was interfering with my happiness, stability, or relationships. Admitting it wasn’t easy. It took years of therapy, countless poor decisions, and a fair share of hard-learned lessons to finally get to a place where I could speak on this without shame.

Yes—I’m a sexually active person. And to some, it might still seem excessive. But what’s important is that I’m no longer living in denial. I’ve done the work. I’ve set boundaries. And I’ve come to understand the difference between expression and escapism.

Working in the adult industry for years gave me a front-row seat to how easy it is for people to lose themselves in a hypersexual world. It’s an environment that can become unbelievably toxic very quickly, especially if you’re already grappling with any sort of compulsion or unresolved emotional baggage. Porn—while entertaining and sometimes even artistic—isn’t real. It’s designed fantasy. Every scene is scripted, choreographed, and highly edited. The “reality” it portrays is often more misleading than liberating.

That said, some of my most meaningful sexual experiences have actually stemmed from connections formed during collaborations—ones that spilled over into real life, beyond the cameras. When the pressure to perform disappears and the masks come off, you’re left with something much more genuine. That kind of intimacy, even if it’s with multiple partners, can be healthy. The key is in building trust, being present, and most importantly, being aware.

Here’s what I’ve learned: If your pursuit of sex starts to replace your pursuit of joy, connection, or self-worth—you may need to pause. That endless chase for novelty, for “more,” can quietly evolve into a void that’s impossible to fill. And while you’re looking for that next high, you might be missing the truly beautiful moments that were right there, waiting to be lived.

So if you do identify as hypersexual—or even just highly sexual—be smart. Protect yourself and others. I test every 30 days, I’m on preventative treatment, and I stay educated. Because being sexually empowered doesn’t mean being reckless. It means being informed, intentional, and honest—with yourself and everyone you engage with.

To anyone reading this who’s on their own journey—just know that sexual energy is not something to be ashamed of. But like any powerful force, it needs to be respected and channeled with care. Please take your pleasure seriously, but take your peace even more seriously.

🫶🏻
 
Not too keen on the term. I have a very high sex drive and it doesn't cause any disruption in my life (quite the opposite actually, it's pretty great).
 
Ibuttstuffer said:
I’ve often fantasized of being with a hyersexual partner. Does that somehow make me one?
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I KNOW I am...when I'm in "bottom mode" i get SO insatiable and have gotten so good at getting what I want, I can get fucked 10-20 times in a night and STILL want to keep going. When I try to explain this to women I date who dont even self identify as "vanilla" their inability to understand why I do this has caused a lot of issues for me. I feel like only a fellow hypersexual can understand why I do what I do.
 
FitPervFreak said:
Hi everyone,

I’ve been reading through some of these posts, and I felt compelled to share my perspective—one that’s a bit unconventional but very honest. Hypersexuality is something a lot of people have different definitions for, and understandably so. Our daily lives, emotional wiring, and environments all shape how we express and experience sex. I think what matters more than how much sex an individual is having, is how negatively impactful it may be having on their life.

In my earlier years, I struggled with recognizing whether or not my own behavior was interfering with my happiness, stability, or relationships. Admitting it wasn’t easy. It took years of therapy, countless poor decisions, and a fair share of hard-learned lessons to finally get to a place where I could speak on this without shame.

Yes—I’m a sexually active person. And to some, it might still seem excessive. But what’s important is that I’m no longer living in denial. I’ve done the work. I’ve set boundaries. And I’ve come to understand the difference between expression and escapism.

Working in the adult industry for years gave me a front-row seat to how easy it is for people to lose themselves in a hypersexual world. It’s an environment that can become unbelievably toxic very quickly, especially if you’re already grappling with any sort of compulsion or unresolved emotional baggage. Porn—while entertaining and sometimes even artistic—isn’t real. It’s designed fantasy. Every scene is scripted, choreographed, and highly edited. The “reality” it portrays is often more misleading than liberating.

