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How Many People do You Chat With

kïttėñ87 said:
I don't have many I chat with here. Mostly males though.
I've tried to strike up a few convos with females and they turn into dud convos (sometimes my fault too).
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Yeah sadly this site seems to be like 96% guys. So the few of us on here just get a fire hose of conversations. It’s honestly really tiring to sift through conversations in hopes of finding solid people. So by the time we may meet someone worth the energy, we’ve already seen all the pick up lines and had to deal with all kinds of people showing their true colors after we gave our time and energy to them. I feel bad a lot of the time cuz I just don’t have the energy to give to people that are worth talking to.
 
puisyolo said:
I’ll keep this in mind lol
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Truly, if you can have an interesting title other than the typical “hi” “hello” “hey there”, your chances go up. Also, just look through that persons previous posts to get a feel for things. You don’t want to ask something that they just fully explained recently in a thread. Also, if you can start a conversation with something interesting about something that person posted or said, that helps too. Out of 100 messages that a woman gets, 80 of them are just “hey. How are you?” Those conversations have a habit of never leading anywhere so we often just ignore them.
 
CanidCrossing55 said:
I only have a couple I chat with but I'm always open to be chatted with by people with common interests, male or female but it's usually me that sends dms and stuff, sometimes people are a lil shy :3
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Me personally, I don’t often people first. If I see something really interesting they post I may send something just mentioning what interested me, building some conversation off of that. It’s rare tho to have people on here that can talk about anything but sex stuff.
 
I've had a few good ones! a couple dudes who actually opened with interesting things I now chat to on snap plus a couple fellow trans girls im talking to on other platforms now. its been really nice so far :)
 
AveryShortcake said:
I've had a few good ones! a couple dudes who actually opened with interesting things I now chat to on snap plus a couple fellow trans girls im talking to on other platforms now. its been really nice so far :)
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I’ve thought about doing Snap but it just seems like an excuse for some horny dudes to constantly ask for pictures. That and I much prefer conversations where I can look back at things they said. Honestly anytime I do move off of this site for conversing, it instantly just instigates requests for video call masturbation sessions and whatnot constantly. I like that on here, I don’t have to deal with so many goon requests.
 
Miss ZW said:
I’ve thought about doing Snap but it just seems like an excuse for some horny dudes to constantly ask for pictures. That and I much prefer conversations where I can look back at things they said. Honestly anytime I do move off of this site for conversing, it instantly just instigates requests for video call masturbation sessions and whatnot constantly. I like that on here, I don’t have to deal with so many goon requests.
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Yeah that is a downside! I *usually* stick to other messengers that dont kill history by default like simplex and wire but snapchat is fun for the odd person who reciprocates when the mood strikes to just throw some nudes into the wild. I've had a couple like that (re gooners) but I just ignore them and focus on the people who are more fun to talk to :p
 
I haven’t had a lot of chats most asking simple questions like others have states. I have one decent chat with someone for a couple days! I’m kinda socially awkward and shy but I enjoy a good chat! I hope to chat with others if you’re looking to chat!
 
DeepFreakTV said:
I haven’t had a lot of chats most asking simple questions like others have states. I have one decent chat with someone for a couple days! I’m kinda socially awkward and shy but I enjoy a good chat! I hope to chat with others if you’re looking to chat!
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the socially awkward part is a struggle I totally get - I'm *way* better when people are happy to lead a convo. funny that - I'm the same in the bedroom lmao
 
Here I'm not very active with talking to people though I'd like to but at the same time I don't think I'm very interesting lol when I first joined I used to get a few random people here and there but the real question is...even though I'm a straight guy why do I get other guys?? :LOL:

Ultimately I'm fine with talking with mostly everyone but why does that happen everywhere I go lmao
 
Miss ZW said:
Me personally, I don’t often people first. If I see something really interesting they post I may send something just mentioning what interested me, building some conversation off of that. It’s rare tho to have people on here that can talk about anything but sex stuff.
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I’m really bad with not responding to new messages from people I don’t know yet. Like who is this Miss ZW? lol. Do I know her? ;)
 
wishboner said:
I’m really bad with not responding to new messages from people I don’t know yet. Like who is this Miss ZW? lol. Do I know her? ;)
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lol. Uh huh. ? I felt it was time for a male change. Something less instigating.

thepainter said:
They say she's not even real just a group hallucination. Or so I'm told anyway ?
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? Can y’all hallucinate up a more mentally stable version of me? Or maybe slim me down a bit.
 
