That girl at the gym

[Hugh Jasole]

Okay I’m putting up my first thread, wish me luck ??‍?
Anyway, at my gym there is a stunning young lady, works on her self all day, not very approachable, most certainly in her “own space”.
She does attract attention from all the “meat heads” and it’s quite often shut down quickly, only interaction with trainers and a very select few.
About 5’5” sun kissed skin, dark shiny hair, lip enhancements that compliment her pretty smile.
To try and make my long story short, I never considered “shooting my shot” BUT our trainers had us in the same room the other day and I was finally able to notice DISTINCT paw print tattoos on her hip bones trailing off toward her “lady bits”.
So, do I try and chat her up, or do I attempt a subtle hint that we may share a common interest?
Any advice is welcome and of course I know there will be flaming and plenty of bad opinions, but feel free to throw them all at me lol.
Thanks in advance!

 

[1spyro]

Okay I’m putting up my first thread, wish me luck ??‍?
Anyway, at my gym there is a stunning young lady, works on her self all day, not very approachable, most certainly in her “own space”.
She does attract attention from all the “meat heads” and it’s quite often shut down quickly, only interaction with trainers and a very select few.
About 5’5” sun kissed skin, dark shiny hair, lip enhancements that compliment her pretty smile.
To try and make my long story short, I never considered “shooting my shot” BUT our trainers had us in the same room the other day and I was finally able to notice DISTINCT paw print tattoos on her hip bones trailing off toward her “lady bits”.
So, do I try and chat her up, or do I attempt a subtle hint that we may share a common interest?
Any advice is welcome and of course I know there will be flaming and plenty of bad opinions, but feel free to throw them all at me lol.
Thanks in advance!

to have a tattoo in this place is clearly a sign I do not see who of not zoo would make a tattoo in intimate places especially at the level of where the dog's paws are placed when he rides

here is my opinion if you want to discuss it I am available

 

[nekdoneco123]

you'll most likely chalk me off as "flamer/hater" and give in to the thirsty folk, but you should read this anyway:

even if she is a zoo (which i highly doubt, a tattoo doesn't necessarily mean anything), how is it your business?

 

[dartel]

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[temporaryacc]

I can promise you no woman who’s just trying to exercise wants to have a sexually charged conversation with you. Especially one that’s viewed as evil and ILLEGAL. Leave her the fuck alone.

 

[temporaryacc]

I can promise you no woman who’s just trying to exercise wants to have a sexually charged conversation with you. Especially one that’s viewed as evil and ILLEGAL. Leave her the fuck alone.

Also the fact you need to describe her appearance is very fucking telling.

Feminist rant over ?

Fuck it I need like 20 cigs and I don’t even smoke ?

 

[shaayuMIO]

at my gym there is a stunning young lady, works on her self all day, not very approachable, most certainly in her “own space”.

i can assure you she wants nothing to do with you, let her work out in peace. she's there to work out, not to be hit on by weirdos.

 

[temporaryacc]

i can assure you she wants nothing to do with you, let her work out in peace. she's there to work out, not to be hit on by weirdos.

I wish I could broadcast “leave her/him alone” to every weirdo in the world. Would they listen? Probably not

 

[shaayuMIO]

I wish I could broadcast “leave her/him alone” to every weirdo in the world. Would they listen? Probably not

when do creeps ever listen? :/ they care more about their little boner than having basic respect towards others trying to go on about their day.

 

[temporaryacc]

when do creeps ever listen? :/ they care more about their little boner than having basic respect towards others trying to go on about their day.

I’ve met female creeps too (mostly men though). I was one for a bit until people gave me a good talking too. I hope someday someone will reach through to people.

I genuinely feel porn is what made this a worse thing. Porn has been proven to change our brains, and not for the positive.

 

[tomcatf14]

Fuck it dude. As long as you approach at the right time and in a respectful way then try to make small talk. You'll know if she wants to talk to you anymore in about 2 seconds. If you make it past the initial approach then you can say that you noticed her tattoo and ask about her dog. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Wayne Gretzky. -Michael Scott

 

[UR20Z]

So, do I try and chat her up, or do I attempt a subtle hint that we may share a common interest?

No. You put your dick back in your pants and leave her the hell alone.
See also HERE

Or perhaps better yet: Yes, definitely go for it. Now that I think about it, that DOES sound like the best option. One can hope that she castrates you, then when they hand you your balls in a jar, maybe that'll teach you to start thinking with the head on your shoulders, rather than the one in your pants.

 

[shaayuMIO]

Fuck it dude. As long as you approach at the right time and in a respectful way then try to make small talk.

or maybe he should just, i don't know, leave her alone??? women don't go to gyms to have horny creeps hit on them, we go there to *work out*. literally the whole point of a fucking gym. is it seriously so difficult to let a woman work out in peace? christ...

 

[tomcatf14]

or maybe he should just, i don't know, leave her alone??? women don't go to gyms to have horny creeps hit on them, we go there to *work out*. literally the whole point of a fucking gym. is it seriously so difficult to let a woman work out in peace? christ...

I'm not encouraging him to harass the woman and I'm definitely not advocating leading with "Hey, do you like fucking dogs?" I'm saying to be smart about it. If he can strike up a conversation organically, taking her non-verbal cues into account, then why shouldn't he approach her?

