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Is anybody else just fuckin lonely?

JustCurious88 said:
Definitely felt this way before. I have no luck with relationship or finding like minded friends.
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I have very few people that I regularly talk to these days. Doesn't seem like making "friends" is in the cards for me, but it's something I've grown to accept.

However, I do have a bf whom I've committed myself to, so in that case I'm fortunate.
 
I'm an exclusive zoo, I'm fine alone. I has few zoo friends, it could be a little more, but I'm not complaining. I am happy and have a good life with my dogs.
 
I would say im lonely for intimate companionship. Not just sex. But cuddles. Candle baths. Dinners. Movies. Have plenty friends. But theres something missing. Not sure how much more difficult it would be with out my pups. Bless them
 
KarenWGeorgiaGirl said:
long divorced, longer than some of yall have been alive. lost my daughter, 29, 2 years ago to sleep apnea. I live in Georgia. My son lives in Rhode Island. yes I get lonely. Got a great job at Wells Fargo and own my house but I throw myself out there on here and other sites cause I need to.

I like to meet. Does me alot of good
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hi Karen, I'm in Florida ... also divorced. Care to chat with me? Very fit and active in my forties.
 
I'm lonely. Available. No problem meeting ladies, but ladies of like mind? Very hard to....and that's all I want.
 
I do get lonely now more than a few years ago because my dog is getting older and I am still young and somewhat energetic. And I mabe have like 2 good friends that are busy a lot of the time so I feel it. Part of the reason why I became a zoophile in the first place is I'm shy and am not good at making myself known to others.
 
stephanieteal94 said:
having this interest has a way of making you feel totally isolated. ive been dealing with that for a really long time, and i still am. it hurts and its so hard to deal with.

thats why being on this site, while extremely scary and a huge leap of faith, i think will help…because it kind of reassures you that you arent totally alone.
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What a beautiful answer....me too
 
Also a member of the lonely club here. Not being much of the outgoing type sure does have its disadvantages sometimes. I am usually perfectly content at home and more than happy with my grass puppies but sometimes I can't help but just feel so alone. Sure I have some friends but usually we are all doing our own things most of the time and nobody can ever really get together.

With that being said I have pretty much given up all hope of having a s/o anytime soon and have lived my entire life as being a zoo. It is nice having a place like this where you can talk to other people but it's just not quite the same.
 
stephanieteal94 said:
having this interest has a way of making you feel totally isolated. ive been dealing with that for a really long time, and i still am. it hurts and its so hard to deal with.

thats why being on this site, while extremely scary and a huge leap of faith, i think will help…because it kind of reassures you that you arent totally alone.
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Hi.. I know what you mean... Lived with it for years..
 
Yup. I moved recently and I really wish I had some friends in the area to hang out with. But it's kinda tough for me to get out socialize since I quit drinking. For now I'm trying to think of it as an opportunity to grow and get back into some of my old hobbies.
 
Hopefully this helps someone, but being lonely or not is completely in our control (unless you are severely mentally impared, which I assume most of us aren't). In order for other people to like you, you have to like yourself. So do things that make you proud of yourself, that make you like yourself, and do them on a day-to-day basis. Or at the very least, don't actively participate in things that make you hate yourself, like doing nothing with yourself all day, wasting time on social media, drinking and smoking too much, etc. Don't be the person you think sucks, do yourself a solid and live a healthy and upstanding life.
 
Don't have many friends outside of here. Lost my lover and my fall back crush can't get another companion. Don't feel comfortable being intimate with people or socializing in general. I have one good friend a few acquaintance the people ive met here and my hobbies right now that's about it. Still better than having nothing at all gota stay on the bright side.
 
I feel loneliness comes from being a people pleaser. Always putting others first and making sure your friends and or family are happy when really you are struggling for some reason. Self care is huge and learning to be selfish is also ok. Picking up a new hobby if it brings new friends in or if it just makes you happy doing it.

I used to feel like I was lonely till I realized I was not doing things for my self to make sure I was happy. I also was in a very mentally abusive relationship for 8 years. She made me feel worthless and not good enough for her or anyone else. She cheated on me and I took her back and blah blah blah. Took me a while to get back on my feet and when I did it was amazing and now I have a wife and she is pregnant and share same morals and goals in life it’s crazy.

Another thing is get your blood work done. Have them check over all your blood panels also your hormonal levels are huge. If you are a male and your testosterone levels are low then good luck being able to have drive to do anything In life. Same goes for women low hormones can kill your mood and vibe.
 
420Fatty said:
I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?
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Im similar, tried but had terrible experiances with people who are supposed to be your freinds (nothing to do with my zoo side)
Even though ive never been a socialite as such, sometimrs i would feel lonely i think thats what it was but i learned a few things like never think to much of anyone, look out for yourself and keep busy at something. I know it sounds like shit advice and im heading to the shelter for the shitstorm thats probably heading my way right now!
I only joined on here after lurking for ages the other day, and you know what, i feel better for it already.
I obviously dont know your situation or anything about you and am only offering up whats made me feel better, but do you own a dog or in a postion to own 1? They are fantastic companions, dont judge, always happy to see you (mostly) and really dont compare to people!
And if your real lucky, you might get more than you bargained for!
I was once told by someone that the only true freinds you ever have, you could count on 1 hand.
Get your head around that and the rest starts to make sense.
Keep chatting to people on here to or do like ive done, go find the fun and games bit, youl be amazed how that sucks you in and takes your mind off lifes crap.
Everybodys has a differant experiance, and im just putting a bit of mine out for you, some might say what a bunch of crap, some might not. What you do with it is ultimatly up to you!
While im in lecture mode, hopefully ypu not fell asleep yet, another big thing that got me thinkimg better was, dont get bothered by what other people think of you, i used to and it really didnt help. Now i couldnt care what anyone thinks of me!
Hope ive not offended you or bored you to tears!?
 
I think I always have been that kind of person that likes spending time alone, but I still grew up having and enjoying being with friends. I didn't have too many friends but those that I did have I was pretty close to.
Queue high school graduation and everyone heading their own way in life, I managed to still hold on to a few very close friendships even moving away for years. Coming back home and reconnecting with these old friends, things just don't seem the same.
Especially in the last year I just feel myself putting a greater distance between myself and everyone else. They stop reaching out and I just think they wouldn't even like me if they knew the real me.
So I kind of just put on a fake smile around those still in my bubble and just try to continue on. I honestly don't know where its going and that sometimes frightens me.
But enough half drunk ramblings, I hope y'all here I doing fine even with all the challenges we face.
 
Loneliness can stir anyone’s depression. Companionship is what humans yearn for, in turn so does every animal(mammals). Been searching for that person/owner for a long time. I would love to be your companion and help with your needs and make us both feel better in this life! Ciao for now.
 
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