So if ppl are like this and lie how will I ever know if they’re telling the truth and if they really have a dog that want to breed? Definitely don’t wanna be put in too much of a dangerous situation.
This might sound like I'm being a dick and harsh and all that, but I'm really not trying to be either.
The simple answer to how you will ever know is........you'll learn thru experience, same as everyone else. That's how anyone, ever, learns anything.
Take your time, as in don't rush into things immediately, not take your time as in never actually DO anything, as some folks on here are doing and having no success, shockingly........
Chat with people here, take part in whatever conversations are happening in the threads around here that interest you. DON'T spam the board with 50,000 questions that everyone has already asked 200 times (because people will then start to tune you out entirely). The site has a search feature, use it to find things you're interested in knowing.
If you LOOK, you'll see that everyone here has a number of posts, however many posts they have made (the ones that count toward that number)......click on that number and you go to THAT members post history. LEARN to do that almost automatically. Look at the post history of ANYONE and EVERYONE, and ESPECIALLY any people you are chatting with or considering chatting with privately.
People here are going to bullshit you in ways you can't even imagine right now. A BIG factor in knowing that they ARE bullshitting you is getting a feel for who that person is based on whatever they have been saying here when they AREN'T talking to YOU. Trust me, you'll learn more about someone knowing what they have previously said to people when they are NOT talking to YOU. Liars lie, and the easiest way to see if someone IS lying is to look what they have been telling people they AREN'T trying to scam directly.
OR conversely, if they have a history of saying one thing to one person, and something completely different to another person and many times, you'll see MULTIPLE examples of scumbags doing exaxctly that.
There are a thousand other things that go into not getting conned here by some internet clown, but looking at that post history is your #1 defense against that. That's why we HAVE the ability to see it. USE IT.
#1 check the post history.
#2 DO NOT let people pressure you into doing anything you don't feel warm and fuzzy about doing. Anyone gets pushy, drop their ass immediately.
#3 KEEP your personal information and details SECRET. TELL NO ONE. Public OR private. That includes IDENTIFIABLE pictures you might post.
#4 over time, you will develop a sense of when someone is bullshitting you or lying. Your gut instincts will kick in. I don't always follow my gut, but I NEVER ignore it, neither should you, or anyone.
#5 Dont be afraid to chat with people or otherwise interact. If you don't, right where you are now is where you'll always be. Just be smart and be cautious about what you do and when.
There are people here who SAY they want to meet others, but can't get out of their own way long enough to actually do that. You also have people here who meet or are willing to meet others without the slightest fucking clue about their own safety and well being. Aim somewhere between those 2 extremes.