I know I do not post here and, I know I am going to be shot for this post, and that's fine. Please keep in mind this is specifically for Equines as I can't say to experience in Canines.
I have met plenty of lovely Mares over the years and I have come to love many of them. I know in my herd that these Mares need not only to be accepted by me, but specifically by my Mares. Since of course, they run the Mare show. Never have I ever given myself to a Mare that was not accepted and apart of my herd. This is something that, even if I really really like them decides what my next steps are.
Mares, the female horses, are known to be strong and loyal in their relationships, both with other horses and with humans. In the wild, mares tend to form close-knit groups where they find stability and protection. One interesting thing about mares is their strong sense of choice. They aren't just looking for any leader, but one they respect and love. When they don’t connect with a stallion in their herd, they may even leave the herd to find another stallion they feel truly drawn to.
In one story I know, a group of mares didn’t feel any bond with the stallion in their herd. Every breeding season, they would leave their herd to go find another stallion they truly loved. They weren’t just following orders or rules—they were following their hearts.
A Relationship Built on Respect
In my own experience, my mares always show me respect because I treat them as equals. I don’t force anything on them; instead, I make sure our relationship is built on mutual trust and understanding. This creates a strong bond between us, and they choose to be with me because they feel comfortable, safe, and respected.
The Pleasing Nature of Mares
One beautiful aspect of the relationship between a mare and her human companion is how much mares naturally want to please the ones they love. Once a mare feels secure in her bond with you, she will go out of her way to show you affection and loyalty. Mares are incredibly sensitive animals; they are in tune with your emotions, energy, and needs. If they love you, they will try to make you happy in their own way, whether it’s through affection, cooperation, or simply being by your side. They want to see you happy because their love is deep and genuine.
This love goes beyond simple obedience—it’s about connection. When a mare truly loves her human companion, she will show a level of emotional intimacy and trust that is rare. She may nuzzle you, follow you without being led, or offer calmness when you’re feeling stressed. These are the signs of a bond built on love, respect, and deep care. And when a mare loves you, that bond is something sacred.
Why this Matters in Zoophile Relationships
When you have a loving and caring relationship with a mare, especially as a zoophile, it’s important to recognize that the bond is personal and special, just like how mares choose their stallion. Letting others get too close or involved in the same intimate way can confuse the mare and damage the unique bond you’ve worked so hard to build.
Remember, mares are pleasers—they want to make the ones they love happy. If you allow others into that close relationship, it might not only upset the mare emotionally but also strain her natural desire to please you. She could feel torn between you and others, which could weaken the love and connection you share. Mares don’t have the human capacity to understand the same complex emotional situations, so protecting the bond you have with your mare is essential for her well-being and happiness.
When your mare loves you, she is trusting you with her heart. That trust and love should be respected by keeping the relationship between you two strong and exclusive. Just as a mare picks a stallion she loves and stays loyal to him, she will do the same with you. It’s your responsibility to protect that love and not allow others to interfere.
