How secretive are you? What does it take to open up?

[HowlAtTheMoon]

I’d say I’m pretty open but very cautious.

I’m obvious about being open about my sexuality and about a lot of the things I’m into. I’m very open about liking the things i like that may not been totally norm, gangbangs and bukkake for example. I don’t hide the fact that I love knotted toys when it comes up, like bad dragon and elypse art stuff, so I’ll let people connect the dots, no problem. IF they hint back, I’ll carefully dance back and try to figure out how real they like it.

 

[bearmuttshound]

I don't let on easily, those who do know usually approached the topic first. Might have something to do with the knotted toys, but otherwise I keep it very well under wraps.

 

[Wilcifur777]

I've only told one person about my sexuality. She was a LDR that openly talked about liking bestiality in public places. She said later that she was framing it as a joke, but I took it seriously and started talking to her about it. She later told me that she would let her dog go to town on her with its tongue. I didn't judge her and later confessed about my zoophilia with horses and dogs. It was weird because she found it strange that I would actually go the extra mile and have sex with the animals, but she accepted it. I later broke it off with her and she was very angry, but she didn't seem to want revenge on me in any way, luckily. All-in-all it was a pretty liberating experience to be accepted by someone in this intolerable world.

So my question is, what does it take for you to open up to someone? What are your experiences with that?

Id open up online and meet from there. Never IRL unless the other guy has his own dog and I saw them do weird shit or he was weird around her. Tho I'm pretty non judgemental so if a dude just told me they fuck their pet id be like is this a set up or nah