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What's Your Biggest Barrier To Meeting Others

afrank2016 said:
The thirst is so real, like I'm all for meeting with someone and even potentially sharing, but there are some people that just act so entitled, the posts where people are crying "why won't any owners let me fuck their dog😭😭😭"

Some of those people act like dogs are just sex toys and it's nauseating.
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Thirst, entitled, sex toys, you put it in a nutshell 👍
 
Location. Not a lot of people live where I'm at and I'm sure there isn't enough for a small percentage of them to be into zoo. Considered moving to a bigger city. Would lose the peace though. Not a lot of problems out here.
 
Knutshack said:
As the thread title says, what's your biggest barrier stopping you from meeting other zoos or getting experiences?

I know most people here aren't owners and are looking, but I mean providing you had the regular opportunity to have sex with animals, what would be the biggest barrier preventing you from meeting?

For example, parents? Family? Work? Not living alone? Etc.
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living situation can't let me host, i am a canine owner though (although because of issue #1 i lack the privacy and permission to give it a shot. landlord is firm on no pets inside, and camera's are around the property.

also fear that any might be stings, or someone out to hurt a zoo, and the risk of the consequences with employer potentially getting informed sooner or later and getting fired, plus being blacklisted in the industry.

aside from that if i owned my own ranch, might be different
 
ausbeast420 said:
Do you think it's more dangerous when it's dealing with people into more extreme things like zoo stuff? I feel like this would be a fear in any situation but the added factor of it being illegal probably adds to the fears, I would like to think that most people on here who are really interested and not scammers and fakes seem mostly really lovely people but that's just from the interactions I've had and I'm sure it's different for women
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i mean in beastforums days was there not a sting? i recall some zoo related site became a sting op, and some people were caught in texas? arizona or new mexico? not sure but i do recall it was a west southern state where the sheriff had zero tolerance for zoo's
 
For me it's just fear of not knowing what to do. How to engage, how to start a conversation, what rules are there (spoken or unspoken). I have friends but none with animals and we're all in the same blind, fearful boat.
 
To be specific about "trust," it's my fear of being outed. I'm not a couch-surfing teenager. I have a lot to lose and I know it. Things go wrong, people change, and then someone would have this real-world dagger at my throat. The life, home, family, friends, and pets I could lose, I could never replace.
 
Knutshack said:
As the thread title says, what's your biggest barrier stopping you from meeting other zoos or getting experiences?

I know most people here aren't owners and are looking, but I mean providing you had the regular opportunity to have sex with animals, what would be the biggest barrier preventing you from meeting?

For example, parents? Family? Work? Not living alone? Etc.
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Trusting people. I’m a shy person and bring that it’s illegal, my fear of being set up stops me from doing anything with other people.
 
Dealing with husbands and trying to make the inexperienced realize there is a big difference between reality and their expectations.

I met an inexperienced couple from here in the 'Ville a few weeks ago. The wife was willing and eager, but the husband did most of the communicating. He assured me she could handle my boy's size after I explained many times he was very large and not for the faint of heart.

Long story short... it was a very painful experience for her and 100% blame was placed on me by the husband.

I humbly accept my responsibility; I should have said NO.
 
Trust also for me first, and also safety.. but safety comes with trust. How to feel safe if you can't trust ? There's so much potential for this to end badly... it's not something you can easily share without having full confidence, and I'm not even talking about taking the next step!
 
Safety and trust is a big one for me; it's not easy finding people who are into this lifestyle let alone those that we can openly trust about it all.
 
Knutshack said:
As the thread title says, what's your biggest barrier stopping you from meeting other zoos or getting experiences?

I know most people here aren't owners and are looking, but I mean providing you had the regular opportunity to have sex with animals, what would be the biggest barrier preventing you from meeting?

For example, parents? Family? Work? Not living alone? Etc.
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The only barriers for us is trust, discretion, and making sure the animal isn't being abused.
 
Trust for sure! For now in real world only three (very trustful!) people know my exp with Wolfie and that's enough haha 🤭 Actually I'm not planning to met other zoos, because I don't see a reason to do this. Less problems, the better.
 
Simply fakers/posers (beastialists/fetishists) that are looking for a 'free ride' or a 'hot fuck'. Over the past 20+ years I've made a few close friends but overall I won't/wouldn't waste my time pissing on the feet of most of the members here on ZV.
 
People are just people. I've met a few zoo's both organically in the wild and from here or bf. Three were problems ... everyone else was fine. So far that's 3/12 or one quarter of zoo's I've met were not my kind of people.

One was a meth addict and crazy.

One was an alcoholic and had issues with boundaries

The last one never drank or used drugs but was the most crazy.

All 3 were zoo's in their own right . All 3 proved to be mentally unstable and untrustworthy.


But the other 9 people were absolutely fine. I haven't personally met anyone that I'd want to spend alot of time around. Nothing wrong with that per si . Just haven't organically clicked all the way. I guess I haven't found that zoo friend I can call up and go to a movie or get a steak yet.

But I'm not here to tell you that you shouldn't try to get to know your fellow zoo's. Just keep in mind we are all different.
 
There's a few barriers that I know I have when it comes to considering meeting people in real life.

A bit of a smaller population here in Australia compared with other parts of the world - smaller numbers of people potentially meaning a smaller percentage of zoos. And being somewhat of an introvert in real life, my social circle is already pretty limited even in the non-zoo world.

Alignment of interests is another hurdle - of the folks I do happen to chat to, most have are only interested in 'getting off', wanting to bro-jerk to porn together or having me describe my experiences in detail while they respond with 'oh that's hot' - I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that, but it's just not something that interests me - I'm looking for mates that share interests in and out of zoo. There might be 20 people in spitting distance of me, but if they all just want to circlejerk around some porn, then I'm not interested.

But the biggest barrier for myself, like many others, is trust and the thought/worry of outing myself to some undercover white knight out in public puts a real dampener on my enthusiasm to meet IRL.

That said, I have made a couple of good connections/friendships online in the zoo world, and while I still have the idea of meeting likeminded folks in the future, it's not a priority
 
Like a lot of others on here, I think trust is a big issue for me, that and I think that with it being such a controversial topic, finding someone in the first place to indulge in it with could be an issue without there being more sites like this. Oh and I can be very shy so making contact with people is difficult to begin with
 
I agree trust, its hard to come out to people my cum friends all think im too weird but they like the sex so trust is really the biggest dynamic, I live in Texas, but even here in the texas threads it is just awkward!!
 
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