Ladies, would you ever let a guy watch you play with your dog?

emmaluna said:
Love to!
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I am so sorry the below happened to you.

If we were friends, and if you consented, I would've peed in his beer(s), taken my dog poop on his lawn, and openly confronted him about being a degenerate snitch at every available public opportunity.

It's not about kink, it's about integrity and respect. Snitches lack the former and don't deserve the latter.
emmaluna said:
I was quietly fired from my job (thankfully),
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Tell us how you really feel about that job! ;-)
emmaluna said:
I don't have any friends left in Canada that will talk to me.
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There's a lot of kinks I don't agree with -- but I draw a hard line at proffering unsolicited opinions (except for degen pedos -- I'll turn you in and tell you it was me who did it). But perhaps after a lot of pain, do you think you're better off? With better people around you?

emmaluna said:
I shut myself away from the world for almost a decade, and I still suffer from agoraphobia among other things. That was also the last serious relationship I've been in with any human.
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So sorry to hear that. :-( Best of luck in your struggles!
emmaluna said:
I'm open to questions but not pity, talking about it has proven to be helpful.
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Max respect to you, as here's what i see you not doing: Snitching on the degen snitch guy who actually deserves it. Kudos for the integrity and strength of character to "rise above the fray", as it were.
 
Volare said:
I am so sorry the below happened to you.

If we were friends, and if you consented, I would've peed in his beer(s), taken my dog poop on his lawn, and openly confronted him about being a degenerate snitch at every available public opportunity.

It's not about kink, it's about integrity and respect. Snitches lack the former and don't deserve the latter.

Tell us how you really feel about that job! ;-)


There's a lot of kinks I don't agree with -- but I draw a hard line at proffering unsolicited opinions (except for degen pedos -- I'll turn you in and tell you it was me who did it). But perhaps after a lot of pain, do you think you're better off? With better people around you?



So sorry to hear that. :-( Best of luck in your struggles!


Max respect to you, as here's what i see you not doing: Snitching on the degen snitch guy who actually deserves it. Kudos for the integrity and strength of character to "rise above the fray", as it were.
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Thank you for your comments, they made me chuckle.

At this point it's been so long that, while I haven't healed, I have emotionally recovered quite a bit. I also fantasized about many things including peeing in his beer(s) funny enough. I took another route and decided to suffer in silence for a long time, and experience true and completely unbridled rage.
What I meant when I said I was fired quietly from my job was that they didn't publicly disclose the reason for my termination, and there were no rumors that circulated about my departure. I actually loved that job, and the people I worked with.
As for where I am now, and whether I'm better off, it's a resounding YES! At the time it was the most traumatic time I had ever been through, but I came out of it alive and healthy. I'm a lot wiser and less gullible, but more than that I became independent. I still haven't had any serious relationships with humans since then, but I've come to terms with that and found that I'm much better off with my four-legged roommates who don't know treachery or deception.
 
This story started out great. So sorry you had to deal with all of this. Not a single one of your friends was okay with it? I'm in the northeast as well if you want a friend!
 
Our first real attempt was with another couple (she involved too) plus the owner, so yes. But not not accepting random invites from strangers on the internet.
 
emmaluna said:
Love to!
In 2008 I lived in Montreal, and I was dating a guy for about 7 months. We'd met each other's parents and the idea of marriage was being tossed around. I confided in him about my zoo lifestyle and he was very accepting of it, and even wanted to participate or at least watch me in the act. I was hesitant at first, because I wasn't sure how my 3 year old lab would respond to having someone else in the room with us as he could be very protective and often growled at the next door neighbors if he could hear them while we were tied. We decided to try it anyway and I must admit that having him there was very exciting. It was the first time I had ever shared it with anyone (in person), and I hadn't realized that exhibition would turn me on like it did. We talked about it often when we were alone, and how I didn't compare my dog with my boyfriend sexually, rather it was two different sides of myself. After three or four times I felt more comfortable, even though he was always worried about the scratches on my legs and butt.
It was about a month after my first "show" that I saw myself on BF... Altogether he posted 8 videos of me without my knowledge including some stuff we did with each other. No masks, no blurring, he even used my name in a few of the videos. I quickly contacted the BF Admins and had them remove the videos, something I'm still grateful for, they were very helpful and apologetic. But, by then, the videos and screenshots had spread to sites that have no privacy policy. Or no oversight at all. I wanted to hire a lawyer, but the taboo of what was recorded kept me from taking it that far.
I severed all contact with him and persuaded my friends and family to do the same, but he started spreading rumors about me. I was quietly fired from my job (thankfully), and after about a few months of dodging abuse both online and in person, I decided that I had to leave the city. I found another job in the northeast USA, and left the country.
I didn't have to change my name or fake my own death, but I don't have any friends left in Canada that will talk to me. I shut myself away from the world for almost a decade, and I still suffer from agoraphobia among other things. That was also the last serious relationship I've been in with any human.