Miss ZW said:
lol. Uh huh. ? I felt it was time for a male change. Something less instigating.


? Can y’all hallucinate up a more mentally stable version of me? Or maybe slim me down a bit.
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Mentally stable?! What's that!!
??
Who the hell knows what "normal" is anyway!
Based on your music choices, your kinks and your overall demeanor I'd say you're doing juuuuuuust fine Ms. ✨️
 
Miss ZW said:
How many different people do you chat with on a daily or semi daily/regularly basis on here? Are you a guy that only talks to women? Are you a woman that only talks to guys? Is there a decent mix? How many messages do you end up ignoring usually because of dud conversations?

I’m just curious what people’s chatting habits are on here. It feels like most of the time I message someone, they respond so quick I can’t get to my other messages.

I’m a woman and the vast majority of my conversations are with guys. I have about 15 people that I regularly chat with on a daily basis. Only 2 are women. Only 3 of them have I really gotten to know very well and they know me very well. I have maybe 10 or so dud conversations each day that I can’t commit the energy to reply to the same questions over and over again or that are just “hey how are you” copy pasted every day.
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2/3 i think
 
I've found a handful of decent people to talk too everyone is really fun to engage in conversation with on here but some of them I might phase out because of more than likely "scam/shady" actions.
 
Interesting topic. Never read thought about this...my main interests are getting to know others in the community but I guess you could say I've been one sided in just making friends with just women. (I guess I'm part of the problem?)
Never really thought about making friends with guys on here....I guess because I'm straight in real life and hearing about guys playing with animals doesn't interest me. But I guess if the guys are like me and interested in getting to know women into zoo...we could be friends?
 
Miss ZW said:
How many different people do you chat with on a daily or semi daily/regularly basis on here? Are you a guy that only talks to women? Are you a woman that only talks to guys? Is there a decent mix? How many messages do you end up ignoring usually because of dud conversations?

I’m just curious what people’s chatting habits are on here. It feels like most of the time I message someone, they respond so quick I can’t get to my other messages.

I’m a woman and the vast majority of my conversations are with guys. I have about 15 people that I regularly chat with on a daily basis. Only 2 are women. Only 3 of them have I really gotten to know very well and they know me very well. I have maybe 10 or so dud conversations each day that I can’t commit the energy to reply to the same questions over and over again or that are just “hey how are you” copy pasted every day.
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i'm a 24 year old guy & so far i have 0 conversations. most of the past conversations are with women only about 2 are men & they have been very short due to them not responding back/ghosting me
 
Here I found some good people. The messages on past forums mostly were " are you female?" or " do you have animals?" :p
 
AC904 said:
Here I'm not very active with talking to people though I'd like to but at the same time I don't think I'm very interesting lol when I first joined I used to get a few random people here and there but the real question is...even though I'm a straight guy why do I get other guys?? :LOL:

Ultimately I'm fine with talking with mostly everyone but why does that happen everywhere I go lmao
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Probably because most people aren't taking the time to read your profile. :rolleyes:
Irritating though if you flat out state something like "Straight, not interested in chatting with other guys" and you still get them.
 
Only one chat attempt so far but it didn't work out well. Someone looking for a wank which I don't have a problem with but they sent a fuck pic of them and a woman which looked questionable to me (possibly underage girl but hard to know for sure since most women shave completely bare these days and it was rear shot).

Dude got irked that I stated that they looked really young to me and I wanted to make sure they were of age. He claimed she was 19 but then he was basically "peace out" so I am thinking that she wasn't.

At any rate, being 18+ is a hard limit for me so if you intend to send a pic where it might not be readily apparent that the participant(s) are that old, I will ask. If being asked is something that's going to offend you, then don't bother DMing me.
 
It's fair to say that I don't chat that much with people here. Ok, I post in threads from time to time, but I'm not the guy who is scatter-plotting chats in DM to find the women here. From time to time I get messages from guys asking me whether I'm a female. Of course I can put that down to my name and avatar here, but my profile clearly states straight guy. So yeah, from time to time I get DMs, and usually those are guys. Not surprising, since the overwhelming majority of forum members are male.

Perhaps it's also because I'm under the radar here, and too vanilla, too polite, too passive to get noticed.

Anyway, I lost count of the number of people I have chatted with on various forums over the years, but the ones I still chat with can be counted with one hand.
 
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