They can't defend what they aren't aware is being questioned......so, use tagging. Most fakes will completely ignore OR come here and post crazy shit. Skim thru this thread, you'll see all kinds of crazy ass reactions, been involved in several myself.
I'm not saying you are wrong, the point was you're basing it on very, very thin evidence, that's it. Might well be fake, but full of shit is far more likely. No one has a reason to pretend to be a gay man, as far as I can tell. Stranger things have certainly happened.
I agree the distance is a little dodgy.......but I've seen instances where work related travel combined with distancing this from your day to day life works out this way. Not likely, but not unheard of either.
Best to tag them and ask for a WTF is going on with <insert crazy appearing thing>................that's really as much for the safety of your account as anything. As I said, it's a fine line between questions and unfounded accusations, and guessing any random members reaction is dicey at best. All kinds of crazy reactions to people having their account posted in this thread.