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Is anybody else just fuckin lonely?

I feel lonely on and off, sometimes I like having my time to myself. Sometimes though I just want someone to hold me and pat my head, tell me it's all gonna be ok... things like that. I try not to spend too much time in despair about, but that's easier said than done sometimes.
 
BeFree1950 said:
I feel lonely on and off, sometimes I like having my time to myself. Sometimes though I just want someone to hold me and pat my head, tell me it's all gonna be ok... things like that. I try not to spend too much time in despair about, but that's easier said than done sometimes.
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I'll pat your head! If you a guy, I'll do it as a sypathetic freind, if you're a lady, I'll pet you sensually and slowly :) What region or area mights thou be?
 
BeFree1950 said:
Minnesota
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I just came from norther IA where I ended my trucking career and business with both failure and early retirement. I was looking for top guys on squirt dot org and posted here also for meetups. MN is quite a drive for a head pat, but I give you a spiritual one! I'm glad you like that, I did that with a zoo girl I saw and she really liked it. I kinda am split between going back to IA, or NJ to finish my first two years up of my video game degree before transferring to Full Sail. Maybe if things get sorted out at the IA college I was out, I won't have to go to NJ and could come see you.
 
Cut the crap, there no reason for you to be on this thread posting toxic and unproductive messages.
BeFree1950 said:
I feel lonely on and off, sometimes I like having my time to myself. Sometimes though I just want someone to hold me and pat my head, tell me it's all gonna be ok... things like that. I try not to spend too much time in despair about, but that's easier said than done sometimes.
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Accept it and move on, Jesus Christ, y'all are pathetic.
 
thebestguy said:
If you aren't going to have anything to say that adds to the conversation then keep it in Dumpster fire.
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If telling someone to move on is toxic then I guess it's more productive to let people wallow in their own misery. Noted. I'll start self-censoring on this side of the forum.
 
piperthedog said:
Not only am I feeling lonely, I also can’t see a way out of it given my circumstances…
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Same here, friend. What's up? You've got an entire forum here with plenty of folks who see things the way you do - lots of ways to not be alone. How come now way out??
 
420Fatty said:
I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?
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Well, I've been alone pretty much all my life so loneliness is now my normal. I'm 54 and I was severely abused when I was a child. It was both mental abuse and physical but never sexual. It really fucked me up to no end and now it seems that I will die alone as an underground basement dweller. My life was doomed pretty much before I was even born and I sure wish my loneliness would come to an end. My mother and my birth father were 2 complete assholes as well as my step-dad. After what they did to me it's a wonder why I'm still here. Please don't abuse children because it really fucking hurts.
 
LuvelyLeda said:
How come? :(
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Puhp said:
Same here, friend. What's up? You've got an entire forum here with plenty of folks who see things the way you do - lots of ways to not be alone. How come now way out??
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Part of it is being physically alone irl, part of it is having been pent up at home for too long, part of it is having no canine friend to cuddle with. I actually made another thread going into all the details but I thankfully received some good advice.
I’m feeling a bit better now, and just hope I can get my emotions back on track soon :)
 
KnottSoBig said:
Well, I've been alone pretty much all my life so loneliness is now my normal. I'm 54 and I was severely abused when I was a child. It was both mental abuse and physical but never sexual. It really fucked me up to no end and now it seems that I will die alone as an underground basement dweller. My life was doomed pretty much before I was even born and I sure wish my loneliness would come to an end. My mother and my birth father were 2 complete assholes as well as my step-dad. After what they did to me it's a wonder why I'm still here. Please don't abuse children because it really fucking hurts.
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You are NOT the only one who endured this. I have to self-censor on this side of the forum so I'll keep it as polite as I can - you're a grown man, GET OVER IT. And if you can't get over it then go get some cognitive behavioral therapy or something. Moping around and doing nothing has not helped you at all, now has it?

And before you claim, "I don't know what you went through," I actually do. I'm not one to talk much about myself on a forum like this as I don't want to get myself doxxed, so I'll be as vague as possible - I went through some stuff not to dissimilar from you, maybe worse. Anyway you seriously need to move on, you're throwing your life away. You're almost to retirement age bud.
 
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Pillar said:
If telling someone to move on is toxic then I guess it's more productive to let people wallow in their own misery. Noted. I'll start self-censoring on this side of the forum.
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You know exactly what I mean. You are specifically doing it in a demeaning and derogatory way. You literally call people pathetic in your post for not doing what you believe they should.

You were most definitely being toxic and you know it. I gave you a verbal warning and I am not going to argue with you about it. If you want to continue with it, or continue playing dumb and innocent then it will be more.

As of right now though I much would rather you just be respectful of other members and behave so nothing more needs to be done.
 
One of the best reasons to participate in places like this is the sense of community… to not suffer as much under the feeling of being an outcast from our friends, families, loved ones, and society as a whole. Some sensitive people really and truly suffer, and have precious few resources or skills to change their circumstances and outlooks.

