How secretive are you? What does it take to open up?

No one know, no one suspects.

It's one of two specific things where people I know have openly expressed disgust for and said they'd beat up people like that if they met them. So this one stays in the closet.
 
I’d say I’m pretty damn secretive when it comes to talking about the subject. I’ve never told anyone nor do I plan to tell anyone about my zoo sexuality. Firstly, I’m never going to admit to committing a felony on a semi regular basis to someone I don’t absolutely trust. Then, assuming I do trust you, I’m still not going to admit to it for fear of job security since I work with animals for a living. I don’t want to risk loosing any clients or potential clients because they fear I might try something with their pet. I did just recently tell my best friend that I might be zoo romantic, (I am obviously) they didn’t say anything about it other than telling me that they were a furry. They did tell me a few years ago that they know a couple that are into it, and while they themselves aren’t into it, they don’t look at them any differently. They can live their life however they want and my friend doesn’t have a problem with it as long as they are happy and aren’t abusing any animals, as in actual abuse, they feel animals can enjoy sex with people. So I have no doubt my friend would accept me and be ok with it but I still fear the loss of a client since that friend has pets and uses me on occasion. The only way I’m ever going to admit to this lifestyle is if someone else does first and even then I would never admit to anywhere close to what they admitted to. Like if someone were to tell me they were into it or are even active, the most I would admit to is being interested in it or ok with it. I probably wouldn’t admit to participating in it unless they physically showed me that they do, either through indisputable picture/video evidence or in person. At that point I would say they trust me enough and if we were in a long term, deep, and meaningful relationship I may participate in it with them. However at no point would I ever perform in front of someone watching, I don’t care how close we are. Now when it comes to actually acting on it I’m definitely still secretive but admittedly a little more stupid/risky, all I want to do is make the dog happy so if they’re wanting it, I’ve done it with someone right in an adjacent room before, I’ve even talked to people while I’ve had a dog in me and they’re none the wiser. Hell I’ve even let the dogs wants, and my need to make them feel good and happy, get the better of me, and I’ve given myself to the dog when someone could easily walk in or see it. The only times I’ve done that though is when I think everyone is in bed.
 
I suppose it would be nice to discuss with someone. But it invites too much risk. Personally I wouldn’t bring it up until I know someone makes it clear that they are into it as well
 
I dont tell anyone, I crack harmless jokes on it but I dont volunteer it even if in sexual conversations. it is illegal after all.
However..if I have g/f or lovers , I often probe their desire and gauge their interest in new things. It is easy to bring it up in conversations as urban legends . very often I tell them about my teen years story where us boys would secretly watch porn and one guy had a zoo tape and boom -I was shocked!.
After that I let it out slowly and thus far all my g/f and even my ex wife knew I had a liking for watching it and my first experiences.

Ironically-one g/f tolld me that in high school, she would have her dog lick her regularly; in that regard I struck gold!
She had a male dog and we tried but he had no interest in mounting her. For various reasons that were all mine-it ended.

In conclusion-ALL my romantic interests did know and one tried.(and I think my last g/f would have if opportunity presented itself). One knew of it but gave a hard no on trying it. But she did not lose her sh&t.

I am single now but if I meet a new lady and she seems curious, I guess I will write a story on it=)
 
I will add 2 of my good guy friends know I watch it. I dont discuss it alot but they know I am a hornball and watch that. Its not their cup of tea so i dont discuss with them, but have alluded. They get a good laugh
 
kartog said:
I've only told one person about my sexuality. She was a LDR that openly talked about liking bestiality in public places. She said later that she was framing it as a joke, but I took it seriously and started talking to her about it. She later told me that she would let her dog go to town on her with its tongue. I didn't judge her and later confessed about my zoophilia with horses and dogs. It was weird because she found it strange that I would actually go the extra mile and have sex with the animals, but she accepted it. I later broke it off with her and she was very angry, but she didn't seem to want revenge on me in any way, luckily. All-in-all it was a pretty liberating experience to be accepted by someone in this intolerable world.

So my question is, what does it take for you to open up to someone? What are your experiences with that?
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Months to years. This topic of liking zoo/bestiality...it will go to the grave with me. I dont mind sharing this stuff online with people I know I most likely will never meet face to face but no one outside of my room will ever know about this.
 
Only one person knows im zoo, and only they know what my paw tattoo means. They ended up gaining my trust after exchanging some saucy stories between each other one high night >_< I would never ever be able to open up about something like this otherwise, it's so dangerous.
 
Two people know, both I knew for years and very slowly approached the zoo topic until the dam broke. In both cases it went well.
 
I opened up to a therapist, my father, and a couple of friends when I was in a particularly vulnerable place. I regret it every day of my life and wish I'd stayed in the closet.
 
kartog said:
I've only told one person about my sexuality. She was a LDR that openly talked about liking bestiality in public places. She said later that she was framing it as a joke, but I took it seriously and started talking to her about it. She later told me that she would let her dog go to town on her with its tongue. I didn't judge her and later confessed about my zoophilia with horses and dogs. It was weird because she found it strange that I would actually go the extra mile and have sex with the animals, but she accepted it. I later broke it off with her and she was very angry, but she didn't seem to want revenge on me in any way, luckily. All-in-all it was a pretty liberating experience to be accepted by someone in this intolerable world.

So my question is, what does it take for you to open up to someone? What are your experiences with that?
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I've had an account on here for almost a year and only just now started to comment on anything. It would take a lot of trust to tell anyone in person about this side of me. I do want to talk to people about this though, that's why I'm starting to socialize a little bit now on here. Maybe someday.
 
