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boston_bo said:
your so right there, i know only to well, from all the guys i turn down, they all think they have the right, really wish i could find some of the girls that used to come see me in the BF days
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Not sure who they were....some good lookers among them, but they werent running in my circles mostly....But there ought to be a few of them....
 
The reality of thatbis theyre cheating themselves....I know ladies who would let me film, but generally they wouldnt want to lose control of the product....because some dummies would crawl up their bottoms in a heartbeat....and those clods dont let go.
 
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underdoge said:
I think the issues you mentioned are strengths too. Acting more naturally rather than composing posts conveys some information that would otherwise be hidden about who that person is. It's like how meeting someone in person adds a whole new dimension via body language. People's impromptu responses are less obscured and more expressive. When I socialize I'm really trying to figure out if someone is safe and more information gives me more to work with, cross check things against, chances for something to be revealed that is beneath the mask. Chaos is good.

Forum threads don't even talk about individuals that much. They have to have a topic that is relevant to everyone. You probably won't find a thread where you can share your promotion that day or your argument with your GF even if that's what you're all excited / upset about. That goes to PMs which is basically chat but throttled in speed.

If you want to know how someone thinks then forums are probably the best. If you want to get to know someone personally beast.chat cannot be beat.
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How do you get included in beast.chat?
 
Justalittleblue said:
How do you get included in beast.chat?
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You start by actually being on the right thread and reading the requirements, since you don't meet them yet

Beast Chat Sign ups

(Thread rehashed. Added over 50 more from the last thread.) Today I will be opening registration on Beast chat. But they will be made manually. Members that would like to join must be active on the forum. Being active is just joining discussions on posts and not just coming for content...
www.zoovilleforum.net www.zoovilleforum.net
 
JazzyPaws said:
You start by actually being on the right thread and reading the requirements, since you don't meet them yet

Beast Chat Sign ups

(Thread rehashed. Added over 50 more from the last thread.) Today I will be opening registration on Beast chat. But they will be made manually. Members that would like to join must be active on the forum. Being active is just joining discussions on posts and not just coming for content...
www.zoovilleforum.net www.zoovilleforum.net
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Ok... thanks. No need to be snarky! It was mentioned so I asked a question since I didn't know.
 
JazzyPaws said:
You start by actually being on the right thread and reading the requirements, since you don't meet them yet

Beast Chat Sign ups

(Thread rehashed. Added over 50 more from the last thread.) Today I will be opening registration on Beast chat. But they will be made manually. Members that would like to join must be active on the forum. Being active is just joining discussions on posts and not just coming for content...
www.zoovilleforum.net www.zoovilleforum.net
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Honestly this is a big reason why people don't comment, chat, get involved. Some of you that have been around a while are downright rude. I get it, it sucks seeing some of the things that people do but you can't complain about people's lack of involvement but then respond like a jerk when people ask about getting more involved, or just in general try to contribute. I comment on things here and there but I HATE, shallow responses just for the sake of responding. I don't feel that gives anyone a level of authenticity when you see someone run around making 1 and 2 word comments just for the sake of "participating". You really can't get to know anyone on a forum. I am looking for friends above anything else. I don't know of anyone in my real life that would even begin to understand or accept this part of me and I'm not willing to burn my life down in order to find them, same as most people that have alternative interests of any kind. There are many of us that are kind, genuine people just trying to figure out where we fit in the world, just trying to find people that don't make us feel like freaks. I am a genuine woman and this isn't really a safe place for me to comment because any comments I do make, I get flooded with messages. Really, I'm quite surprised at the tone of your response to me after looking at the way you respond in a good number of your other posts.
 
Justalittleblue said:
Honestly this is a big reason why people don't comment, chat, get involved. Some of you that have been around a while are downright rude. I get it, it sucks seeing some of the things that people do but you can't complain about people's lack of involvement but then respond like a jerk when people ask about getting more involved, or just in general try to contribute. I comment on things here and there but I HATE, shallow responses just for the sake of responding. I don't feel that gives anyone a level of authenticity when you see someone run around making 1 and 2 word comments just for the sake of "participating". You really can't get to know anyone on a forum. I am looking for friends above anything else. I don't know of anyone in my real life that would even begin to understand or accept this part of me and I'm not willing to burn my life down in order to find them, same as most people that have alternative interests of any kind. There are many of us that are kind, genuine people just trying to figure out where we fit in the world, just trying to find people that don't make us feel like freaks. I am a genuine woman and this isn't really a safe place for me to comment because any comments I do make, I get flooded with messages. Really, I'm quite surprised at the tone of your response to me after looking at the way you respond in a good number of your other posts.
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Yeah...
There's brutally rude people like that in every community, but... i can't lie and say it doesn't feel worse here.
I guess im used to it from dealing with a lot in real life too, but it still sucks to see it.
 
