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What's Your Biggest Barrier To Meeting Others

Trust, number one by a long shot. Physical insecurity and anxiety being the others. Three factors that make it seem an impossibility to have zoo/likeminded friends to shoot the shit, share problems and hang out with, nevermind anything sexual.

Being zoo is lonely, it's basically a given.
 
Trust, distance, lack of connection and safety.

I am black women in South Africa, Vanderbijlpark. Most people are chat with are far away from me. I have met 1 older white guy and we wanted to have an arrangement to fuck his dog. He wanted us to meet at malls, go out for lunch and drinks and honestly I was not comfortable at all. I had thought it will happen on second occasion of meeting but he was more focused on wanting us to fuck than the original reason why we were meeting. So I decided to cut ties because I hated the public meetings and him wanting to take me home to see where I stay. As soon as a person lacks boundaries, that's a red flag for me.
Another lady had reached out and said she is not into it but her husband and brothers are. After an experience with the dog, they will obviously want to try me. The husband and the brother were too eager to meet and pushing too hard. This was a bit too much for me.

I have just concluded that, I will have the real experience with my own dogs when I eventually have them.
 
Like almost everyone else here have said, trust is the biggest thing that's holding me back. We both should be able to trust to each other about safety, keeping it our secret and everyone being healthy and all, and that's actually lot to ask. How to find the right person who is 100% trustworthy is probably quite a task... More minor thing is that I'm very bad at starting conversations with strangers.
 
Lucretia1990 said:
Trust, distance, lack of connection and safety.

I am black women in South Africa, Vanderbijlpark. Most people are chat with are far away from me. I have met 1 older white guy and we wanted to have an arrangement to fuck his dog. He wanted us to meet at malls, go out for lunch and drinks and honestly I was not comfortable at all. I had thought it will happen on second occasion of meeting but he was more focused on wanting us to fuck than the original reason why we were meeting. So I decided to cut ties because I hated the public meetings and him wanting to take me home to see where I stay. As soon as a person lacks boundaries, that's a red flag for me.
Another lady had reached out and said she is not into it but her husband and brothers are. After an experience with the dog, they will obviously want to try me. The husband and the brother were too eager to meet and pushing too hard. This was a bit too much for me.

I have just concluded that, I will have the real experience with my own dogs when I eventually have them.
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Ouch, that's a backward area to be stuck in on all fronts. Lived there briefly many many years ago and it was repressive. Sorry you've had such kak experiences, too many people that take advantage. Hopefully one day you'll meet your person naturally and can enjoy each other but until then, sadly, you're probably better off being safe hey.
 
There are doxxers out there, some may even be quite convincing. Then there is the whole crowds who are just looking to be knotted. So some severe filtering has to take place. At that time it often turns out that the person you may want to meet, lives on the other side of the globe. Or disc...
 
My taste is spécifique. I wish I could meet a woman with zoo-fetish since I am not interested in animals, but I would like to enjoy watching her having sex with a dog. So various barriers appear from this - trust, reputation, and absence of skills. We need to establish a bond, connection, high trust in each other, so it could stay as a secret between us. If someone finds out, my reputation between my relatives, friends and coworkers will be ruined. And since it is my dream, I have no idea how to let this happen, I don`t have a dog.
 
Knutshack said:
As the thread title says, what's your biggest barrier stopping you from meeting other zoos or getting experiences?

I know most people here aren't owners and are looking, but I mean providing you had the regular opportunity to have sex with animals, what would be the biggest barrier preventing you from meeting?

For example, parents? Family? Work? Not living alone? Etc.
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Honestly not living alone is my only one
 
irishzoogirl04 said:
As a woman I’d have to jump to the obvious. I’d either be entering a strangers home, or a hotel/ air BnB. Some of the people I have dming me are people without dogs, just wanting to fuck me themselves. You’re putting a lot of trust in a stranger. Even if you meet them a few times prior. I’m not sure on how to guarantee once you enter their home, will they let you out again
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Even as an owner there is risk. There are those out there would trick us into being set up. All you can do is do your best to figure out their motive.
 
My nerves usually get the better of me. I'd love to meet and connect with other zoos irl but when I think of all the ways it can possibly go wrong I get too nervous to try anything.
I live in a fairly small city too so if something were to get out word would spread quickly and I don't think I could handle that situation.
 
