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KendallRae

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My boyfriend caught me having sex with my dog today. I was in the middle of getting bred when he walked in. He screamed at me that I was sick called me all sorts of horrible names. He actually puked! I am feeling so ashamed. He doesn't want to have sex with me until I go get checked for diseases. He also wants me to neuter my dog (Greater Swiss Mountain Dog).
 
KendallRae said:
My boyfriend caught me having sex with my dog today. I was in the middle of getting bred when he walked in. He screamed at me that I was sick called me all sorts of horrible names. He actually puked! I am feeling so ashamed. He doesn't want to have sex with me until I go get checked for diseases. He also wants me to neuter my dog (Greater Swiss Mountain Dog).
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Well that is easy. Break up with him. Nobody can demand you hurt your dog and blackmail you on that. Destroy all evidence he might have against you, tell him to kiss his ass, get out and never return.
If it is your dog and he hurts him by neutering him without your consent, sue him.
You do not have to have sex with him when you have your dog anyway.

How did that actually happen?
 
hmmm if I know guys ( and I am one plus im gay) then I would be almost CERTAIN your bf has a few skeletons in his closet also...
(pssst most guys do)
Some may even be a turn on within a rship......if he has the courage to open up about them to you.

Getting caught may be your way of opening up to him......
(unless he a God fearing Christian type of guy - I find most guys tend to be fairly resilient and adaptive)
He may even 'come around' to actually finding you being bred by the dog as hot.....
(once his initial surprise and machismo calms down)......

Or you could take the advice of pes and end the rship.
Tough call but at this point in time what have u got to lose??

BUT I WOULD NOT be getting the dog neutered.....whatever choice you choose.
 
pes said:
Well that is easy. Break up with him. Nobody can demand you hurt your dog and blackmail you on that. Destroy all evidence he might have against you, tell him to kiss his ass, get out and never return.
If it is your dog and he hurts him by neutering him without your consent, sue him.
You do not have to have sex with him when you have your dog anyway.

How did that actually happen?
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You are right. He isn't worth it. I can't bring myself to neuter my dog when I've read about all the health risks. I don't think he has any evidence in me that I know of. I really don't ever want to havecsex with him again now that he made me feel so bad. He was supposed to be at work, but he came home during the day because he said he didn't feel well.
 
That's horrible, can't imagine what you're going through. First and foremost, protect yourself. As what pes has said, destroy any and all evidence that could possibly be used against you. No matter if things turn out for the better or worse, it's best to not leave anything that could be used against you. Be prepared to make some hard decisions... And remember, nothing in this world is worth your life or livelihood.
 
BarkyPup said:
hmmm if I know guys ( and I am one plus im gay) then I would be almost CERTAIN your bf has a few skeletons in his closet also...
(pssst most guys do)
Some may even be a turn on within a rship......if he has the courage to open up about them to you.

Getting caught may be your way of opening up to him......
(unless he a God fearing Christian type of guy - I find most guys tend to be fairly resilient and adaptive)
He may even 'come around' to actually finding you being bred by the dog as hot.....
(once his initial surprise and machismo calms down)......

Or you could take the advice of pes and end the rship.
Tough call but at this point in time what have u got to lose??

BUT I WOULD NOT be getting the dog neutered.....whatever choice you choose.
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I don't personally know of any skeletons in his closet, but I'm sure everyone has them. He was so disgusted and doesn't even want to sleep in the same bed as me tonight. He's not really religious at all. I think it's a good idea if I just end things. I can't get over his reaction to me. I definitely can't neuter my dog. I couldn't live with myself if I hurt him in any way.
 
IncognitoBeefBurrito said:
That's horrible, can't imagine what you're going through. First and foremost, protect yourself. As what pes has said, destroy any and all evidence that could possibly be used against you. No matter if things turn out for the better or worse, it's best to not leave anything that could be used against you. Be prepared to make some hard decisions... And remember, nothing in this world is worth your life or livelihood.
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I feel absolutely awful. I honestly can't think if any evidence. He saw me and that was it. I've never kept anything I recorded. The mostbive done is watch it back once and then delete it. I'm way too scared of getting into legal trouble.
 
well I think if hes got no evidence and is choosing to be a dick about things to the point of shaming you and not sleeping in bed with you
id probably end the rship n move on....someone that loves you LOVES you no matter what....
Pack up your stuff, get your doggo and move on.......relatively simple.....
be mindful though that breakups fuel the rumour mill so just deny any accusations from him and laugh it off like he just being bitchy.

Im sure if I were straight and saw my gf being bred by the dog I would know right then and there that id made a great life partner...
Best of luck
 
Get checked for diseases?? HA! Feel free to laugh in his face! Zoo sex is actually generally safer that human-with-human sex. Zoo sex is pretty much harmless unless you share your boy with other people. There are zoonotic diseases that you can catch from animals, but it is extremely, and I mean extremely, rare!

Also yes, there are plenty of risks from neutering a dog. It's best to leave them natural, or give the males a vasectomy for their health, as well as not being able to breed with other dogs.
 
