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How secretive are you? What does it take to open up?

Haven't spoken to anyone about it. Tried to hint once with my wife years ago as she had made an offhand comment and wanted to know if i had any kinks, but she shot it down. So since i was a kid i haven't told anyone. That's a long frikken time to keep a secret.

I feel it would be waay easy to open up to someone only to have it back fire. I'm not really interested in a romantic relationship with a human woman (I'm human straight, bi animal i guess - there's a story there I'll share), i don't have any desire to meet anyone for that purpose so no point in including someone i don't know (yet i suppose).

I've only been here a day or so, and this forum is the first time I've mentioned any of this. It's quite liberating :) At the same time it's hard to know who to trust. I do worry there's always some kind of a Sting Operation ??
let's here your story.
 
It would take a lot. I have a great desire for openess, but far too much to lose otherwise. I've told like 2 1/2ish people in my life. My stepbrother back when we were kids, a guy I met on grindr who was also zoo, and alluded to it with my roommate but I doubt he understood it.
 
Extremely secretive…I’m never the first person to bring it up, and even if they bring it up I don’t lay my cards on the table right away, just in case.
 
let's here your story.
Ahh, its not that much of a story. So I'm married with a kid, but separated and still living together. We have an amicable relationship. I have tried to bring up my feelings on zoo in the past, but immediately shot down so it remains a secret.

Anyway, we are travelling, and a few months ago she decided to get a psychic reading done. It's not my thing, I believe in science, but i also think some people are able to 'tune in' to other people and get feelings about things so i keep an open mind. The psychic, being in another country and not even knowing anything about us was surprisingly spot on about certain thoughts and feelings we have.

So with that reading, she 'read' into our marriage and break down of the relationship, and the main thing she got from it was that she thought i was bi. Now, I'm straight, guys don't do it not for me. I've experimented so i know that from experience. So we kinda wrote it off that she was wrong... But actually maybe not? I love, like love love both my dogs Male and Female, and thoroughly enjoy being mounted by my boy. I love how he grabs me and pushes his cock in, i love his weight on me, and love the feeling of his fur on my skin. I also love when he humps my mouth. Not something i imagine from a male human. I also really love my female border collie, too small for intercourse although she tries and backs up hard when 'hotdogging ?‍♂️', she does love me giving her oral and will hump my finger all day if she could! So i guess yea, i am bi animal?

So that's the story. A physic i don't know that doesn't know me, picked up on me being bi. Just with a different species!!
 
Ahh, its not that much of a story. So I'm married with a kid, but separated and still living together. We have an amicable relationship. I have tried to bring up my feelings on zoo in the past, but immediately shot down so it remains a secret.

Anyway, we are travelling, and a few months ago she decided to get a psychic reading done. It's not my thing, I believe in science, but i also think some people are able to 'tune in' to other people and get feelings about things so i keep an open mind. The psychic, being in another country and not even knowing anything about us was surprisingly spot on about certain thoughts and feelings we have.

So with that reading, she 'read' into our marriage and break down of the relationship, and the main thing she got from it was that she thought i was bi. Now, I'm straight, guys don't do it not for me. I've experimented so i know that from experience. So we kinda wrote it off that she was wrong... But actually maybe not? I love, like love love both my dogs Male and Female, and thoroughly enjoy being mounted by my boy. I love how he grabs me and pushes his cock in, i love his weight on me, and love the feeling of his fur on my skin. I also love when he humps my mouth. Not something i imagine from a male human. I also really love my female border collie, too small for intercourse although she tries and backs up hard when 'hotdogging ?‍♂️', she does love me giving her oral and will hump my finger all day if she could! So i guess yea, i am bi animal?

So that's the story. A physic i don't know that doesn't know me, picked up on me being bi. Just with a different species!!
Thank you for the reply.
 
I’d say I’m pretty open but very cautious.

I’m obvious about being open about my sexuality and about a lot of the things I’m into. I’m very open about liking the things i like that may not been totally norm, gangbangs and bukkake for example. I don’t hide the fact that I love knotted toys when it comes up, like bad dragon and elypse art stuff, so I’ll let people connect the dots, no problem. IF they hint back, I’ll carefully dance back and try to figure out how real they like it.
 
I don't let on easily, those who do know usually approached the topic first. Might have something to do with the knotted toys, but otherwise I keep it very well under wraps.
 
I've only told one person about my sexuality. She was a LDR that openly talked about liking bestiality in public places. She said later that she was framing it as a joke, but I took it seriously and started talking to her about it. She later told me that she would let her dog go to town on her with its tongue. I didn't judge her and later confessed about my zoophilia with horses and dogs. It was weird because she found it strange that I would actually go the extra mile and have sex with the animals, but she accepted it. I later broke it off with her and she was very angry, but she didn't seem to want revenge on me in any way, luckily. All-in-all it was a pretty liberating experience to be accepted by someone in this intolerable world.

So my question is, what does it take for you to open up to someone? What are your experiences with that?
Id open up online and meet from there. Never IRL unless the other guy has his own dog and I saw them do weird shit or he was weird around her. 🤷 Tho I'm pretty non judgemental so if a dude just told me they fuck their pet id be like is this a set up or nah
 
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