Jester said:
As an owner, the only problem I have meeting is.... who. My state has almost nothing to offer. 90% of interactions I've had here are other men asking for "a turn".
When i had my male I had a few women that turned up, but for the same. Wanting to try their first dog. I even humored a few of the men. But it's never a friendship they are looking for. Just a chance.

Now I'm a bit more picky about who I let actually get close. I want to chat for a while. If we hit it off, a meeting is cool. If I don't feel it there, that's where it stops.
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Your post described my situation to a t. 😔 I’d prefer making a friend out of the situation before anything else.
 
BentoBox69 said:
Currently I am sanctioned in my state, meaning if I leave I'd be officially a criminal. Reason is I owe a massive amount of medical debt that was dumped on me when I turned 18.

Luckily over the years ive been fighting this injustice in court. Im 22 now and my case is finally winning. Hopefully it will end soon, this debt has ruined my life and killed many opportunities for work and pleasure.

Even when I'm free money will be a problem for a while. But I hope to move and restart my life somewhere else. Hopefully closer to zoo friends I have who support my dream of having a dog wife. But we will see, it is too early to tell.
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Things will work out! ❤️
 
Devitrify123 said:
Your post described my situation to a t. 😔 I’d prefer making a friend out of the situation before anything else.
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*Sigh* Yeah, that's pretty accurate for me as well. I don't whore out my dog or any other animals I may come to own so it's very... barren. Anyone who talks can't or won't just come visit; it seems "impossible" for most. Whatever that means. I wouldn't even mind sharing, but we need to know each other and get along other than getting your dick wet and vanishing into the void.
(That's not directed at you @Devitrify123 , just to be clear)
 
BentoBox69 said:
Currently I am sanctioned in my state, meaning if I leave I'd be officially a criminal. Reason is I owe a massive amount of medical debt that was dumped on me when I turned 18.

Luckily over the years ive been fighting this injustice in court. Im 22 now and my case is finally winning. Hopefully it will end soon, this debt has ruined my life and killed many opportunities for work and pleasure.

Even when I'm free money will be a problem for a while. But I hope to move and restart my life somewhere else. Hopefully closer to zoo friends I have who support my dream of having a dog wife. But we will see, it is too early to tell.
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Holy crap, that's so much to go through. I hope it has or is still working itself out.
 
irishzoogirl04 said:
As a woman I’d have to jump to the obvious. I’d either be entering a strangers home, or a hotel/ air BnB. Some of the people I have dming me are people without dogs, just wanting to fuck me themselves. You’re putting a lot of trust in a stranger. Even if you meet them a few times prior. I’m not sure on how to guarantee once you enter their home, will they let you out again
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Thisssssss
 
I'm new here, but many have come before. The ones who came before haven't always been the most honest, and that causes people like me who want to make friends and build friendships, and yes have their first time, issues with trust as stated in all the previous posts. Its hard for people to trust when they have been burned so many times before, i get that.
 
Definitely the fact that i still live with my parents, if I lived alone things would be alot easier, which is why I'm hoping to find someone in my area who is an owner and would be willing to let me fuck thier dog
 
Knutshack said:
As the thread title says, what's your biggest barrier stopping you from meeting other zoos or getting experiences?

I know most people here aren't owners and are looking, but I mean providing you had the regular opportunity to have sex with animals, what would be the biggest barrier preventing you from meeting?

For example, parents? Family? Work? Not living alone? Etc.
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Trust,
It's such a hush hush thing,
No one trusts anyone
I myself am very open about how I love dog cock and how much fun being mounted is
how beautiful the k9 cock is
How I crave being owned by dog
And I will tell them about myself
Everything they want to know
So too much information or
No information at all
It's boils down to trusting one another
Wish it wasn't that way
I figured if your on here there is a high probability you enjoy the things I do
I trust there for

Let's all b on knees
 
ikanon said:
There are doxxers out there, some may even be quite convincing. Then there is the whole crowds who are just looking to be knotted. So some severe filtering has to take place. At that time it often turns out that the person you may want to meet, lives on the other side of the globe. Or disc...
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I just wish that sometimes people could be more open about their rough location as at least this way you can get an idea if meeting could be a possibility or if they are just wasting your time or just playing you.
 
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