Women what are you hoping to get from this site?

johnthisisthrice

johnthisisthrice

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I read this thread addressed to men and there were really interesting comments. So I’m really curious as to the breadth of perspectives, interests and opinions from the female community in this group.
 
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I am not a woman but a straight male. Since no woman have responded I’ll venture a guess that most of the woman are content with things as they are and if visiting here may just wish to read comments maybe post a reply to a comment or PM like minded woman to share thoughts as this isn’t generally discussed in everyday society.
 
I had a fairly active social life on Beast Forum. Made a lot of quality friends there. Even met a few in person just to get a coffee and hang out. It's nice to meet like minded individuals, and I'm not talking about sex. Given the nature of the forum we have that partly in common. The major difference is the simple question Bestiality or Zoophilia? Get past that step then it depends on who you are as a person and what shade of red your flags are. So far on ZV they have been almost neon. Besides the maybe 3 individuals I've connected with, I don't really know what I'm doing here other than watching videos, reading stories, and fighting with immature idiots.
 
Forums/Websites like this one, helped me to overcome those cippling doubts about myself and my sanity. You know .. what most of us go through whilst we take our first few steps in this lifestyle. Those "Whats wrong with me?" or "Am i the only one?" questions .. having found people to talk with and stuff helped me a lot. And i think a lot of women are looking for this sort of security and safespace as well.
 
If I had been a female member of this forum, I would want a safe space on this forum, safe not just from society's condemnation of anything zoo, but also safe from the 13 a dozen male horndogs here. They give men like me a bad name, and worse, they make us invisible. So yeah, I could of course say feel free to connect with me because I am not like those idiots who think with their genitals, but yeah, I fear I got my gender working against me there...
 
AtomicCookie said:
Flocking to this thread? More like the reason why we're not flocking to this site. My partner refuses to join because she's reads some of the shit that is thrown my way just for saying no. The only reason I'm on here is because Beast Forum closed. There is nowhere else to try an make a human connection.
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This actually makes me very sad. I can totally understand why your partner would refuse to join. I can only say that many times that not all guys are hellbent on their own excitement and ruining your experience in the process. At best, it's just a loud minority of the male members here making it miserable for female members, but I fear I'm wrong there...
 
AtomicCookie said:
Flocking to this thread? More like the reason why we're not flocking to this site. My partner refuses to join because she reads some of the shit that is thrown my way just for saying no. The only reason I'm on here is because Beast Forum closed. There is nowhere else to try an make a human connection.
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Yep stalkers and harassers. Even the users who would be friendly still don't see women on this site as more than a means to an end.
 
AppleDash said:
This actually makes me very sad. I can totally understand why your partner would refuse to join. I can only say that many times that not all guys are hellbent on their own excitement and ruining your experience in the process. At best, it's just a loud minority of the male members here making it miserable for female members, but I fear I'm wrong there...
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No, you're not wrong, that's actually the perfect analogy. They're exactly like those extremely annoying loud yapping dogs that serve zero purpose and everyone hates that won't shut up no matter how many times it gets yelled at because it's too stupid to understand how unspecial insignificant and small it truly is.
 
AppleDash said:
This actually makes me very sad. I can totally understand why your partner would refuse to join. I can only say that many times that not all guys are hellbent on their own excitement and ruining your experience in the process. At best, it's just a loud minority of the male members here making it miserable for female members, but I fear I'm wrong there...
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It's a lot like fetlife, guys are there for their own kicks blissfully unaware that women are there for the same reasons. The dudes are shocked to find women aren't sex vending machines.
 
DaddyDomDog said:
It's a lot like fetlife, guys are there for their own kicks blissfully unaware that women are there for the same reasons. The dudes are shocked to find women aren't sex vending machines.
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Probably staying away from fetlife was a good decision I made then. Undoubtedly some "men" will dismiss me for being sanctimonious, but when I have found enough courage to start a chat, I intend to talk with the person, and not a sex vending machine. If sex comes up in the chat, great. If sex doesn't come up? No problem. At least I got to know somebody beyond the posts and profile pics here.
 
LadyMay00 said:
I think this happens in all the sex centered sites. I’m a member of another sex forum (not zoo related) and I chat in the forums and post pictures. It’s a small group but I probably get 5-10 messages a day from guys almost demanding that I send them personalized content. I have 20+ pictures of my body available but these random men want me to take special pics just for them and get kind of pissy about it.
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Fetlife is bad for me too, tons of beggars and old men lmfao. I prefer tinder.
 
knotjen said:
The big problem on Fetlife, at least in my view, wasn't the volume of unwanted inquiries though that did get old before mail controls were implemented.

It was the guys who not only sent an unwanted inquiry, but wouldn't take no for an answer.

"I'm into (X)"
"No thanks"
"But I'm really into (X) and you should be too."
"Go away please"
"BITCH/CUNT/FAT FUCK I DIDN'T WANT YOU ANYWAY!"

If when I said "No thanks" they went away, it would have been far less of a problem. None of them seemed to understand that no reply at all is actually a reply. It's clearly a no.

The worst were guys seeking a dominant or a mistress. I'm 6'1" barefoot so it's always assumed that's what I must be.

