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How Many People do You Chat With

Most of my convos have disappeared from the other person never following up. But, ya know sometimes I don't either if I'm not feelin' it ?‍♂️ I try to not be the one to do that though.

I agree with the OP in that zero-effort convos from the other person are a total drag. If the other person is just not a good conversationalist, then that gets tiresome really fast for me too.

I don't like to have too many going at once - I'm at a good spot with two or three.
 
snapcracklecum24 said:
So now four months later and a little bit of time away, would you say those conversations have continued and carried over or essentially gone dead due to lack of interest or ability to maintain contact?
Personally speaking, I don't talk to many people on the forum via DM. The few I have engaged with, it's mostly been navigating unwanted advances, some conversations have thankfully circumvented your typical subject matter though! Specially talking about music interests or what they enjoy outside of Zoo related topics. Which I find to be a real fresh breath of air!
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After having taken a break from being on here, some of the conversations I had before I have continued on like I was never gone. Some conversations are just completely dead. And then a couple are basically starting over again and building up. So it’s pretty mixed.

It is always nice to talk about other things outside of zoophilia. Honestly, there’s only so much that you can talk about with zoo with a lot of people. Horny talk will only get you so far.
 
paulraven said:
I haven't been on here long enough to chat yet so talking with no one at the moment
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Don’t worry, you’ll get there. Just be engaging in threads and conversations that interest you. The more people see you and your conversational skills throughout the forum, the more likely people are to send you a message.
 
wood_thrush said:
Most of my convos have disappeared from the other person never following up. But, ya know sometimes I don't either if I'm not feelin' it ?‍♂️ I try to not be the one to do that though.

I agree with the OP in that zero-effort convos from the other person are a total drag. If the other person is just not a good conversationalist, then that gets tiresome really fast for me too.

I don't like to have too many going at once - I'm at a good spot with two or three.
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Yeah, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with letting a conversation naturally die off. it’s like talking to someone out in real life. Once you both feel like there’s a good place to end the conversation you just say you’re goodbyes or you move on. I definitely don’t enjoy being the person to end the conversation or not reply to something. Obviously, I want to be nice. But then my time and energy can only be stretched so far and at times conversations hit a point where it’s taking too much energy to continue on.

2 to 3 solid conversations I feel like is this sweet spot. More than that and it feels pretty draining. so for me, I’ll choose a handful of people to poor more thought and energy into with talking with and then I’ll try to divvy out the rest of my time and energy to other messages that aren’t too bad. Ones where I feel like I’m just doing all the heavy lifting, I’ve just started to ignore.
 
I think I have occasional conversations here and that’s about it. I don’t think I talk to anyone “regularly”.
 
I'm usually not super regular, so any conversations follow that irregularity. I try to follow up when I have free time, but I'm usually down to chat about stuff.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
It is always nice to talk about other things outside of zoophilia. Honestly, there’s only so much that you can talk about with zoo with a lot of people. Horny talk will only get you so far.
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That's always a big sticking point for me when people reach out. If it's clear they just want to only talk zoo stuff or be horny then it's a pass from me. A little of both is fine, but if that's all there is to offer the conversation and chemistry is rarely any good. Besides, familiarity leads to waaay better horny chat ?
 
Gamerguy said:
I think I have occasional conversations here and that’s about it. I don’t think I talk to anyone “regularly”.
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I find it hard to have conversations with persons regularly. Not everyone has the ability to maintain a decent conversation already, but then to have continued conversations over an extended period is a hard ask for a lot of people. Especially when the conversation always goes back to a sexual nature. Because when the horny is gone, you no longer feel like talking and more associate them with just getting off. Some people can navigate both types of conversations really well so they’re not typecast into, “I’m horny so I’ll talk to this person and when I’m not horny, I stop talking to them.”
 
honeyenthusiast said:
I'm usually not super regular, so any conversations follow that irregularity. I try to follow up when I have free time, but I'm usually down to chat about stuff.
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Nothing wrong with taking things on your own time and at your own pace.

knotadeer14 said:
That's always a big sticking point for me when people reach out. If it's clear they just want to only talk zoo stuff or be horny then it's a pass from me. A little of both is fine, but if that's all there is to offer the conversation and chemistry is rarely any good. Besides, familiarity leads to waaay better horny chat ?
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I always find it funny when someone comes in talking about non-zoo stuff, but you can really tell that they are just itching to talk about sexual stuff. And you’re just playing along waiting for the switch. And it’s usually pretty predictable. But then I also get a hoot out of when It is out of absolute nowhere. You’ll be talking about movies and then the very next reply is something super vulgar and out of left field. But I definitely agree, getting to know a person a little bit better does make the horny talk a lot better.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
Nothing wrong with taking things on your own time and at your own pace.


