Is it possible shes done stuff with a dog before and was just trying to beat around the bush? Should I lean into the next time we are in bed? We don't have a male intact dog in the house yet, we have a 3 year old female wheimreyner mix. We also have an older male weiner dog but he was fixed as a puppy so hes not interested. When he passes I have my heart set on a lab variety, partly for waterfoul hunting but also so we can have a big cock to share.
How should I continue to persue this idea with her and ensure she is comfortable with the idea. I really want her to be into this but don't want to gross her out or make her nervous. Does anyone have any advice for her and I?
I read the whole thing, I only quoted the part I SPECIFICALLY want to comment on in this post.
I've been doing this stuff for a LONG time, Pre-Internet, so ALL my early experience and in fact the bulk of my time period has been FACE TO FACE, live and in person. I highlight that because on the internet, it's WAY easy to back-track when you fuck up and you KNOW you fucked up.....it's NOT that easy to do face to face and sometimes, it's outright impossible, so you have to be very VERY careful what you say and how you say it.
I say all that, so I can say this next part and you might actually take me seriously......DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT make ANY assumptions about what she actually knows concerning knots and whether or not she has any prior experience with dogs of any kind at all (any kind of experience, not any kind of dog, lol). When I was a lot younger and a whole lot dumber I made a LOT of really stupid mistakes in approach and in sealing the deal (mostly in the approach) and almost all of those mistakes stem from me making assumptions. Over time, I stopped making any assumptions at all and just approached everything as if the target had never even seen a dog and went from there. It's painful when you get shot in the dick, it's more painful when YOU shoot yourself in the dick.
One thing I learned through bitter and embarrassing experience is that people will say shit because they *think* you want to hear it or they think this is the path you want to travel in conversation, and I'm talking about just general talk, not meaningful conversation mind you, but just chitchat......it's your WIFE, presumably, she loves you and wants you to be happy and wants to travel with you along the happiness path as you go. She may be following your cues, whether you intend to be dropping cues or not, that happens.
Everyone who has even seen a dog knows dogs lick, do NOT assume she knows about dog knots, BEYOND the exact time and information YOU gave her in person. There is NO WAY, from the information you shared, that you can possibly know that she even processed THAT into dogs have knotted cocks. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't.
I agree with you that it's a reasonable assumption that she does, but that doesn't mean that she really does, it just feels that way.
IF I gave you any advice at all other than to tread very very carefully here, it would be that you focus your immediate effort on finding a way to solidify HER idea of knots and be 100% positive she knows what that toy actually IS. HOW you do that, I don't know, you know her, I don't.
Outside of a possibly VERY uncomfortable conversation, I know of no other way for you to confirm that she knows about dog knots 100% before you proceed.
I suppose you could "get caught" watching dog porn and if you need to retreat, you can always say you just got curious, blah, blah, blah......but, I don't really know if that flys in your world or not, so how you go about it is something you need to figure out.