Did you tell your parents about your zoo interests?

[TMOdeadman]

Has anyone told their parents about their zoosexuality? I did years ago, and I kind of regret it, because now whenever I say "someday I will get [animal]", one of them says "are you going to have sex with it"? It's an annoyance that I can't undo.

This sounds like....a really fucking bad idea, unless if you know there om with zoos, don't do it

 

[Jayr1219]

I’m gonna keep it real. That sounds like a really bad idea, and an issue that will spring forward later down the line

 

[TrinityKnott2]

Never, ever would I tell my parents or family! I can already hear the comments and it would not be fun!! Bad enough when I told them I was Bi!

I can't imagine what that would have been like. Like you, I can hear the comments as well.

 

[Badfish612]

My mom and sister know, but I don't talk to my mom that much. My sister has been in the lifestyle WAY longer than me.

Man I’d love to find out my sister was into it

 

[valleyyote]

That would be definite no! Not after both my parents have said zoos are sick, disgusting individuals. My father has even gone so far as to say they should all be shot. Funny thing that considering they love and embrace my brother homosexuality. Nothing like a heaping helping of hypocrisy to make you feel all warm and cozy inside. Even my brother is very outspoken about the evils of zoo. Being shunned and kicked to the curb does not appeal to me so I simply keep it to myself.

 

[likebuco]

Man I’d love to find out my sister was into it

Now are you into your Sister ?

 

[noidea]

Has anyone told their parents about their zoosexuality? I did years ago, and I kind of regret it, because now whenever I say "someday I will get [animal]", one of them says "are you going to have sex with it"? It's an annoyance that I can't undo.

Did you feel obliged to inform them? Peer pressure? We are under no moral obligation to tell our pareants, or anybody else, anything about our private lives. I would discourage people from revealing aspects of their lives that should be and remain private.

Edit: Apologies, I didn't realise how old the post is.

 

[likebuco]

Did you feel obliged to inform them? Peer pressure? We are under no moral obligation to tell our pareants, or anybody else, anything about our private lives. I would discourage people from revealing aspects of their lives that should be and remain private.

Edit: Apologies, I didn't realise how old the post is.

You have non to say. Sometimes people spy o presume that you fuck your pet

 

[Arroganthe#king]

Very risky to open up to parents unless it is part of the family already.

 

[fuckit19]

Man I’d love to find out my sister was into it

Let’s broach the subject

 

[srabonteek9]

thats totally a follish thing to do, no matter how much open you are with your parents, but this is not something to discuss with them.

 

[Bull Duster]

I could never... jeez the thought alone scares the shit out of me.

 

[ILoveFemaleGSD's]

Just told my dad tonight. Not sure why I did. He took it well though thank god

 

[skyboi_0]

Has anyone told their parents about their zoosexuality? I did years ago, and I kind of regret it, because now whenever I say "someday I will get [animal]", one of them says "are you going to have sex with it"? It's an annoyance that I can't undo.

i wouldn’t imagine in most scenarios this would EVER end well lmao

 

[wood_thrush]

Just told my dad tonight. Not sure why I did. He took it well though thank god

Congratulations on that going well for you!!! You are so brave. ???

I told my dad last year, and he took it 'well enough' too, although he had his concerns for me about it. We are still on loving terms although I'm not sure where to go from here with it.

 

[catmandevauc]

The less my parents know the better off I am. I love them dearly and are close knit, but not all secrets are meant to be shared. They already have enough on their plate I wouldn't dream of causing them distress by dropping this gigantic bomb lmao

 

[ILoveFemaleGSD's]

Congratulations on that going well for you!!! You are so brave. ???

The only problem is I only told him because he just left the family. Like go to get the milk kinda left. I found out after returning home from a trip to Six Flags with a group of friends (I dont live on my own yet). He claimed it was because he didn't get enough support from us for his "mental health issues," which got me pissed off at him (only because he is a massive narcissist and hypocrite), so I went against him and fought it saying he's not the only one who has had issues, and that I have had my own that I've kept secret to no put a rift in everyone's lives. Obviously I don't struggle anymore, but I used to (with being a zoophile). It led down a path where he said he got no support, to which I responded that at least he can get support from other people besides us, whereas I could never. He still didn't seem to care and only cared about himself, so finally I told him. When the weight of my reality hit him I think was the first time I've ever seen him not focus on himself. Instead of being all snotty and whatnot like he was, he changed and we have gotten on good terms (for now).

 

[wood_thrush]

The only problem is I only told him because he just left the family. Like go to get the milk kinda left. I found out after returning home from a trip to Six Flags with a group of friends (I dont live on my own yet). He claimed it was because he didn't get enough support from us for his "mental health issues," which got me pissed off at him (only because he is a massive narcissist and hypocrite), so I went against him and fought it saying he's not the only one who has had issues, and that I have had my own that I've kept secret to no put a rift in everyone's lives. Obviously I don't struggle anymore, but I used to (with being a zoophile). It led down a path where he said he got no support, to which I responded that at least he can get support from other people besides us, whereas I could never. He still didn't seem to care and only cared about himself, so finally I told him. When the weight of my reality hit him I think was the first time I've ever seen him not focus on himself. Instead of being all snotty and whatnot like he was, he changed and we have gotten on good terms (for now).

Wow. that was definitely different than what I was imagining, and thanks so much for sharing more of the backstory with me. It's interesting that you sharing that with him brought a positive change, even if for the short term. I do hope though that it lasts. Perhaps your experiences brought him some healthy perspective. In my experience when I've told people they seem to suddenly want to share their deepest darkest secret, and then to me they are still like "but you're wrong"