I don't mean to attack, but rather to criticize. I don't look down on you as people, and if I get such thoughts, I don't express them. However, this site preaches character heavily (like the person who said I was a newbie speaking to long-time members and many of the rules that presumably arose from moral reasons [like incest or human-on-animal watersports]), so if it relies on it, I may as well point out how things might affect the perceived character. Not by saying you're an incel or something rude like that, but by saying that a lack of transparency and whatnot may reduce user trust. Also, why does it have to be a super secret vote? If you mean votes amongst mods and maybe paid supporters (who can be perceived like shareholders), that's understandable at least. But if elite members got the vote while others didn't, I don't agree with that.