@Zoo50, I would suggest watching the film
Victim (1961). If you do, then watch the behavior of the other gay men in that film. When people are scared, they can often resort to defending the
status quo, even if the
status quo is demonstrably detrimental to them or unsustainable.
This is a normal fear reaction, and it's nothing to despair over. It's not a sign that we can't make anything happen.
The organizational strategies that have worked in the past can work for us. The laws of human nature still work the same.
The story of Stonewall worked so well because it gave LGBT a belief that the herd was strong and that herd could defend itself. Because of that belief, LGBT felt safer trying to disappear into the herd than trying to disappear into the shadows. The irony is that they were still having a fear reaction. They were just disappearing in a different way, disappearing into a larger entity than any of them would have been alone.
However, Stonewall happened at the HEIGHT of a revolutionary generation, the Baby Boomers. We are not there right now. We are years out from that. Right now, we are at the height of a generation that is a lot like the Silent Generation. The Silent Generation were people that felt very inadequate in the shadow of the Greatest Generation, and they tended to cling to tradition. They were afraid of making any real, substantial change. They felt like they were not really competent to make their own decisions, and they believed that any new thing they tried would be either a failure or a pale shadow of what came before. They were afraid that if they changed anything, they would ruin that which was already good.
If we are going to have a Stonewall, we're going to have to wait until a new generation like the Boomers has gotten into full swing, but the fact that that is a little ways down the line is good news for us, to be honest. We have a lot of work left to do in order to be able to coordinate cells of activity together. According to
@Zoo Stories, we already have cells of activity. Getting other major cells of activity going should be a priority.
According to the Strauss-Howe Generational Theory, we are due a major shake-up in the next generation.