That said, some of my most meaningful sexual experiences have actually stemmed from connections formed during collaborations—ones that spilled over into real life, beyond the cameras. When the pressure to perform disappears and the masks come off, you’re left with something much more genuine. That kind of intimacy, even if it’s with multiple partners, can be healthy. The key is in building trust, being present, and most importantly, being aware.

Here’s what I’ve learned: If your pursuit of sex starts to replace your pursuit of joy, connection, or self-worth—you may need to pause. That endless chase for novelty, for “more,” can quietly evolve into a void that’s impossible to fill. And while you’re looking for that next high, you might be missing the truly beautiful moments that were right there, waiting to be lived.

So if you do identify as hypersexual—or even just highly sexual—be smart. Protect yourself and others. I test every 30 days, I’m on preventative treatment, and I stay educated. Because being sexually empowered doesn’t mean being reckless. It means being informed, intentional, and honest—with yourself and everyone you engage with.

To anyone reading this who’s on their own journey—just know that sexual energy is not something to be ashamed of. But like any powerful force, it needs to be respected and channeled with care. Please take your pleasure seriously, but take your peace even more seriously.

🫶🏻
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I believe you hit the nail on the head. We believe that sex is a journy not a destination. And when you've found "the one" sex changes quickly into genuine love makeing.

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yeah, i struggle with it. it can be both a cursing and a blessing at times. i enjoy being sexual, but i dont enjoy being sexual nearly constantly
 
FitPervFreak said:
Hi everyone,

I’ve been reading through some of these posts, and I felt compelled to share my perspective—one that’s a bit unconventional but very honest. Hypersexuality is something a lot of people have different definitions for, and understandably so. Our daily lives, emotional wiring, and environments all shape how we express and experience sex. I think what matters more than how much sex an individual is having, is how negatively impactful it may be having on their life.

In my earlier years, I struggled with recognizing whether or not my own behavior was interfering with my happiness, stability, or relationships. Admitting it wasn’t easy. It took years of therapy, countless poor decisions, and a fair share of hard-learned lessons to finally get to a place where I could speak on this without shame.

Yes—I’m a sexually active person. And to some, it might still seem excessive. But what’s important is that I’m no longer living in denial. I’ve done the work. I’ve set boundaries. And I’ve come to understand the difference between expression and escapism.

Working in the adult industry for years gave me a front-row seat to how easy it is for people to lose themselves in a hypersexual world. It’s an environment that can become unbelievably toxic very quickly, especially if you’re already grappling with any sort of compulsion or unresolved emotional baggage. Porn—while entertaining and sometimes even artistic—isn’t real. It’s designed fantasy. Every scene is scripted, choreographed, and highly edited. The “reality” it portrays is often more misleading than liberating.

That said, some of my most meaningful sexual experiences have actually stemmed from connections formed during collaborations—ones that spilled over into real life, beyond the cameras. When the pressure to perform disappears and the masks come off, you’re left with something much more genuine. That kind of intimacy, even if it’s with multiple partners, can be healthy. The key is in building trust, being present, and most importantly, being aware.

Here’s what I’ve learned: If your pursuit of sex starts to replace your pursuit of joy, connection, or self-worth—you may need to pause. That endless chase for novelty, for “more,” can quietly evolve into a void that’s impossible to fill. And while you’re looking for that next high, you might be missing the truly beautiful moments that were right there, waiting to be lived.

So if you do identify as hypersexual—or even just highly sexual—be smart. Protect yourself and others. I test every 30 days, I’m on preventative treatment, and I stay educated. Because being sexually empowered doesn’t mean being reckless. It means being informed, intentional, and honest—with yourself and everyone you engage with.

To anyone reading this who’s on their own journey—just know that sexual energy is not something to be ashamed of. But like any powerful force, it needs to be respected and channeled with care. Please take your pleasure seriously, but take your peace even more seriously.

🫶🏻
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Thanks for sharing, and definitely agree with the sentiment.

I have a high sex drive, but I don't think it's a compulsion or struggle for me.
 
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