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What's Your Biggest Barrier To Meeting Others

Trust, number one by a long shot. Physical insecurity and anxiety being the others. Three factors that make it seem an impossibility to have zoo/likeminded friends to shoot the shit, share problems and hang out with, nevermind anything sexual.

Being zoo is lonely, it's basically a given.
 
Trust, distance, lack of connection and safety.

I am black women in South Africa, Vanderbijlpark. Most people are chat with are far away from me. I have met 1 older white guy and we wanted to have an arrangement to fuck his dog. He wanted us to meet at malls, go out for lunch and drinks and honestly I was not comfortable at all. I had thought it will happen on second occasion of meeting but he was more focused on wanting us to fuck than the original reason why we were meeting. So I decided to cut ties because I hated the public meetings and him wanting to take me home to see where I stay. As soon as a person lacks boundaries, that's a red flag for me.
Another lady had reached out and said she is not into it but her husband and brothers are. After an experience with the dog, they will obviously want to try me. The husband and the brother were too eager to meet and pushing too hard. This was a bit too much for me.

I have just concluded that, I will have the real experience with my own dogs when I eventually have them.
 
Fake people, it's also extremely risky. Trust the wrong person and one's life can be ruined. Obviously owners have even more to lose, but point still stands.
 
Like almost everyone else here have said, trust is the biggest thing that's holding me back. We both should be able to trust to each other about safety, keeping it our secret and everyone being healthy and all, and that's actually lot to ask. How to find the right person who is 100% trustworthy is probably quite a task... More minor thing is that I'm very bad at starting conversations with strangers.
 
Lucretia1990 said:
Trust, distance, lack of connection and safety.

I am black women in South Africa, Vanderbijlpark. Most people are chat with are far away from me. I have met 1 older white guy and we wanted to have an arrangement to fuck his dog. He wanted us to meet at malls, go out for lunch and drinks and honestly I was not comfortable at all. I had thought it will happen on second occasion of meeting but he was more focused on wanting us to fuck than the original reason why we were meeting. So I decided to cut ties because I hated the public meetings and him wanting to take me home to see where I stay. As soon as a person lacks boundaries, that's a red flag for me.
Another lady had reached out and said she is not into it but her husband and brothers are. After an experience with the dog, they will obviously want to try me. The husband and the brother were too eager to meet and pushing too hard. This was a bit too much for me.

I have just concluded that, I will have the real experience with my own dogs when I eventually have them.
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Ouch, that's a backward area to be stuck in on all fronts. Lived there briefly many many years ago and it was repressive. Sorry you've had such kak experiences, too many people that take advantage. Hopefully one day you'll meet your person naturally and can enjoy each other but until then, sadly, you're probably better off being safe hey.
 
There are doxxers out there, some may even be quite convincing. Then there is the whole crowds who are just looking to be knotted. So some severe filtering has to take place. At that time it often turns out that the person you may want to meet, lives on the other side of the globe. Or disc...
 
Like most, it would be trust. It's hard to put yourself out there when you don't know if you can trust someone, even here.
 
My taste is spécifique. I wish I could meet a woman with zoo-fetish since I am not interested in animals, but I would like to enjoy watching her having sex with a dog. So various barriers appear from this - trust, reputation, and absence of skills. We need to establish a bond, connection, high trust in each other, so it could stay as a secret between us. If someone finds out, my reputation between my relatives, friends and coworkers will be ruined. And since it is my dream, I have no idea how to let this happen, I don`t have a dog.
 
Knutshack said:
As the thread title says, what's your biggest barrier stopping you from meeting other zoos or getting experiences?

I know most people here aren't owners and are looking, but I mean providing you had the regular opportunity to have sex with animals, what would be the biggest barrier preventing you from meeting?

For example, parents? Family? Work? Not living alone? Etc.
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Honestly not living alone is my only one
 
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