JazzyPaws said:
Finding a genuine person at all is a pain, but I especially feel for the real women of this board, who have to deal with hounding from a certain type of.... Individual.
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I don't look, if you're interesting enough they come to you.

I all ways followed the philosophy of you can't please every one, and if you try you just become pathetic and a fake. So be you ya it'll piss some one off but fuck that guy, I'd rather be an honest ass hole than a fake shell of a man.

and I would like to think most people can appreciate that, even if they hate you !
 
OffgridK9lover said:
I don't look, if you're interesting enough they come to you.

I all ways followed the philosophy of you can't please every one, and if you try you just become pathetic and a fake. So be you ya it'll piss some one off but fuck that guy, I'd rather be an honest ass hole than a fake shell of a man.

and I would like to think most people can appreciate that, even if they hate you !
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A little louder, for the ones in the back!
 
Justalittleblue said:
Honestly this is a big reason why people don't comment, chat, get involved. Some of you that have been around a while are downright rude. I get it, it sucks seeing some of the things that people do but you can't complain about people's lack of involvement but then respond like a jerk when people ask about getting more involved, or just in general try to contribute. I comment on things here and there but I HATE, shallow responses just for the sake of responding. I don't feel that gives anyone a level of authenticity when you see someone run around making 1 and 2 word comments just for the sake of "participating". You really can't get to know anyone on a forum. I am looking for friends above anything else. I don't know of anyone in my real life that would even begin to understand or accept this part of me and I'm not willing to burn my life down in order to find them, same as most people that have alternative interests of any kind. There are many of us that are kind, genuine people just trying to figure out where we fit in the world, just trying to find people that don't make us feel like freaks. I am a genuine woman and this isn't really a safe place for me to comment because any comments I do make, I get flooded with messages. Really, I'm quite surprised at the tone of your response to me after looking at the way you respond in a good number of your other posts.
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part of it is a filter, you got to be emotionally mature and tuff in the world, if some one can't handle a bit of snark or sarcasm then well move along.

I can't speak for the one whom replied to you, but that is how I view it.

We're not tumbler and actively do not want to be any thing like it.

but the rest I'd agree with, if it is worth saying it aut to have a point.

You be you, and all. Sorry for the horny net trolls, I really wish women had the ability to beat them with a lead pipe over the internet
 
Justalittleblue said:
Honestly this is a big reason why people don't comment, chat, get involved. Some of you that have been around a while are downright rude. I get it, it sucks seeing some of the things that people do but you can't complain about people's lack of involvement but then respond like a jerk when people ask about getting more involved, or just in general try to contribute. I comment on things here and there but I HATE, shallow responses just for the sake of responding. I don't feel that gives anyone a level of authenticity when you see someone run around making 1 and 2 word comments just for the sake of "participating". You really can't get to know anyone on a forum. I am looking for friends above anything else. I don't know of anyone in my real life that would even begin to understand or accept this part of me and I'm not willing to burn my life down in order to find them, same as most people that have alternative interests of any kind. There are many of us that are kind, genuine people just trying to figure out where we fit in the world, just trying to find people that don't make us feel like freaks. I am a genuine woman and this isn't really a safe place for me to comment because any comments I do make, I get flooded with messages. Really, I'm quite surprised at the tone of your response to me after looking at the way you respond in a good number of your other posts.
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1. Yep I was a little snarky, and blunt.

2. Youre reading way to deep into it. Read a lot of my other posts here before you go off the deep end.

3. It's also a question that has a sticky in a very conspicuous place, and search is a thing people seem to forget.
 
dogluver101 said:
Sometimes its quiet in the chat. But usually depends on the time of day. Over time before registration was closed off it's been filled with people signing up and then never coming back, and most of them were just trying to find someone or just leaving if the chat isn't flaming with messages. I'm having a feeling the process is almost the same now when giving out tokens. I know I take several weeks to get to everyone, but I like to build up enough to send a bulk of tokens out so its not just sending one at a time.
May be I should advertise there's video and audio chats. But I leave that for the members to see.
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I'm signed up but haven't gone over yet because I'm on my phone at work for another 8 days or so, but I do plan on going over once I'm home and can sit on my laptop in private.

Since I haven't been over yet, I don't know what it's like or how it's formatted.

Are there different rooms?

Also what is the possibility of having a more private "zoo" room that participants are more vetted based on where they spend their time here, where they post, how they post, etc?

I'm just down for good conversation with good people that doesn't have to be sexual in nature.
 