BarkyPup said:
well I think if hes got no evidence and is choosing to be a dick about things to the point of shaming you and not sleeping in bed with you
id probably end the rship n move on....someone that loves you LOVES you no matter what....
Pack up your stuff, get your doggo and move on.......relatively simple.....
be mindful though that breakups fuel the rumour mill so just deny any accusations from him and laugh it off like he just being bitchy.

Im sure if I were straight and saw my gf being bred by the dog I would know right then and there that id made a great life partner...
Best of luck
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You are right. I don't think he loves me. It's actually my house, so I guess I kick him to the curb. I bought the house before I was even with him. I can see him spreading rumors about me. Hopefully I can find someone who is more accepting one day. Thanks.
 
KendallRae said:
Can you get in trouble if somebody says you had sex with your dog without proof?
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I'm no lawyer but when it comes to the law, the burden of proof falls on his shoulders and if it's illegal in your area. If there's no proof, then I think it would be next to impossible for anything to happen. Again, take what I say with a grain of salt. If it came to that point, might be able to turn it around and make it a defamation suit. Consult a lawyer ofc. However, when it comes to social... It all depends on who the people believe. (Anyone, please correct me if I'm wrong.)
 
try to talk it over with him and if he keeps demanding stuff just break up with him? doesn't sound like he has any proof if he tries to destroy you or your boy over it...
how did it happen anyway? surprise visit? you didn't lock doors beforehand?

BarkyPup said:
He may even 'come around' to actually finding you being bred by the dog as hot.....
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i don't think anyone who actually pukes from seeing it happen will ever "come around"
 
KendallRae said:
My boyfriend caught me having sex with my dog today. I was in the middle of getting bred when he walked in. He screamed at me that I was sick called me all sorts of horrible names. He actually puked! I am feeling so ashamed. He doesn't want to have sex with me until I go get checked for diseases. He also wants me to neuter my dog (Greater Swiss Mountain Dog).
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Leave him. Dump him. You deserve someone far more accomodating.

Honestly, if I saw my (hypothetical girlfriend) getting fucked by a dog, I'd ask her to marry me on the spot.
 
Please don't neuter your boy and don't let the ignorant, intolerant twat sleep in your house, let alone your bed! Leave him! He sounds horrid.

It is very unlikely you have picked up any kind of infection, you would know pretty quickly if you had. I have never had any kind of infection from my boys. We kiss and fuck as much as we like and nothing bad has ever happened.

Get rid of him, love your boy and just move on. It will be hard as your ex-boyfriend will probably end up being nasty about it, and you know what that will entail, but you will be all the stronger and better for it.

Love you, xxx
 
KendallRae said:
My boyfriend caught me having sex with my dog today. I was in the middle of getting bred when he walked in. He screamed at me that I was sick called me all sorts of horrible names. He actually puked! I am feeling so ashamed. He doesn't want to have sex with me until I go get checked for diseases. He also wants me to neuter my dog (Greater Swiss Mountain Dog).
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I'm single...
 
Well dump the asshole. I would be like this is awesome! I would love to find a lover who is like me in this respect. One should never be ashamed of who and what they are. You are not hurting anyone and It is in your home. You have nothing to apologize for. Do not alter your puppy please.

I hate this new default of putting folks in prison for being deviants kind of thinking. I spent time in the Air force defending peoples freedoms and now the whole damn country has forgotten what that means. Freedom of choice is being destroyed on a daily basis.

Supportive hugs and nuzzles to yas! Friendly kind of supportive loves too.
 
valleyyote said:
Well dump the asshole. I would be like this is awesome! I would love to find a lover who is like me in this respect. One should never be ashamed of who and what they are. You are not hurting anyone and It is in your home. You have nothing to apologize for. Do not alter your puppy please.

I hate this new default of putting folks in prison for being deviants kind of thinking. I spent time in the Air force defending peoples freedoms and now the whole damn country has forgotten what that means. Freedom of choice is being destroyed on a daily basis.
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America doesn’t mean what it used too. Sad reality, but it’s true
 
And I would be clear with him, he broke the relationship when he threatened the dog. The throwing up in the toilet and the shouting was a normal shock reaction. That's an involuntary reaction to seeing something he does not understand.

However, threatening someone's dog with revenge castration is not okay. That's beyond involuntary reactions, and it's just a failure to understand that castrating an animal as an act of retaliation is not okay. Even if you accept some owners castrating their dogs, he wanted to do it essentially as an act of revenge against the dog. That's insane.

He should not attempt to have a relationship with anybody that is not larger and stronger than him until he gets to a point in his life where he understands that there are boundaries that still matter, even when he is shocked about something or having a bad day.
 
To be blunt.. Fuck that guy kick his ass to the curb. And please don’t neuter your boy. Some people these days. Honestly if I had a GF and I walked in on them I’d join them. But that’s just me. People are just so damn vanilla theses days and are scared to just go with it. Even if your BF wasn’t into it could have held his composure and talk to you about it. If he loved you he would have been more supportive. Just my opinion of course. Keep your chin up there are tons of men that are into this. Sorry this happened to you though.
 
Let me add if that butt hurt, turd brain is bent on mutilating your boy, than I feel an alteration to him with a rusty pair of pruning shears is in order. Just take oof all the bits and make him the true little bitch that he is.
 
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