I always find it funny when someone comes in talking about non-zoo stuff, but you can really tell that they are just itching to talk about sexual stuff. And you’re just playing along waiting for the switch. And it’s usually pretty predictable. But then I also get a hoot out of when It is out of absolute nowhere. You’ll be talking about movies and then the very next reply is something super vulgar and out of left field. But I definitely agree, getting to know a person a little bit better does make the horny talk a lot better.
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It really is funny when a conversation goes full sexual or immediately dies when you're not going that direction. I swear its been in my bio the entire time, but the amount of people that think I'm a woman and realize I'm a dude is alarmingly high. Legit no messages once they find out, really is their problem for horny DM'ing.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
I always find it funny when someone comes in talking about non-zoo stuff, but you can really tell that they are just itching to talk about sexual stuff. And you’re just playing along waiting for the switch. And it’s usually pretty predictable. But then I also get a hoot out of when It is out of absolute nowhere. You’ll be talking about movies and then the very next reply is something super vulgar and out of left field. But I definitely agree, getting to know a person a little bit better does make the horny talk a lot better.
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You're spot on. It is always aggressively obvious when someone is just waiting for their chance to switch to sexual talk. It depends how bored and bitchy I'm feeling for how much I'll entertain it, but I'll string them along and frustrated them depending on how much of a weirdo they're being. Also hey from an ex-Appalachia liver ??
honeyenthusiast said:
It really is funny when a conversation goes full sexual or immediately dies when you're not going that direction. I swear its been in my bio the entire time, but the amount of people that think I'm a woman and realize I'm a dude is alarmingly high. Legit no messages once they find out, really is their problem for horny DM'ing.
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Hahahaha I get the same thing and have zero sympathy because just like you, it's in my bio. It's not my fault I make you question your sexuality ?
 
honeyenthusiast said:
It really is funny when a conversation goes full sexual or immediately dies when you're not going that direction. I swear its been in my bio the entire time, but the amount of people that think I'm a woman and realize I'm a dude is alarmingly high. Legit no messages once they find out, really is their problem for horny DM'ing.
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That’s one thing that I find really strange I guess. That guys have this huge aversion to just speaking with other guys. Even if they’re not into dudes, why is it such a horrible concept for so many guys on here to talk to another guy. Like, I get that most guys are just looking for women to sext with or try to marry, but really? You can’t just check in on your fellow man? Try to make a friend?
 
knotadeer14 said:
You're spot on. It is always aggressively obvious when someone is just waiting for their chance to switch to sexual talk. It depends how bored and bitchy I'm feeling for how much I'll entertain it, but I'll string them along and frustrated them depending on how much of a weirdo they're being. Also hey from an ex-Appalachia liver ??
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There is definitely a lot of obnoxiousness in subversive conversations. Like really? You… you truly think that you’re being slick right now? That I cannot see through what you’re doing? I think what many guys fail to realize, is most any female or female appearing account on here has seen the exact same lines used hundreds of times.
 
knotadeer14 said:
Hahahaha I get the same thing and have zero sympathy because just like you, it's in my bio. It's not my fault I make you question your sexuality ?
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lol yea I've always wondered how many people have been just flat confused with themselves. Oh well, maybe they got to learn something.

Miss Zoo Whore said:
That’s one thing that I find really strange I guess. That guys have this huge aversion to just speaking with other guys. Even if they’re not into dudes, why is it such a horrible concept for so many guys on here to talk to another guy. Like, I get that most guys are just looking for women to sext with or try to marry, but really? You can’t just check in on your fellow man? Try to make a friend?
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Some guys are truly just too horny for their own good. I've messaged my fair share of people, but I wouldn't go so far to flat out desperate horny message someone or be disappointed in reaching out. I mean its kinda hard to find people who share interests like "this" so even if they're a guy, just talking about simple things is nice. Makes you feel a little more welcomed.
 
honeyenthusiast said:
Some guys are truly just too horny for their own good. I've messaged my fair share of people, but I wouldn't go so far to flat out desperate horny message someone or be disappointed in reaching out. I mean it’s kinda hard to find people who share interests like "this" so even if they're a guy, just talking about simple things is nice. Makes you feel a little more welcomed.
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Ain’t that the truth… some people got that horny brain rot. But yeah, I would think that just having another human being to talk with about your lifestyle that you have to keep secret from everybody would be kind of nice. Or just having another human in general to chat with freely would be nice. I’m sure there’s plenty of lonely people who wouldn’t be lonely if they would just stop being so horned up and chat with somebody that they don’t want to fuck.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
Ain’t that the truth… some people got that horny brain rot. But yeah, I would think that just having another human being to talk with about your lifestyle that you have to keep secret from everybody would be kind of nice. Or just having another human in general to chat with freely would be nice. I’m sure there’s plenty of lonely people who wouldn’t be lonely if they would just stop being so horned up and chat with somebody that they don’t want to fuck.
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Absolutely THIS right here.
Like, yeah we all share the same lifestyle choice but why would you want to chase away conversation by just not being able to control yourself ?
I'd much rather have a REAL conversation with someone and you know, we can get into the horny talk If the timing is right.... but like, having a friend in the lifestyle is that much more richer of a goal than just getting my giblets off ?
 