Justalittleblue said:
Honestly this is a big reason why people don't comment, chat, get involved. Some of you that have been around a while are downright rude. I get it, it sucks seeing some of the things that people do but you can't complain about people's lack of involvement but then respond like a jerk when people ask about getting more involved, or just in general try to contribute. I comment on things here and there but I HATE, shallow responses just for the sake of responding. I don't feel that gives anyone a level of authenticity when you see someone run around making 1 and 2 word comments just for the sake of "participating". You really can't get to know anyone on a forum. I am looking for friends above anything else. I don't know of anyone in my real life that would even begin to understand or accept this part of me and I'm not willing to burn my life down in order to find them, same as most people that have alternative interests of any kind. There are many of us that are kind, genuine people just trying to figure out where we fit in the world, just trying to find people that don't make us feel like freaks. I am a genuine woman and this isn't really a safe place for me to comment because any comments I do make, I get flooded with messages. Really, I'm quite surprised at the tone of your response to me after looking at the way you respond in a good number of your other posts.
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Very well said and well thought out.
 
JazzyPaws said:
1. Yep I was a little snarky, and blunt.

2. Youre reading way to deep into it. Read a lot of my other posts here before you go off the deep end.

3. It's also a question that has a sticky in a very conspicuous place, and search is a thing people seem to forget.
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Not going off the deep end in any way. Just pointing out that your response is a good reason why people don't say anything, considering that is the topic of conversation after all. There is alot on the page, I read alot however, I don't spend all of my time on here. Sticky or not, i obviously missed it or considering I have been on the page for a while, I didn't remember seeing it. It's like that sometimes. There was no reason to be snarky but you proved your own point and it speaks more to your character than mine. ?‍♀️
 
Justalittleblue said:
Not going off the deep end in any way. Just pointing out that your response is a good reason why people don't say anything, considering that is the topic of conversation after all. There is alot on the page, I read alot however, I don't spend all of my time on here. Sticky or not, i obviously missed it or considering I have been on the page for a while, I didn't remember seeing it. It's like that sometimes. There was no reason to be snarky but you proved your own point and it speaks more to your character than mine. ?‍♀️
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I have no delusions about my character. Most of those I speak to I have wonderful conversations with.

The search doesn't require time spent, it's just there.

And that's fine. You can form your opinion based on a MILDLY snarky response, or you can do some reading on my profile and judge that, your call. That tells me what kind of character YOU are.
 
OffgridK9lover said:
part of it is a filter, you got to be emotionally mature and tuff in the world, if some one can't handle a bit of snark or sarcasm then well move along.

I can't speak for the one whom replied to you, but that is how I view it.

We're not tumbler and actively do not want to be any thing like it.

but the rest I'd agree with, if it is worth saying it aut to have a point.

You be you, and all. Sorry for the horny net trolls, I really wish women had the ability to beat them with a lead pipe over the internet
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Oh agreed! Believe me, I can handle the snark and sarcasm. I communicate well that way ? however, there is a time and place for everything ya know. And considering it was on topic and this person is trying to put it all out there of why people dont respnd and pointed the finger at everyone "doing things wrong" figured it was a good time to point out that maybe some people should be doing a little self reflection. ESPECIALLY while trying to explain things.
 
JazzyPaws said:
I have no delusions about my character. Most of those I speak to I have wonderful conversations with.

The search doesn't require time spent, it's just there.

And that's fine. You can form your opinion based on a MILDLY snarky response, or you can do some reading on my profile and judge that, your call. That tells me what kind of character YOU are.
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What's the point in having a whole post about people not responding when you are literally telling me DON'T ask a question use search instead!?!?! A little contradicting don't ya think? I can search absolutely everything in this forum and then would never feel the need to say anything because its all been said before. Just because I didn't do things the way YOU felt should be done... and instead tried to involve myself and participate in the conversation. Like I said, your character, not mine.
 
Justalittleblue said:
What's the point in having a whole post about people not responding when you are literally telling me DON'T ask a question use search instead!?!?! A little contradicting don't ya think? I can search absolutely everything in this forum and then would never feel the need to say anything because its all been said before. Just because I didn't do things the way YOU felt should be done... and instead tried to involve myself and participate in the conversation. Like I said, your character, not mine.
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Talking about people responding to chats. Not here on the forums, unless a chat has happened there isn't anything to search. Maybe you didn't understand the main post?

I didn't say don't ask a question, I basically said the answer is easy to find if you just look.

But you're the one yelling ?
 
Justalittleblue said:
What's the point in having a whole post about people not responding when you are literally telling me DON'T ask a question use search instead!?!?! A little contradicting don't ya think? I can search absolutely everything in this forum and then would never feel the need to say anything because its all been said before. Just because I didn't do things the way YOU felt should be done... and instead tried to involve myself and participate in the conversation. Like I said, your character, not mine.
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Just going to throw this out there, and after reading everything, I think this is a case of possibly miscommunication of tone.

In other words, I don't think this is a case where anyone really meant anything shitty, yet is going off the rails when it doesn't need to.

Just my opinion anyways..
 
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