Frankly, if I could I said. Not because I want, but because I am burdened by all these secrets and I want to get rid of them, I want to be honest, but I understand that I can not do this. I do not regret who I am, but I understand that the truth is sometimes too wrong for others. So no, I didn’t.
Once I almost confessed, but I stopped half a word and realized that if I now say at least a word, I will lose them forever. Maybe once, but not now.Totally agree. The constant hiding and secrets and, for me, sometimes outright lies is a huge burden. It has helped me somewhat coming out to other zoos in RL.
Why the hell would ANYone purporting to be in their right mind do this to themselves or their loved ones? Why would anyone discuss sexlives with parents? Why pass our stresses on to others we supposedly love?
My sex life isn’t my parents’ business.
I'm heterosexual, not zoosexual. I do naughty things with male dogs sometimes. I'm pretty sure my parents would find it disturbing if I told them. My mom is a totally innocent old lady.. growing up my parents slept in separate beds, in separate rooms. One time she asked me questions about my sex with an ex and it was the most awkward/uncomfortable conversation I have ever had in my life. I like to avoid all of that.Technically, it is about revealing one's overall zoo orientation (sexuality) to one's parents, similar to a gay person revealing their sexual orientation. So someone says to their parents, "I'm sexually attracted to animals", not "I have sex with animals". Still, I see your point, it follows that someone who is attracted to animals will probably have sex with them.
No way.. My parents are tolerant, but they wouldn't understand this.Once when I was leaving the house and go into the stable father joked that I should find a girlfriend because he want grandchildren ... or if I want to make grandchildren with a mare ? ... I was afraid to go back home. But he was just kidding.. he didn't know that he was almost right.
CetaceanLover23 said:No. My parents found out themselves. They’re not for it, but they are not stopping me. But they give me crap about it all the time.
Maybe yes, but it's too risky... You know what i mean... Mother would imagine that im having sex with mare, goat, sheep .. it would be bad for them...You could always come out and then try to explain it to them. You said your parents are tolerant, perhaps they would be tolerant of zoo also.
How did they find out about your zoo interests?