does anyone in your life personally know your into zoo stuff?

I am female 31 have been active for almost 11 years.
I have met quite a few female dog lovers with the same interest and have actually had the opportunity to get to know some very good ones who in the beginning were just curious but today have their own dogs and are active. I love to help and teach girls who are beginners.
 
I'm not active, I'm a man who likes women who love dogs, but yes.
One male friend
Four female exes (only one of whom was interested)
At least three female friends explicitly
At least a couple of female friends with whom I have dropped hints
 
K9lover69NL said:
My partner knows, he accepts me and he loves me, but he doesn't wanna be involved or me acting on it
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He "accepts" you but doesn't want to you to act on it? Even with him not around. So in other words he's secretly not ok with it, wants you to never act on it and just doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying that he thinks it's gross or worse "abusive"! Because he loves you. Hes Holding back. This is not going to end well, trust me eventually you are gonna end up doing something sexual with an animal regardless of what he thinks. If he really accepts you he wouldn't try to stop you from being you!! Moments like that are why I'm glad I'm exclusive to dogs. Being zoo and also in a relationship with a human sound too damn complicated....
 
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Randydoggo said:
He "accepts" you but doesn't want to you to act on it? Even with him not around. So in other words he's secretly not ok with it, wants you to never act on it and just doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying that he thinks it's gross or worse "abusive"! Because he loves you. Hes Holding back. This is not going to end well, trust me eventually you are gonna end up doing something sexual with an animal regardless of what he thinks. If he really accepts you he wouldn't try to stop you from being you!! Moments like that are why I'm glad I'm exclusive to dogs. Being zoo and also in a relationship with a human sound too damn complicated....
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The only reason he doesn't want me to act on it is because it's illegal and he's worried im gonna get in trouble or in jail. It could potentionally ruin my and our lives if the wrong people found out about it. We've been together for 13+ years, it would break me just as much as him if we would get seperated.
 
PinkNinja said:
I am female 31 have been active for almost 11 years.
I have met quite a few female dog lovers with the same interest and have actually had the opportunity to get to know some very good ones who in the beginning were just curious but today have their own dogs and are active. I love to help and teach girls who are beginners.
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HI Ninja, sounds like you have been lucky to have a lot of experience. the pics of your boys look great. Would love to chat, I have help out a number of girls over the year too to enjoy their boys.
 
I'm actually really lucky to have at least 9 people irl that know my past and still are friends to the day my dad and mom both know as I prefer full disclosure and it all worked out my partner knows and always catches me lol and some dogs bollocks swinging from behind 😂 truth be told it was all nerv racking and could have gone south but have to say that, you have to have some faith in the ones who really are close to you well for me thats how it is anyway
 
One stranger (who I think thought I was a cop because he was annoying me and I didn't respond as much because of it) and one of my friends and an ex.
 
Probably 6 people know - only one of them in my life currently. One ex-girlfriend knew and outed me - I made out that it was a joke and it just died out as a rumor. Other than that it’s a deep secret.
 
I don't know be about the risks like I have no fear someone with mention it to the wrong people like I said have to have faith really you never know who really is into it around you and generally speaking I've met a few guy from Grindr and other sites and jumped on that topic before you knew it they were down on there knees taking a knot...after that they then started to look into it all and because a zoo then selves
Martian said:
No, the risk and potential heartbreak are too great.
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Nope, no one knows about my sexual preference ...not even my partner, or my parents. And I am guessing no one will ever know
 
Had a ex who was licked by my dog while we were starting to get busy, but shrugged it off and pushed my boy away. Wish it would’ve went further
 
nz989 said:
curious if there's anyone were people they know personally know that they are onto zoo. haha like did you get found out or did you tell them personally or what?? lol
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Well for me my hubby knows and his 2 friends know as well because I am shared we are swingers and long story short one day one of his friends were over n I was servicing him on the floor I was in doggie and he was laid down in front of me and he brought his Rottie and iguess from him seeing me in that position he jumped on me and kept humping and I tried to get him off bt he was heavy and hubby and his friend came from watching him do me and thats how we started this lifestyle now lols and his other friend eventually found out because he caught me and my hubby one day with ours (should've locked the garage door lols) well hubby was watching our have me and he enjoyed it to so its us 4 that now play together.
 