First reply. Only joined Zooville recently but I've accepted, embraced and practiced my zoophile side since my pre-teen years. (24M now) Straight out the puberty gates I've loved animals but I've never, ever and will never tell anyone. It's private, my intimate love life has nothing to do with anyone else and society is far too closed-minded and judgmental for me to even so much as hint towards my "deviant" lifestyle. I've seen and heard stories of others opening up and being shut down and ostracised for it. I'm happy to live out my zoo life in secrecy. It's nobody else's damn business anyway.
 
I have no issue sharing anonymously on forums with other zoos or whoever else is curious but I could never share with another person face-to-face.
 
I'm very private about it honestly. Where I live and especially where I work its bad enough to be gay lol, so I keep my sex life very very private. And even among my gay friends almost none know the zoo side. I wish that wasn't the case but I have a feeling they wouldn't be accepting of it either.
 
A fellow Zoo knows IRL, some mutual online friends know who are also zoo, and peeps online here, but none of the peeps online here know who I am in reality.

I am very secretive with A/S/L details etc with online contacts or any identifying info, usually don't talk to anyone below Settler status and then like to get to know peeps first. By default, I am very open and honest, but my Zoophile sexuality is too precious to play with,or that of my Zoo friends to be open without due checks and balances.
 
I've opened up to several close friends of mine from high school because I couldn't continue going on keeping this deep truth hidden from my best friends. I took the risk, and thankfully they have a good understanding of who I am and my relationship with my animals since they took it quite well. It's not something we talk about often or anything, but man does it feel good to have that support in my identity from some people that I really respect in life, and to feel that respect is returned despite who I am.

I have also come out to a guy I met on Grindr during a time when I was further exploring the human side of sexuality in my early 20s, inadvertently in some senses due to the physical stimulation a well-placed and curious dog snoot can invoke. I had somewhat of a suspicion that he might be zoo or repressed since he is so dog-centric in his lifestyle and conversation and treats his beautiful intact dogs with absolute respect and care. He maintained that despite strong curiosity and exploration in his youth, he does not see himself as zoophilic. We ended up drifting apart as friends years later due to various issues, but I still appreciate him for who he was and the interesting explorative experiences we had together even with him not identifying as zoo.

Ultimately I guess it comes down to trust and vibes and desire for openness. It's definitely not something to be in a hurry to share, but the right opportunity to does feel pretty special.
 
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I would like to chat with a woman who has enjoyed it.i am curious to know their feelings n how their body reacts n all the things related to it
 
I feel ppl out. I'm actually meeting w someone today that I've been talking to for a few months. Kinda hinted at some things....she was intrigued. Every1 is different, I'd say it comes down to how well you can read ppl
 
I've had the good fortune of being able to tell most of the humans I'm close to in my life that I'm zoo. About 15 or 20 non-zoos. Some of those people I can openly talk to about it as if it were any other topic. Some I know accept me but are uncomfortable engaging with the topic. With most people it's brought me significantly closer to them as friends.

In the end I think someone's reaction to it has a lot to do with how you frame it. I tend to tell my story starting at the begining and take my time in describing how it unfolded in my life. The impossible task of getting someone to experience some semblance of what you've gone through, but I try anyways. And I always make sure to reiterate that I'm not sad about it or asking for condolence, but that it's the most important and vital part of who I am. If the relationship is still stable after that, I come back around about a week or so later for a follow up conversation to see if they have any further thoughts or questions, and I try to be as honest as I can.

Even after telling a handful of people, it's never not terrifying 🙃
 
Anonymous on the Internet I talk about every topic (not with everyone, not everything). Real sex only with a person I know very well. It takes a very long time and trust. I don't tell anyone about this in real life. I am secretive. The forum does not change anything. There are different people here.
 
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I just started talking about it on this forum and have pretty much been into it my whole life. Someone would really have to prove there loyal but even then i really doubt i could open up about it. I still feel uneasy posting here if i am honest. Maybe with time that will change but it just seems to risky for me.
 
Many years of careful testing :p A Hint on occasion, a comment here, things like that. I tend to work through it in stages. I Have told two people in person and a few others anonymously.
 
kartog said:
I've only told one person about my sexuality. She was a LDR that openly talked about liking bestiality in public places. She said later that she was framing it as a joke, but I took it seriously and started talking to her about it. She later told me that she would let her dog go to town on her with its tongue. I didn't judge her and later confessed about my zoophilia with horses and dogs. It was weird because she found it strange that I would actually go the extra mile and have sex with the animals, but she accepted it. I later broke it off with her and she was very angry, but she didn't seem to want revenge on me in any way, luckily. All-in-all it was a pretty liberating experience to be accepted by someone in this intolerable world.

So my question is, what does it take for you to open up to someone? What are your experiences with that?
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I haven’t told anyone and I don’t think I ever will, but the thought of opening up and having them also be a zoo then having a 3 way relationship between me them and a dog or two sound heavenly to me
 
My roommate and I got piss drunk one night and the conversation somehow led onto a heart to heart and I definitely fully admitted to being a zoo and so terrified of that getting out.

I don’t know if he actually remembers I told him or not. He hasn’t brought it back up, but he has talked about a couple other things I told him that night. All I know is he hasn’t turned me in ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

So to answer the question, it takes a shit ton of drinking for me to open up.
 
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