snapcracklecum24 said:
Absolutely THIS right here.
Like, yeah we all share the same lifestyle choice but why would you want to chase away conversation by just not being able to control yourself ?
I'd much rather have a REAL conversation with someone and you know, we can get into the horny talk If the timing is right.... but like, having a friend in the lifestyle is that much more richer of a goal than just getting my giblets off ?
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Exactly. I cannot tell you how many people tell me that they feel so lonely on here, but I get this feeling that they avoid talking to anyone that they assume has a penis. Like, you guys do realize that you’re allowed to talk to people you don’t want to fuck right? It doesn’t always have to get sexual. ? Like me personally, I’m not interested in hook ups or anything like that, but I’ll still talk to people just because having conversations is nice and it makes me feel less lonely. I’ll talk to people even though I know that we’re not gonna have sex. Sure we can talk about sex stuff, and that can be fun and all, but that’s not the main goal. I think the problem for a lot of people is they see this as just a porn/dating site. They don’t see it at all as a community forum.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
Exactly. I cannot tell you how many people tell me that they feel so lonely on here, but I get this feeling that they avoid talking to anyone that they assume has a penis. Like, you guys do realize that you’re allowed to talk to people you don’t want to fuck right? It doesn’t always have to get sexual. ? Like me personally, I’m not interested in hook ups or anything like that, but I’ll still talk to people just because having conversations is nice and it makes me feel less lonely. I’ll talk to people even though I know that we’re not gonna have sex. Sure we can talk about sex stuff, and that can be fun and all, but that’s not the main goal. I think the problem for a lot of people is they see this as just a porn/dating site. They don’t see it at all as a community forum.
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Not even dating that's giving it to much credit, lots see it as a straight up hook up site. Idk if I'm going to risk my life, my family, job, house , etc I want it to be worth it not just over a hookup ? pretty sure that's what tinder is for.
 
Don't talk to anyone regularly. Would do more than chat, though. Have had a couple good chats. Not much for total duds. Open to anyone, pansexual.
 
thepainter said:
Not even dating that's giving it to much credit, lots see it as a straight up hook up site. Idk if I'm going to risk my life, my family, job, house , etc I want it to be worth it not just over a hookup ? pretty sure that's what tinder is for.
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Yeah, that’s fair. ? Dating seems to be a very foreign concept to some people. People just seem to think that this is Zoo Tinder lol. so if you’re not somebody they want to fuck, they want literally nothing to do with you.

ArGee said:
Don't talk to anyone regularly. Would do more than chat, though. Have had a couple good chats. Not much for total duds. Open to anyone, pansexual.
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I feel like being pansexual or bisexual definitely opens up a lot more options at least.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
Yeah, that’s fair. ? Dating seems to be a very foreign concept to some people. People just seem to think that this is Zoo Tinder lol. so if you’re not somebody they want to fuck, they want literally nothing to do with you.


I feel like being pansexual or bisexual definitely opens up a lot more options at least.
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Yeah I can see that. Guess I'm more open and cautious, if I'm going to risk it I'm looking for a life partner not a hookup ? otherwise just friends no keep me sane. Living on this empty ranch by myself was not what I had in mind for my 30s ?
 
thepainter said:
Yeah I can see that. Guess I'm more open and cautious, if I'm going to risk it I'm looking for a life partner not a hookup ? otherwise just friends no keep me sane. Living on this empty ranch by myself was not what I had in mind for my 30s ?
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Yeah. Better risk/reward there for a potential life partner at least. Still just so scary taking that step. Living completely on your own just sounds terrible. I at least always have my mom around. Otherwise, hell no. I’m still somewhat afraid of the dark. I can’t live completely alone.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
How many different people do you chat with on a daily or semi daily/regularly basis on here? Are you a guy that only talks to women? Are you a woman that only talks to guys? Is there a decent mix? How many messages do you end up ignoring usually because of dud conversations?

I’m just curious what people’s chatting habits are on here. It feels like most of the time I message someone, they respond so quick I can’t get to my other messages.

I’m a woman and the vast majority of my conversations are with guys. I have about 15 people that I regularly chat with on a daily basis. Only 2 are women. Only 3 of them have I really gotten to know very well and they know me very well. I have maybe 10 or so dud conversations each day that I can’t commit the energy to reply to the same questions over and over again or that are just “hey how are you” copy pasted every day.
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Currently not chatting to anyone, tryna get my PMs unlocked
 
stardawg said:
Currently not chatting anybody just tryna unlock my PMs
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Well looks like you should have them unlocked now. Now starts the hard part, making those connections. Just got a be yourself and be thoughtful. Breathe energy into what you put out there so that people can vibe with it.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
Well looks like you should have them unlocked now. Now starts the hard part, making those connections. Just got a be yourself and be thoughtful. Breathe energy into what you put out there so that people can vibe with it.
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I’m still tryna figure out how to even like your posts ?? I’ll get the hang of it eventually
 
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