People online are people in my life. I got someone to fuck a dog too. I know a vet or two...

You can tell who's more likely to not look down on you by wherever they fear pain or not. People that don't avoid/fear pain will be more open minded. People that go "That's sick and ew" are close minded.

Don't trust anyone that claims to be open minded either. They never are. The very statement contradicts itself. If anyone claims to be open minded then I find they're the quickest to be judgemental.

If someone is able to admit mistakes/flaws then they're probably less judgemental. Test people to see if they can hold conversations basically. Otherwise what's the point? Can happen quickly enough. Then you can work in the "taboo kink talk".
 
An ex of mine knows, we were long distance at the time and she asked what my dirtiest fantasy was, "I wanna watch you get fucked by a dog then take you after" and there was a bit of stunned silence before a shy but excited "okay!" came back.

I didn't have a dog at the time though.

Next time we got together we locked ourselves in my bedroom and I put a collar and leash on her, put playlists of zoo videos up across 3 monitors, and fucked on all fours. All the time I could only think about a dig in my place. It was a wild weekend!

I think my current partner knows, I'm sure they've walked in on me watching zoo porn before, and we both have similar views on the furry/zoo crossovers.
 
Yep. I even told them specifics. Mainly how it happened, how it felt. And if given the chance I'd do it again. Didn't seem to affect our relationship or friendship either way.

keeping in mind these were all very close non-zoo friends or lovers.
 
for me no.. everyone in my life is VERY anti-zoo so sometimes it can be very hard for me to connect with my loved ones. im not sure if ill ever be able to come out. sad but is the reality of this kind of life. i will always respect those who are able to be out and proud about it :)
 
No one knows and I intend to keep it that way for obvious reasons.

I would like to find a partner with the same interests though. Who knows, might happen someday, maybe even on this forum haha
 
Zapato said:
No one knows and I intend to keep it that way for obvious reasons.

I would like to find a partner with the same interests though. Who knows, might happen someday, maybe even on this forum haha
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Finding a partner is the best, my hubby loves it although he doesn't participate he more just watches me bt still enjoys it. its just a good feeling overall.
 
wood_thrush said:
I hope that that you get some opportunities to express yourself here and elsewhere 😊 It's never too late!

Two out of my three other housemates know. They are extremely supportive and accepting although they are not into it themselves. My dad knows, and he and I talk. My siblings know and they don't talk to me anymore 😔 I am glad though to have told the people I have despite the hardship sometimes
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They stopped talking to you over it or something else?
 
No. That side of my life has never been brought up in conversation. I assume that this is the norm for most of us.

Some things just are not brought up in "polite" conversation.
 
erphy said:
They stopped talking to you over it or something else?
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My siblings appear to have stopped talking to me over my expression that I had had sex with animals before. They don't know any details, although it seems they want nothing to do with me unfortunately.

My sister asked me how I was one day, and I decided to take a chance be completely honest with her about how this was affecting my relationship with my then-girlfriend. Leading up to that point I had been interested in embracing radical honestly with my family of origin. Unfortunately she told my brother before I could tell him myself, which was my original desire. He heard it from her first instead.

That said, I am glad I brought it up with them. Something that I have been thinking about is 'chosen family', an idea from queer experience. (I myself could be considered 'queer'.) That is part of why I am on this site, perhaps to one day find those chosen family members.

My former girlfriend and I still talk regularly and frequently, and things are actually pretty good between us. I'm curious and excited to make some things clear to her around my own interest in zoosexuality and to ask her whether she can accept these things going forward, and how we go from there. We are going to check in next weekend.
 
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