Some alienating talk and callous behavior from a few members aside, most recognize some value in being here (even if it’s as banal as getting their rocks off). This place is the sum of what we contribute to it, and provides at least one place for zoo inclined folks. It’s good to act like it.
 
Interesting how the non-zoo is in here trying to tell people to "just accept it and move on", almost like you've got no clue how this type of orientation can feel isolating for some people... :rolleyes:
 
gsdmixg said:
Interesting how the non-zoo is in here trying to tell people to "just accept it and move on", almost like you've got no clue how this type of orientation can feel isolating for some people... :rolleyes:
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Interesting how a guy who knows nothing about me can assume I haven't experienced the worst kind of loneliness imaginable.
 
Pillar said:
Interesting how a guy who knows nothing about me can assume I haven't experienced the worst kind of loneliness imaginable.
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I never claimed anything of the sort. My point is that it's ridiculous to try to say something like that when you have no clue the lived experiences of the people here. It's ignorant to assume your problems and their solutions are applicable to everyone else and that they simply need to get over it, when the kind of struggles people are relaying here are not the same as what you experienced because you aren't a zoophile. You've said that repeatedly yourself, it's not an assumption.

I'm not saying that whatever you may have been through wasn't real or valid, I fully believe you when you say you've experienced real, deep loneliness. But maybe consider that the root/core of what people are expressing here is something you can't empathize with if you haven't lived it, and stop telling people how to feel.
 
piperthedog said:
So it’s ok for you to experience loneliness but we can’t? :rolleyes:
Other people have issues too, and they want to talk about it because it helps. Accept it and move on.
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Way to take the message out of context. I never said that others don't experience loneliness, I offered a solution to the problem. What's the point of talking about a problem if you're not going to fix it? Nothing?
 
I feel like the more I advance in my carrier the loneliest I become. Tople that with the fact that I live far from most of my friends and I work remote...
 
Tayn said:
I feel like the more I advance in my carrier the loneliest I become. Tople that with the fact that I live far from most of my friends and I work remote...
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You need to adapt my man. Go find a social activity to do on the weekend and start with small talk and see where it goes from there.
 
I feel this same way increasingly, especially because I’m afraid of making real life friends and having them learn about my zoo attractions.
 
Wolf2 said:
I feel this same way increasingly, especially because I’m afraid of making real life friends and having them learn about my zoo attractions.
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You MUST learn to separate your normal life from your zoo life. Don't use your zoophilia as an excuse to not have friends, what goes on in your bedroom is nobody else's business but yours and the man or woman whom you want to take seriously.
 
Pillar said:
You just answered your own question. YES, GO OUTSIDE! Your studies aren't everything, stop making it everything. That's why you're alone. And take it from me, DO NOT WASTE YOUR 20s!!! And I say this to you if you are a man, if you're a woman then I have something completely different to say. And it would have to be in the dumpster fire.
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I've been thinking of moving away and try to make friends in places with more "life" that where I live right now... But that will have to wait a few months.

I am a man btw. But now I'm curious what would have you said if I where a woman. ?
 
Pillar said:
Way to take the message out of context. I never said that others don't experience loneliness, I offered a solution to the problem. What's the point of talking about a problem if you're not going to fix it? Nothing?
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Saying “accept it and move on” and calling us pathetic isn’t a solution, and at the time of your reply to me that’s all you’d done.
The point of talking about the problem is to better understand it so it becomes easier to do something about it. Clearly some of us have trouble just accepting it and moving on - you telling us to do it is only distracting from the conversation. It accomplishes nothing, and it’s incredibly toxic. We know we need to come to terms with it - that’s why we’re discussing it. Some of us are in a position where we are actively doing something about it, but we still deal with the feelings because it’s a process. It’s not something we’ll get through overnight.
I’ll say it again - if you don’t want to see that discussion, then ignore the thread. There’s no need to be incredibly rude and talk down to people who are trying to seek help.
 
gsdmixg said:
Interesting how the non-zoo is in here trying to tell people to "just accept it and move on", almost like you've got no clue how this type of orientation can feel isolating for some people... :rolleyes:
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its a bot. it says the same thing to everybody even the other bots who say the same thing back pretending to have a conversation.
there is literally just one page of adlibs script for flaming peoples posts and making laughing faces. otherwise you get the generic zoo support page. there is no personality just an argument to pass.
theyre scripted to have a problem with everything I say.

yeah I feel lonely in society too because I walk out of my house and people do the same thing. braindead monsters just repeating what they hear from whitelist users.
 
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Pillar said:
, I've suffered unimaginable loneliness for nearly 2 decades. I got over it. If I can do it, so can you.
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While I agree the best way to get away from a bad situation is, moving out of it, people can see it like something *impossible*

Go back in time to your worst moments somewhere in those 20 years and imagine your thougths if someone told you it was all your fault for not moving on and friending people there.

Compare it receiving something something helpful and constructive like... well. Actually... your recent answers here ?
 
420Fatty said:
I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?
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Yes and no, I constantly talk to people and almost always have someone around but, besides a select few, I kinda have trouble connecting with people even though people seem to be able to connect with me sometimes
 
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