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In 2008 I lived in Montreal, and I was dating a guy for about 7 months. We'd met each other's parents and the idea of marriage was being tossed around. I confided in him about my zoo lifestyle and he was very accepting of it, and even wanted to participate or at least watch me in the act. I was hesitant at first, because I wasn't sure how my 3 year old lab would respond to having someone else in the room with us as he could be very protective and often growled at the next door neighbors if he could hear them while we were tied. We decided to try it anyway and I must admit that having him there was very exciting. It was the first time I had ever shared it with anyone (in person), and I hadn't realized that exhibition would turn me on like it did. We talked about it often when we were alone, and how I didn't compare my dog with my boyfriend sexually, rather it was two different sides of myself. After three or four times I felt more comfortable, even though he was always worried about the scratches on my legs and butt.
It was about a month after my first "show" that I saw myself on BF... Altogether he posted 8 videos of me without my knowledge including some stuff we did with each other. No masks, no blurring, he even used my name in a few of the videos. I quickly contacted the BF Admins and had them remove the videos, something I'm still grateful for, they were very helpful and apologetic. But, by then, the videos and screenshots had spread to sites that have no privacy policy. Or no oversight at all. I wanted to hire a lawyer, but the taboo of what was recorded kept me from taking it that far.
I severed all contact with him and persuaded my friends and family to do the same, but he started spreading rumors about me. I was quietly fired from my job (thankfully), and after about a few months of dodging abuse both online and in person, I decided that I had to leave the city. I found another job in the northeast USA, and left the country.
I didn't have to change my name or fake my own death, but I don't have any friends left in Canada that will talk to me. I shut myself away from the world for almost a decade, and I still suffer from agoraphobia among other things. That was also the last serious relationship I've been in with any human.
TL;DR - I shared my secret with my boyfriend, and he ruined my life by posting me in the act online.
I'm open to questions but not pity, talking about it has proven to be helpful.