 

[tamlilcat]

For Pete's sake leave her the hell alone. Those tats don't mean anything. That's all in your imagination.

 

[dartel]

If he can strike up a conversation organically, taking her non-verbal cues into account, then why shouldn't he approach her?

His description shows she's already made it abundantly clear that she doesn't want to be approached to strike up a conversation. Which he has recognized. Yet you're telling him to ignore that and "GO FOR IT!".

 

[donlooking]

The tats could be a college team emblem like the paws of the PSU and the Nitney paw prints. You could be totally off base on why she has them!!!

 

[Deleted member 76481]

Wtf is this thread? Did the sun finally reached the bottom of the horny-pit? So happy to see ZV being unanimously sane on topic like that.

And a needless answer to op - no, leave her business to herself

 

[Sofia]

I can promise you no woman who’s just trying to exercise wants to have a sexually charged conversation with you. Especially one that’s viewed as evil and ILLEGAL. Leave her the fuck alone.

You read my mind

 

[Mylittlesecret]

He's described her appearance because that's obviously the thing that first thing he noticed, and that's a perfectly normal thing to do in the absence of actual interaction. I'm not seeing how this relates to feminism...

I do agree with your previous post though. It sounds like she get a lot of unwanted attention, and the OP has already pointed this out... So maybe don't go bothering her unless she's given you a signal to.

However, if she HAS given you a clear signal, go over and talk to her. I've been in this situation before and I went over and said something like, "when you're done showing me up, can I use the squat rack after you?". She laughed, we got talking, became friends and had a casual thing for a while.

IF you got to this stage, you could softly ask about her tattoos. Most people get tattoos for a reason. They have meaning. So maybe tell her you noticed them, you like them and ask her what they mean to her. This is perfectly normal thing to ask somebody and it shows interest. You could follow up by asking if she has any pets.

This is a best case scenario and only something you should do if she shows interest in you.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[Mylittlesecret]

I'm not encouraging him to harass the woman and I'm definitely not advocating leading with "Hey, do you like fucking dogs?" I'm saying to be smart about it. If he can strike up a conversation organically, taking her non-verbal cues into account, then why shouldn't he approach her?

I see what you're saying and agree.

If she makes a move, or signals that's she's interested in talking, then go for it. Be respectful.

 

[cynofile]

 

[valleyyote]

As I read through this I could see exactly why there are now and have been for some time female only gyms. A large percentage of guys that work out are less than polite to the ladies and do tend to think with their ding dong and tend to ogle the females. This is really a stupid question to even have to ask and all the wild assumptions that are being thrown around by you are truly astounding. Just walk the other way and go wank off in the privacy of your own dwelling. Someone as good looking as you describe her most likely already has a partner and it could very well be another lady. Best to just bugger off as the Brits say. The ones here telling you to go for it are not giving you any good advice.

 

[dixon_zeta]

leave the poor girl alone...if she was interested in you, youd know. shes there to work out and honestly i bet she doesnt appreciate ogling eyes even if you dont speak

 

[Dalone14]

Don’t, leave her alone, walk away and don’t be creepy.

 

[Miss_Rachel]

I think it may have been Wordsworth: "One paw-print tattoo does not a zoophile make..." I have known many ladies with tattoos and none of them were devil worshipers or anything. I would tell you to mind your own business were it me. Leave her alone, she has made it clear that she doesn't like being hit on.

 

[eskaerjp]

or maybe he should just, i don't know, leave her alone??? women don't go to gyms to have horny creeps hit on them, we go there to *work out*. literally the whole point of a fucking gym. is it seriously so difficult to let a woman work out in peace? christ...

lol bruh people like to make friends with similar hobbies, i always chat it up with whoever at the gym given the chance and nobody ever gets shitty about it.

id just ask her if someone was using the equipment near her to get her ipods out and then give her a quick compliment on her shoes or whatever, then next time when you see her she'll remember you and you can just make eye contact and nod or whatever, dont need to talk more every time. eventually youll get a natural chance to strike it up and be gym buddies, and theennnnn who knows

 

[temporaryacc]

lol bruh people like to make friends with similar hobbies, i always chat it up with whoever at the gym given the chance and nobody ever gets shitty about it.

id just ask her if someone was using the equipment near her to get her ipods out and then give her a quick compliment on her shoes or whatever, then next time when you see her she'll remember you and you can just make eye contact and nod or whatever, dont need to talk more every time. eventually youll get a natural chance to strike it up and be gym buddies, and theennnnn who knows

That’s normal friendliness and basic respect and kindness. But what this person wants to do is NOT that. He’s trying to bond over a SEXUAL thing. One that can get you in a lot of social and LEGAL trouble.

Enjoy the gym. And don’t fucking run the risk of outting others or creeping on them. Genuinely not that fucking hard.

 

[shortleash]

talking to people at your gym...why...ask her if she wants to get a drink outside your gym and see what she says...i guarentee she will tell you right away....

 

[Jmmp2803]

No offense buddy but if she is a zoo (which paw prints are certainly not proof of) and she’s pretty closed at the gym, she probably won’t appreciate you shooting your shot, especially if you insinuate she’s fucking her dog. If you’re wrong, she’ll think you’re disgusting and if you’re right she’ll be extremely angry and embarrassed.