TL;DR - I shared my secret with my boyfriend, and he ruined my life by posting me in the act online.

I'm open to questions but not pity, talking about it has proven to be helpful.
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Sorry to hear you had these experiences, good to share your story, hopefully a lot of people learn from this to stay save, sadly this is not a thing to share with other people.

Your ex is a asshole for outing you that way, i never did understand why people even want to do this to try to destroy other people's lives, this world is so damn fucked up.
 
For the women saying no, why? I just see yall saying no but offering zero explanation and im really curious
 
Mn42as said:
Sorry to hear you had these experiences, good to share your story, hopefully a lot of people learn from this to stay save, sadly this is not a thing to share with other people.

Your ex is a asshole for outing you that way, i never did understand why people even want to do this to try to destroy other people's lives, this world is so damn fucked up.
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I've had a lot of time to dissect his motives, both with and without professional help. Part of healing and moving on was realizing that he was an absolute sociopath, but was very good at hiding it like most sociopaths are. Despite who I believed he was at the time, any ongoing relationship with him would not have gone well. I haven't been in contact with him for obvious reasons, but my therapist and I concluded that he felt that he was somehow entitled to share videos of me because he believed that he owned me, which would allow him (in his mind) to post everything about me without guilt, while getting a boost to his ego from the comments he received on the posts. I'm only thankful that he wasn't able to make any money from it, as even the least reputable zoo content producer required a model release statement.
 
I can't get it to my mind to do something like that, luckily not all mind's are the same, that guy needs therapy though even iff he thinks he owns you it's still not a reason to destroy someone's life, but i also think some do share stuff of others without thinking about what consequences it could have for other people.
 
So other question related to this subject.

Iff a guy is interested or actively himself with a dog would you share it with a guy ofcourse iff the trust issue of this part is solved?

In a way like not only watching but participating in it all.

Just curious iff there would be female's interested to share this with a male friend or partner.
 
emmaluna said:
Love to!
In 2008 I lived in Montreal, and I was dating a guy for about 7 months. We'd met each other's parents and the idea of marriage was being tossed around. I confided in him about my zoo lifestyle and he was very accepting of it, and even wanted to participate or at least watch me in the act. I was hesitant at first, because I wasn't sure how my 3 year old lab would respond to having someone else in the room with us as he could be very protective and often growled at the next door neighbors if he could hear them while we were tied. We decided to try it anyway and I must admit that having him there was very exciting. It was the first time I had ever shared it with anyone (in person), and I hadn't realized that exhibition would turn me on like it did. We talked about it often when we were alone, and how I didn't compare my dog with my boyfriend sexually, rather it was two different sides of myself. After three or four times I felt more comfortable, even though he was always worried about the scratches on my legs and butt.
It was about a month after my first "show" that I saw myself on BF... Altogether he posted 8 videos of me without my knowledge including some stuff we did with each other. No masks, no blurring, he even used my name in a few of the videos. I quickly contacted the BF Admins and had them remove the videos, something I'm still grateful for, they were very helpful and apologetic. But, by then, the videos and screenshots had spread to sites that have no privacy policy. Or no oversight at all. I wanted to hire a lawyer, but the taboo of what was recorded kept me from taking it that far.
I severed all contact with him and persuaded my friends and family to do the same, but he started spreading rumors about me. I was quietly fired from my job (thankfully), and after about a few months of dodging abuse both online and in person, I decided that I had to leave the city. I found another job in the northeast USA, and left the country.
I didn't have to change my name or fake my own death, but I don't have any friends left in Canada that will talk to me. I shut myself away from the world for almost a decade, and I still suffer from agoraphobia among other things. That was also the last serious relationship I've been in with any human.

TL;DR - I shared my secret with my boyfriend, and he ruined my life by posting me in the act online.

I'm open to questions but not pity, talking about it has proven to be helpful.
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You have been incredibly courageous, uprooting yourself from a place where you've lived the majority of your life, and to start over almost completely anew, that is not a mean feat! Well done!!
 
As a guy, I'd love to watch and I'm interested in being knotted so.... But first, probably best to spend some time with woman and dog (all nonsexual) so the doggy is used to my presence. I'd be willing to do some work for it.
 
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