My height was also why I stopped wearing any kind of fetish wear to local kink events. 6'1" in a latex catsuit with 3" heels resulted in an endless stream of wanky men following me around begging for me to beat them in the event's dungeon.

The last few times I went, I wore street clothes - usually a floral sundress with suitable sunhat. Way less pestering.

It amazed me how much my doing that "ruined" their fantasy and they assumed something entirely different I guess.

Which just shows how much some of the patrons of the event really dwell on porn-based stereotypes and fantasies.

If they stopped that, and actually spent 10 minutes getting to know someone, they'd have a significantly different result than what they get - systematic "fuck off asshole" online and off.

I have so many stories lol
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I do not envy you. Lmfao that's horrible. Yeah sex clubs just aren't for me I learned I'm unmotivated by people fucking around me for the most part. Paddling a woman with an audience was fun though but at the end of the day I think I'd like to try different things.
 
knotjen said:
The big problem on Fetlife, at least in my view, wasn't the volume of unwanted inquiries though that did get old before mail controls were implemented.

It was the guys who not only sent an unwanted inquiry, but wouldn't take no for an answer.

"I'm into (X)"
"No thanks"
"But I'm really into (X) and you should be too."
"Go away please"
"BITCH/CUNT/FAT FUCK I DIDN'T WANT YOU ANYWAY!"

If when I said "No thanks" they went away, it would have been far less of a problem. None of them seemed to understand that no reply at all is actually a reply. It's clearly a no.

The worst were guys seeking a dominant or a mistress. I'm 6'1" barefoot so it's always assumed that's what I must be.

My height was also why I stopped wearing any kind of fetish wear to local kink events. 6'1" in a latex catsuit with 3" heels resulted in an endless stream of wanky men following me around begging for me to beat them in the event's dungeon.

The last few times I went, I wore street clothes - usually a floral sundress with suitable sunhat. Way less pestering.

It amazed me how much my doing that "ruined" their fantasy and they assumed something entirely different I guess.

Which just shows how much some of the patrons of the event really dwell on porn-based stereotypes and fantasies.

If they stopped that, and actually spent 10 minutes getting to know someone, they'd have a significantly different result than what they get - systematic "fuck off asshole" online and off.

I have so many stories lol
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Fet life IS very aggressive too like I hate it, or you're wank material for some horny sob until they get off lmfao.
 
knotjen said:
Kink events, most of them anyway, aren't sex events. That doesn't mean sex doesn't happen but it's not what the event is about.

I've played in the dungeon before. paddling, spanking, ropework can be fun with cool people.



Yeah, the objectification of all sorts of people, women included, gets annoying real fast. But that's where mail controls come in. You'd still run into them in the discussion forums, but at least they won't land in your inbox with a list of 20 demands.

Some of them are amusing oxymorons though, at least the first time I ran into it. After 500 times it was way less amusing.

"I'm a submissive guy, I like to obey, I will do whatever it is you want to do.
I am into oral worship, crossdressing, sissification, panty humiliation, diapers, and love to receive beatings"

So much for what *I* want, right? lol
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Legit when guys asknme with a laundry list of kinks I start naming rates, if you want a menu of kink I' going to charge. So far they all recoil and cry.
 
LadyMay00 said:
I just like to read comments and of course watch the videos. I’ve had this “attraction” since I was very young but have obviously never been able to talk about it. It’s nice to hear others talk about it and to learn.

Of course, I’m also hoping to gather up the nerve to try it in real life. I’ve only had neutered male dogs in my life until now. I have an 18 month old intact german shepherd who I’m waiting to mature…I have a suspicion that I’m going to chicken out and get him fixed before I can try it.
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Hang in there! 🤞
 
I just joined here and I'm thrilled to actually find other people who are interested in this (and actually have experience with it). My only experience was with an ex girlfriend about 20 years ago now and haven't really met anyone since. Hoping to have discussions with others in a safe space primarily, but another (probably unrealistic) goal would be connecting with someone in-person.
 
Mia Pfoetchen said:
Forums/Websites like this one, helped me to overcome those cippling doubts about myself and my sanity. You know .. what most of us go through whilst we take our first few steps in this lifestyle. Those "Whats wrong with me?" or "Am i the only one?" questions .. having found people to talk with and stuff helped me a lot. And i think a lot of women are looking for this sort of security and safespace as well.
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I completely agree. Not a woman myself but share this feeling ☺️
 
LadyMay00 said:
I think this happens in all the sex centered sites. I’m a member of another sex forum (not zoo related) and I chat in the forums and post pictures. It’s a small group but I probably get 5-10 messages a day from guys almost demanding that I send them personalized content. I have 20+ pictures of my body available but these random men want me to take special pics just for them and get kind of pissy about it.
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I think that's very common, sadly. And hopefully a good incentive to Block or Ignore..? I can't see a downside to that function, unless someone can enlighten me.
 
LadyMay00 said:
I just like to read comments and of course watch the videos. I’ve had this “attraction” since I was very young but have obviously never been able to talk about it. It’s nice to hear others talk about it and to learn.

Of course, I’m also hoping to gather up the nerve to try it in real life. I’ve only had neutered male dogs in my life until now. I have an 18 month old intact german shepherd who I’m waiting to mature…I have a suspicion that I’m going to chicken out and get him fixed before I can try it.
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Keep him intact!! :)
 
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